RoyalBlak007:
Your money is yours

Mine money is mine. My mind. But marriage issues plenty and e no dy get simple solutions.

sinaj:
The woman is right jore



His money is ours while my money is mine

Benita27:
I couldn't speak because of the crowd and i was shy, lol.

The man's money is "our" money, while my money is mine, but, if a need arises and he isn't around or is broke i can assist.

About the Joint account, it's a No! No!! For me, we have to run separate accounts while he will have to give me one of his ATM cards, accounts will be made on expenditures if he cares to know.

daewoorazer:
TrapQueen77 ...is my money ours and urs just urs?

Benita27:
I couldn't speak because of the crowd and i was shy, lol.

The man's money is "our" money, while my money is mine, but, if a need arises and he isn't around or is broke i can assist.

About the Joint account, it's a No! No!! For me, we have to run separate accounts while he will have to give me one of his ATM cards, accounts will be made on expenditures if he cares to know.

LordIsaac:
Gender discrimination and hypocrisy from predatory females... Manipulating men and very selfish since stone age. Our grand parents confined women to the kitchen; women fought that ideology and some were emancipated. They got educated and became employed but would never see the need to be providers too. Why then were they educated since it profited nothing...?

TrapQueen77:




I like that idea.... Wife shud be the one controlling the flow of the money in the house



Well, booboo how much u earned?

daewoorazer:


But babe... U know I give u my payslip every month... You are d one in charge of my salary.. Don't ridicule me outside na

Muafrika2:


Actually, in the pre westernised African society, women worked on the land and traded to take care of the family. It's only that the land was not considered theirs. Men spent their days making laws, judging and taking bear

Muafrika2:


Actually, in the pre westernised African society, women worked on the land and traded to take care of the family. It's only that the land was not considered theirs. Men spent their days making laws, judging and taking bear

MMotimo:
The money from both partners is "our money" regardless of who makes more or less and each person has equal right to the pot
"And the two shall become one" in all things, including finances and possessions

Should couples operate joint accounts? Depends on whom you married
Ideally, they should but if you married a wakabout or a keeping up with the Joneses type or . . . . . (fill in the blank) that might be a bad idea

LordIsaac:
W
Wrong. My grandfather had cocoa farms... My grandma always takes care of him when he returned evenings!

eyinjuege:
The only people that can do my money is mine and yours is ours and get away with it are those ones that have married into money.

They can afford to do that.

The reality of marriage begins to dawn on people within a year of getting into it.

raumdeuter:


So if he is never broke or always around, What are your own financial responsibilities to your own family? Or you are telling us you have none?

So what is your own investment into a family, husband and kids you call yours?


Yet people wonder why men treat women like that as inferior to them? If you cant spend your own money on your own family then what is your contribution to the house

jobnation:

Just pray make i no marry you, hmm

Benita27:
Lol.
Even in the Bible our responsibilities where shared, the man was made the provider and protector of his family while women where asked to be submissive, but it still doesn't mean i won't contribute to my family welfare.

raumdeuter:


You mean you will be a wife, and someone will provide and protect you what then do you give back to the family?

Did your bible tell you that people drove cars, watched TV or used internet? Then why are you doing things not stated in the bible?

Benita27:
What did i leave my family name to take up his for, if not to be provided for and protected?. And like i said earlier, his money is ours.

raumdeuter:


Then will you be offended if he treats you like a property he acquired?

Benita27:
He can't, because i will marry someone who has same values as i do.

raumdeuter:


And this values include you keeping your money while he spends his on you. DIdnt they send you to school just like they sent him? or are you handicapped?