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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 6:28am On Oct 13, 2016 |
checkengine: On your 2nd point, you got it wrong. The court will only divide the assets that were obtained during the marriage. So, whatever the man had before the marriage, he keeps it. But there are exceptions. If the title of the house is in his name and his wife's name, and he commits an offense that leads a judge to dissolve the marriage, the woman gets the house. |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by ABJ4Real(m): 6:31am On Oct 13, 2016 |
From time immemorial, women are known to have bitten the fingers that fed them, but the intensity at which they continue to bite those fingers today is worrisome. Why they are wired like this beats all imaginations. Men should always realize that a woman's critical nature doesn't disappear on her wedding day. Rather, the potential of becoming a demon or monster increases. As male leadership in marriage today is seen as 'unmerited and unwarranted dominion' which must be resisted, marriage will continue to be slavery for men. Especially men in the U.S.A. Unfair as the situation may be, that is what the society has painted. While condemning the brutal murders, women should be mindful of their excessive expectations and men should not allow emotion to destroy all they have laboured for. Also, some men need to stop thinking with their dicks. Please use brain. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by TOPCRUISE(m): 6:50am On Oct 13, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez:NO THEY ARE TRYING TO MAKE YOU BELIEVE THAT IF YOU MARRY AND IMPORT THE WRONG WOMAN TO THE US, YOU MIGHT JUST BE UNFORTUNATE AT THE END LIKE THOSE MEN |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Skmoda360(m): 6:58am On Oct 13, 2016 |
cold:i swear..... |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by ttmacoy: 7:03am On Oct 13, 2016 |
You really have no proof of that do you? That they loved and respected each other. He went to the village to marry her which suggests they didn't really even know each other so it's hard to conclude they loved and respected each other. She probably was excited to marry someone from abroad and he probably was happy to get a wife after so long. I agree there are instances where women act up after improving but many times the man is the one who lacks the maturity and self confidence to deal with it. i can easily see how he could be jealous and resentful after the girl he brought from the village is now earning more than him and more exposed while he has been here for 30 years? Nobleking2000: 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 7:06am On Oct 13, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: Matriachy already happened , there have been some womenbhead of the home nothing new. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 7:08am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Well it's only rampant in the US because the during the divorce the men usually suffer the most , in an economic sense killing the wife is much cheaper than a divorce, I have read tons of stories like this. |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Abiagirl777(f): 7:25am On Oct 13, 2016 |
I just wish it'd stop happening, if you are tired of your marriage just walk away and pls don't leave a man penniless,its suicidal. just recently my mum told me about our church girl,she just came back from rural Cameron to stay with one of our church brothers,very dirty,illiterate poor girl this family brushed up.unfortunately one of our deacons son fell in luv with this girl to the point of marrying her.just 3 mths later his papers arrived and he travelled abroad,his family was just managing and rily looked up to this guy.he later came back to take this girl abroad,put her in school she is about graduating as a nurse this year but the news came that she is threatening the guy with divorce if he doesn't allow her mother to come and live with them. the guys parents are late now and the church board tried to settle the issue and the girl opened her mouth to insult the same church that helped to cater for her welfare while in Nigeria. As it stands my guy is putting up with this girl just because of the 2 boys and the idea of starting all over again and yes mama is now living there.life can be cruel at times. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by dannie007(m): 7:25am On Oct 13, 2016 |
When you get married be the Head of your Home! Nigeria women are her without consciense after bringing you to America spending a wooping sum to send you to skool?!!!!! And later you Disrespect me your husband and control me? Walai I will not oonly kill her, her Family tree is Gone! Yeye dey smell! Very confused creatures ItsQuinn: 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by tonio2wo: 7:32am On Oct 13, 2016 |
havennie:Unfortunately, yes they will but the oversabi wives are been eaten by maggots. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by emvico(m): 7:42am On Oct 13, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez:they earn more than their husband and they look down on them. which made the men to kill them |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 7:49am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Non-believers Fourwinds: |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by steryj(m): 8:00am On Oct 13, 2016 |
IN EVERY INDIVIDUAL THERE IS A KILLER INSIDE. IT NEEDS A ERRING FELLOW TO UNMASK IT AND EMBRACE THE PURITY OF EVIL. |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by teeghurl(f): 8:51am On Oct 13, 2016 |
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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by naijafeminist: 8:52am On Oct 13, 2016 |
abike12: God bless you mightily. This has always bothered me too. Can men please make me understand their undying need to control another living, breathing, adult human being with brains who has the capacity to reason? Do they think it's that easy to follow someone's every other without thinking of self? Like, I don't get it. What do you gain? 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by naijafeminist: 8:53am On Oct 13, 2016 |
sunvick: But they killed them and still ended up in jail. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by teeghurl(f): 8:54am On Oct 13, 2016 |
pcguru1:seriously? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by naijafeminist: 8:59am On Oct 13, 2016 |
