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MzLarem:
but you can ask a Canadian...Guy is guy abeg
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mhisbliss:
yes i can ask any guy out as long as he aint Nigerian with thier cave men mentality

MzLarem:
Don't judge all Nigerian men with the ones you are seeing here oo...All these ones na apology

mhisbliss:
am not generalizing dear, but i know what they do, and no guy will really appreciate you when you throw yourself at him just like that, you know what am saying

MzLarem:
Exactly what i wanted to hear..'No guy'...you ignite the vehicle,the responsibility of driving it lands on you..You ask any guy out,be ready to captain that relationship on your own...Whether Canadian,Mexican or Nigerian men..Its just the way we are.

mhisbliss:
lols you ehn, why am i always shying away from arguing with you, you seem to be good at relationship matters

MzLarem:
Because you love me ...Lol,lets assume i know just a tiny bit about everything.

yea you bet i do, not in a homo kind of way though , you are really a kmow it all, and you just used the name of your diary

mhisbliss:
yea you bet i do, not in a homo kind of way though , you are really a kmow it all, and you just used the name of your diary

MzLarem:
Lol..the feeling is mutual. The name is all-purpose

mhisbliss:
amazing how you get to use it in our convo, its really a catchy name

MzLarem:
Lol..thanks. Break is over dear,gotta go.

aight catch ya later

MzLarem:
but you can ask a Canadian...Guy is guy abeg
.

MzLarem:
but you can ask a Canadian...Guy is guy abeg
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Peacefullove:
this is a very complicated but powerful subject , most marriage today fell apart because the woman did not marry someone she really love . her heart is somewhere else entirely , she only say " yes " to avoid been left out at the age of 27 . no time


I will respect a girl that ask me out, even If I honestly reject such a girl probably because of some things beyond my control . because I can't play peoples feelings or pretend . but such a lady have won my respect any day , anytime


its true most women are scared of taking this step because this generation of men is full of perverts who are looking for innocent girls to destroy . and this is leading most women to LOVELESS marriages . its a pity !


but one thing have noticed is, once a girl ask you out , you will start developing feelings for the girl , I don't know why maybe its just one of the numerous powers of the feminine gender.


My advise is considering the level of perverts nowadays who think relationship is just about sex , a lady should just send green lights ( strong one ) , but not make that move . well, there is an exception .. if you sense the guy is a very matured person . this at times is not always easy to figure out too , I must confess .


But A situation whereby a girl ask you out and you have strong lovely feelings for her too , and it worked out fine .! this kinda love is superb, because both parties have mutual feelings .

favoryte33:
I luv u 4 dis comment. U deserve multiple kisses.

LadyMercedes:
There's no rule that says a man must always make the first move.

OBTSubtle:
TBH.. here's a list of things I'll do to a woman who asks me out..


I'll sleep with her friends..

I'd forget her birthday..

I'd cheat on her with older and younger women..

I'd hit on her mum..

I won't spend enough time with her..

In fact, I'd treat her like a cobweb broom..

Diddyydiva:
It is not advisable for a lady to ask a guy out.Men are naturally egocentric and like to take charge of everything. Some even loose interest in Ladies after the pursuit is over ( don't blame them its their nature).

A lady asking a guy out is like standing on a one legged chair. The lady could be played, used and dumped.

A lady should only show the guy she likes him but never ask him out plainly.

mhisbliss:
yea not at all, but i wouldn't ask a 9ja guy out, no matter the attraction