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MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Loyalblak007(op):
So there is this certain Lecturer in my department,mid 40's i guess huh.After submitting a group assignment to him in his office...he asked me to sit then he told me "He just wants to have Me as a friend and daughter because I seem to be more matured and jovial" I was frozen for about 10seconds shocked Then he laughed and asked if I was scared...

So he went on explaining how I remind him of his only daughter who's in boarding school and how much he adores her and stuffs like that(he even showed me some of their pictures together...including his wife)...Then we went on chatting and gisting for about 20mins before I left his office..He seem to be a very good father due to some things I picked up during our conversation.


So I just want some matured opinions..is it wrong to be friends with your Lecturer?
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by HungerBAD: 11:31pm On Oct 12, 2016
There is no way a man and a woman can be "ordinary" friends,without that sexual thing being there- HungerBAD 2016.
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by FvckShiT(m): 11:31pm On Oct 12, 2016
Some lecturers are fûcking Crappy angry
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by FvckShiT(m): 11:32pm On Oct 12, 2016
Whatever happens....don't fûcking fūck him grin
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Nobody: 11:33pm On Oct 12, 2016
The person below me will answer u
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by ogorwyne(f): 11:38pm On Oct 12, 2016
Gal above, if u don't have contributions to stuff abeg dey waka pass.

OP, sup with all the 'her, her, her' in ur post? Are we talking about a man or a woman here?

You said he seems to be a good 'father', biko you already have a dad, no replacement. Just be very careful, tales like this don't always end well. Avoid him.
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Nobody: 11:39pm On Oct 12, 2016
Errm op, but you ain't no kid you knw tat... He wana fūck you , if he wants you as daughter then he should adopt you as a legal daughter not school daughter oo grin
Him go blast your punnani last last if you accept or your marks will suffer it kiss
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by chris2face(m): 11:42pm On Oct 12, 2016
I have got nothing to say may be the poster below could be of help
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Loyalblak007(op): 11:47pm On Oct 12, 2016
ogorwyne:
Gal above, if u don't have contributions to stuff abeg dey waka pass.

OP, sup with all the 'her, her, her' in ur post? Are we talking about a man or a woman here?

You said he seems to be a good 'father', biko you already have a dad, no replacement. Just be very careful, tales like this don't always end well. Avoid him.
thanks
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Loyalblak007(op): 11:49pm On Oct 12, 2016
chris2face:
I have got nothing to say may be the poster below could be of help
It would have been better if you moved on to the next thread

Instead of displaying...
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by McBrooklyn(m): 12:25am On Oct 13, 2016
The fúcking lecturer wants to start hitting your pussy in the very right way cheesy wink tongue
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by ElsonMorali: 12:31am On Oct 13, 2016
How can you remind him of his kid in boarding? Are you and the kid the same age ne?

Soon the two of you will be exchanging bodily fluids and I'm not talking blood transfusion.

My advice? Avoid him at all cost but don't make it obvious that you're trying to avoid him.
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by dikeigbo2(m): 12:38am On Oct 13, 2016
All these sleeky lecturers eeh...like play like play they catch monkey....wise up
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Greenbullet(m): 12:58am On Oct 13, 2016
one day bushmeat go catch d hunter(*2) one day bush meat go SCATTER d hunter ooh SCATTER d hunter.
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Nobody: 2:58am On Oct 13, 2016
Op is that not you in your dp? You're not even all that yet you keep coming up with lame 'this person wants me, that person wants me' BS.

Iranu
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Lsofdk(m): 3:30am On Oct 13, 2016
ogorwyne:
Gal above, if u don't have contributions to stuff abeg dey waka pass.

OP, sup with all the 'her, her, her' in ur post? Are we talking about a man or a woman here?