ABJ4Real: Are you really complaining about slavery in marriage? Lol, thank God you said in the US |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Excuzeme: 9:03am On Oct 13, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: That money is just a catalyst to the whole problem. Its a break down fo values and traditions, which they both WILLINGLY subscribed to, at the onset of the marriage, which the man invested-in heavily but the woman chose to abuse (because she is now loaded with money). Taking advantage of the US laws and stripping the man of all his belongings, event those he has acquired through hard work, decades before coming into contact with the wife, is another insult to his injuries. Bottomline, dont ever invest on a woman, just because you want her to be your wife! DONT INVEST WHAT YOU CANT FORGO! It will always come to that, if you both live abroad. And if everything fails, a quiet divorce should be the next thing. I know how difficult it is for a man, to lose all, just because the wife wants out. I hope women also will learn not to continually pay Evil for Good! There is just this much that " A man can take before he snaps". The Dead dont enjoy anything" And please, stop training your wives to become Registered Nurse.... it seems that job is a pill for bitter divorce! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by omonla10(m): 9:06am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Women find it difficult to manage success...... Give a man 1billion dollars. He still remains the same man u used to know. Give a woman 1billion dollars... She becomes something else. And this goes for a high % of women.. Ideally.. The husband is the head of the family... 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by sunvick(m): 9:07am On Oct 13, 2016 |
It's a lose lose situation. Ain't no winner dear. The satisfaction that she ain't there to torment him no more massages his ego in jail. **winks** naijafeminist: |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Chanchit: 9:29am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Bollinger: I just pity ur two boys cos you must have been teaching them not to use their brain, since yours is enough for both of them. |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Ngokafor(f): 9:43am On Oct 13, 2016 |
mnairaland: .....Okay sorry about the 'get a life' statement..it was uncalled for.. ......but you are still wrong with your postulations..This news is more of a dent on the Nigerian males rep than the other way round cis i know that foreigners read all we post on Nairaland and form their opinions about us from here too.A good number of them do not excuse gruesome murder like the average Nigerians does as you can see from this thread...fact. ..The truth of the matter is that it is only a wicked,controlling man who maltreats women or his wife that will be cautious like you said..there are countless Nigerian couples living amicably in the US because they respect eachother and the men are not control-freaks the way many are here, even those who do not contribute a dime to the up-keep of the home. ....because of the toxic environment in the name of culture in which the average Nigerian males are used to here which favours them...most of them find it difficult to cope and behave well in sane,normal soceity.They just seems to have a problem with everyone and everything!!... ..They come back home to marry because they believe that home girls are more amiable and can be bossed around easily than tear eye 'akatas' or oyinbo...fact!...and ofcourse their homebased wives have to study Nursing or be a Nurse when she gets to America simply because of the earning power of nurses in America...is that not predatory?. ..Anyway as Nigerian males are migrating to the US ,i can assure you that Nigerian ladies are too(i know a lot who will leave by December this year,both married and single)... ...Rather than whining about how they brought their wives to America only for her to 'misbehave'..i am of the opinion that Nigerian males should change their mindset about marriage giving them the 'lord and master title' regardless of how bad they are ....I know that most marriages of American women and Nigerian males ends in divorce as well..hence their(and the singles) rush back home,only to have same problems again..the fault is in you guys and not Nigerian women. ..have a good day. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by grodt999: 9:48am On Oct 13, 2016 |
The writer is an idiot, this sounds like something CNN will write. it should be SOME incidents of Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by buJu234: 9:55am On Oct 13, 2016 |
but come oo... why will a naija boy leave all the many naija single babes whom are based in same abroad with them; and come back to Nigeria to pick one Adanna/Yemisi/Aisha etc for a wife? is that not madness? in this 21st century that most ladies see a man as an ATM machine? better still marry a white girl.. i think its foolishness and medicine after death to kill or fight an african woman that u brought from the village to abroad..? gone are the days that they say when a woman is married she leaves her family behind to join & prosper the man`s family. These days they carry their own family cross first before the husbands cross. |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by ponti93(m): 10:11am On Oct 13, 2016 |
sonnie10:does it pay well? |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by davidif: 10:45am On Oct 13, 2016 |
abike12: But my sister, most naija girls abroad are not attractive or at least not as attractive as the ones at home. |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by davidif: 10:48am On Oct 13, 2016 |
buJu234: Bros, it could be that most naija girls you see here are not as attractive as the ones you see at home or it could be that not a lot of the girls here are what you would refer to as wife material. |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by cyrilamx(m): 10:53am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Keep defending the women in ur comfort zone. If you have financially be responsible to a girl only for the said girl to call you a fool and hit u bellow the belt, you won't be picking a fight with me regarding my post These men didn't just wake up and decided to eliminate the women, the spent their hard money to bring to the US, trained and provided a roof over. They first of all, were disrespected, divorced,thrown into the streets to start all over again. Worst still they were denied custody of their own kids and will also assume responsibility for the up keep of the kids, why their now estranged wives tak over their property. These men were already murdered psychologically. For those saying the men couldn't live with the fact that their wives earned more than them are being economical with the truth. Didn't the men know that nurses earn higher and if they trained their wives to become RNs, they will earn more than them? Until u fit your leg in those men shoes, I tell you, you will go on genocides...you can do worse...even erasing the woman's entire family. esperon25: 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by davidif: 10:57am On Oct 13, 2016 |
CFCman: Wow! The woman gets the house? What if they got married in Naija? |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by pickabeau1: 11:06am On Oct 13, 2016 |
AreaFada2: Why not just marry a lady there already or even use a surrogate Why suggest deliberately leaving apart from your partner |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Bollinger(m): 11:13am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Chanchit: They actually have more cognitive sense in their finger than what you have on your entire brain. |
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