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Advice Needed by karrhen(op): 4:38pm On Oct 18, 2016
A friend of mine is in this situation
I've been with this guy for a while now. We assume to be dating(tho no sex) but no official ask out and acceptance. He made me meet his family and friends on several occasions. The issue is, he doesn't want us to be 'dating officially' because he is still nursing pains of his past relationship. I got angry(cos I've fallen deeply in love wit him)don't want that 'friendzone thing' and told him not to call me again cos I'm not interested in mere friendship but a relationship. Don't get me wrong, I'm not desperate but I just want things to be well defined.
Am I wrong for doing this? Should I call and apologize for my actions? Am I being too forward??
Please nairalanders, honest answers will be appreciated as my friend is emotionally ruined
Re: Advice Needed by kinzation(m): 4:40pm On Oct 18, 2016
PLEASE DATE ME!!! cool
Re: Advice Needed by StupidGoat(m): 4:40pm On Oct 18, 2016
Shotop. angry
Re: Advice Needed by chris2face(m): 4:44pm On Oct 18, 2016
Finally am back thanks to the moderator that banned me
Op u aren't wrong is good u made ur intentions known is now left for him to take things to the next level.
I love girls that actually go for what they want I call them real girls
Re: Advice Needed by kinggogo: 4:52pm On Oct 18, 2016
Dis ur tory get as e be sha

Gals r always d ones keeping us waiting buh in her case reverse is d case. Well tell her to wait a lil bit n if he doesn't cum around let her move d hell on
Re: Advice Needed by pizzylee(m): 4:53pm On Oct 18, 2016
if dz z true I don't think u shld av gone DT far,u shld av sat down to talk abt it but since u av already done DT den u CNT apologise,never assume u r sm1's gf it wud stop u from seeing any1 else n u just myt not b his gf,he wud call u but d part wea u said u r not interested in mere friendship z nt understandable 4 1 who z nt desperate
Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 4:55pm On Oct 18, 2016
cheesy




Being friendzoned is really sucks! Been there, done that... But mine didn't really workout and thank goodness the roller coaster was over... grin

I think OP ur friend has done the right thing ...We LADIES shud never allowed these men to put us in box and makes us as their "options"...we deserved something better...
Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 6:48pm On Oct 18, 2016
[size=15pt] please remain in the friend zone joor,, but always remember to give him sex..... And always remain in the friend zone too cool


I've got 5 girls in friend zone,, fūck relationship!!! cry
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Re: Advice Needed by karrhen(op): 7:05pm On Oct 18, 2016
ucsparks:
[size=15pt] please remain in the friend zone joor,, but always remember to give him sex..... And always remain in the friend zone too cool


I've got 5 girls in friend zone,, fūck relationship!!! cry
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She Is not interested in being in that position, she wants a real relationship. A man she can call her own
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