You said he seems to be a good 'father', biko you already have a dad, no replacement. Just be very careful, tales like this don't always end well. Avoid him.
[color=teal]lol @bolded no chills… you haven't been around for sometime now, it's sort of a new trend to help cripple perceived jamb question asking threadsgrin

good morningsmiley how've you been?[/color]
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by udysweet(f): 5:03am On Oct 13, 2016
HungerBAD:
There is no way a man and a woman can be "ordinary" friends,without that sexual thing being there- HungerBAD 2016.
Its possible sir o jare grin grin grin
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by ogorwyne(f): 6:06am On Oct 13, 2016
Lsofdk:
[color=teal]lol @bolded no chills… you haven't been around for sometime now, it's sort of a new trend to help cripple perceived jamb question asking threadsgrin

good morningsmiley how've you been?[/color]
Its kinda annoying sometimes sha.

Been good o, how abt u? Goodmorning
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Laveda(f): 6:21am On Oct 13, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Op is that not you in your dp? You're not even all that yet you keep coming up with lame 'this person wants me, that person wants me' BS.

Iranu
grin
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Loyalblak007(op): 9:56am On Oct 13, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Op is that not you in your dp? You're not even all that yet you keep coming up with lame 'this person wants me, that person wants me' BS.

Iranu
So you actually viewed the dp

It's not a must you comment you know.... especially unreasonable comment grin
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Nobody: 9:59am On Oct 13, 2016
Loyalblak007:
So you actually viewed the dp

It's not a must you comment you know.... especially unreasonable comment grin
that's what dumb threads like this need
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Loyalblak007(op): 10:04am On Oct 13, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
that's what dumb threads like this need
Some opinions are bootless & don't count ...

You've been heard

Thanks.

smiley
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by chris2face(m): 10:13am On Oct 13, 2016
Loyalblak007:
It would have been better if you moved on to the next thread
Instead of displaying...
U think so anyway no problem got ur message
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Nobody: 10:22am On Oct 13, 2016
Loyalblak007:
Some opinions are bootless & don't count ...

You've been heard

Thanks.

smiley
you've been flushed down toilet long ago. No thanks
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Loyalblak007(op): 10:28am On Oct 13, 2016
Yet you still viewing cheesy cheesy
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Nobody: 10:50am On Oct 13, 2016
My dear it's not wrong to befriend a lecturer, as afar as you set some ground rules or boundaries, you are fine. smiley
Loyalblak007:
So there is this certain Lecturer in my department,mid 40's i guess huh.After submitting a group assignment to him in his office...he asked me to sit then he told me "He just wants to have Me as a friend and daughter because I seem to be more matured and jovial" I was frozen for about 10seconds shocked Then he laughed and asked if I was scared...

So he went on explaining how I remind him of his only daughter who's in boarding school and how much he adores her and stuffs like that(he even showed me some of their pictures together...including his wife)...Then we went on chatting and gisting for about 20mins before I left his office..He seem to be a very good father due to some things I picked up during our conversation.


So I just want some matured opinions..is it wrong to be friends with your Lecturer?
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by schumastic(m): 12:04pm On Oct 13, 2016
is wrong and a bad sign, you won't see it coming but when it does i just hope you can stand the heat..
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by pTomz(m): 12:10pm On Oct 13, 2016
OP so u can't detect a Hot person? E nor clear fr ya eye yet..
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Nobody: 12:12pm On Oct 13, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Op is that not you in your dp? You're not even all that yet you keep coming up with lame 'this person wants me, that person wants me' BS.

Iranu
Guy,you no get chill ogrin
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by Lsofdk(m): 2:52pm On Oct 13, 2016
ogorwyne:
Its kinda annoying sometimes sha.
Been good o, how abt u? Goodmorning
[color=teal]yeah, true
I've been good too [/color]
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by CplusJason: 3:17pm On Oct 13, 2016
Some lecturers are like GOATS.
Follow dem do friend, dem go wan chop your "YAM"


My advise; Keep your distance.
Re: MATURED ADVICE:A Lecturer Wants To Be My Friend by moiaimi(f): 5:27pm On Oct 13, 2016
Not all lecturers are bad so it depends on the type he is. If he is the randy type then stay away from him if he is not then there is no problem being friends with him.
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