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Xiadnat:
You cannot make anyone fall in or profess love with you.

You are doing all these things for him and he has not noticed (or have but ignoring), and has not made a move that you want him to. Thats because he just doesnt feel it not because he doesnt notice the things you do.

He is prolly professing love or pinning after a girl who gives not even rats ass about him.

That's the irony of life. We often ignore those in front of us and go those out of reach.


You have 2 options: continue doing these out of goodness of your heart until you tire or retreat and save the energy for the man who will care.

Funny thing is tho: later on, if you are truly a good person, the person will return after they realize they made a mistake...... too often too late.


Get to stepping, no need vocalizing anything to him. He knows, he just doesnt care as much you do or as much as you want him too.

Such is life.

I don't buy this idea, this Nigerian mentality has got to stop, many people have lost out on great relationships because of this mindset.

So she tells him and he says no she moves on at least she made a move

ItsQuinn:
A lady should never make the first move, only the guys are supposed to do that....all you have to do is to be patient and find alternatives (don't put all your eggs in one basket) until him or one of the alternatives approach you first. Never catch feelings or fall in love until the guy catch feelings first or fall in love first

And when the guy catches feelings first and profess to the lady, then the b**tch in the lady will now remember how to activate hard to get mode. SMH

Hahaha! No naa you got it wrong

Adeinfo:
And when the guy catches feelings first and profess to the lady, then the b**tch in the lady will now remember how to activate hard to get mode. SMH

ItsQuinn:
A lady should never make the first move, only the guys are supposed to do that....all you have to do is to be patient and find alternatives (don't put all your eggs in one basket) until him or one of the alternatives approach you first. Never catch feelings or fall in love until the guy catch feelings first or fall in love first

quite funny...your reasoning tho

ItsQuinn:
Hahaha! No naa you got it wrong

Lil r u sure I got that wrong?

That dude noticed all ur care and attention. I tink he dnt wnt 2 capitalize on ur kind gesture, u kw. He takes u like a sister & he wuldnt like 2 embarras himself wen he tries 2 give in. Before u make such move u gat b sure dt u ar pretty to attract him & always appear good wen goin 2 vst him. Talk 2 him hw u feel ok.

Yes it is

gabi101:
quite funny...your reasoning tho

Yes you did, I didn't mention she should play hard to get when he confesses his love for her did I?

Adeinfo:
Lil r u sure I got that wrong?

BrightEye:
If you love somebody, walk up to am, tell am you love am...

because no crime, no crime at all..

don't force anyone into loving u

let it grow naturally

ItsQuinn:
Yes you did, I didn't mention she should play hard to get when he confesses his love for her did I?

hmm.. you and I knows how the game rolls

No I don't

Adeinfo:
hmm.. you and I knows how the game rolls

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Maybe he is watching your game whether you are spurious lass or not.