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Hi Bella, you said in your advert which I saw on Facebook that we could also vent on your page abi, well I got one for you.


So I have this co-worker, we are marketers for a pharm coy, I agree she’s beautiful and she uses her beauty to attract customers which in turn generate revenues for us, she’s not stingy with customers sha, when she has plenty she directs them to me so I can make small money.


I don’t care she’s beautiful, I don’t care she uses her beauty to get us customers, now she doesn’t even show up again, she won’t show up for days and when she comes back she’s made a lot of money, why’s she so selfish? I haven’t sold anything in days, it’s like she’s with my luck, if she doesn’t come I won’t sell market.


My customers barely come back and they keep asking after her, we have targets to meet and on the days she doesn’t show I look like a dog who’s been beat by the rain, should I just quit?



Talk2Bella.



All I see from your vent is just a lazy and jealous person, her beauty isn’t the only thing attracting customers to her, her character is also a great attribute.


All I can understand from this vent is you want to keep using her to meet up sales target and when she has other business to attend to, she should put that on hold because of you, common baby girl you’re better than this.


Next time when you’re around her, watch how she treats customers, follow her steps, be humble, tell her to teach you, be friendlier and open to conversations, don’t stand behind her and let her hustle for customers so she can give you your cuts, begin to take charge.


When you have humbled yourself and learnt all these, set out on your own, don’t go to the same places as she does, get your own clientele, hustle your own targets, surpass it, give others and myself the impression that you’re aren’t a leech who just uses others to satisfy a need.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/my-workmate-oppresses-me-with-her-beauty.html

You go just dey form story dey lie just to create small traffic on your blog.

Noted.

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Well,the adviser has said it all

[color=#CD1076]Talk2Bella and her made up stories


They talk to you, you talk to them....and you bring it here for us to talk what again?


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Where is the pic of this your work mate or I don't believe it

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]Talk2Bella and her made up stories


They talk to you, you talk to them....and you bring it here for us to talk what again?


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to talk exactly what u just said

PussySmasher:
You go just dey form story dey lie just to create small traffic on your blog.

indeed

let it keep paining you o

small traffic indeed

Bestlily:
Well,the adviser has said it all

thanks

Talk2Bella:
thanks

Talk2fucklla

You no dey tire to dey Lie?

Inferiority complex, can be overcome by perseverance and willingness to align oneself with confidence on the right path.

Na Thunder Go Fire Your Flat Butt If This Story Is A Cooked Up One.

Hian, na dis wan b d new blogger wey go dey gv us headache now

Evrytym tlk2bella , as i no wan cum talk nko

Lol,nairalanders are mean,i tell you.
See how dem dy attack op sev

EHMIR:
Lol,nairalanders are mean,i tell you.

See how dem dy attack op sev

And the thing just be like say them de pour water on top rock sef

kinggogo:
Hian, na dis wan b d new blogger wey go dey gv us headache now

Evrytym tlk2bella , as i no wan cum talk nko

Confidence can only come from previous experience, validations and in this case, attention from customers. The poor girl said it exactly the way it is, that her gorgeous colleague steals all the show cos she's been preselected due to her good looks, but the Bella lad didn't have the guts or do I say knowledge to tell her exactly the way it is, that life isn't fair and that not everyone is gifted with good genes or programmed to be successful.

This has nothing whatsoever to do with confidence or jealousy. It has everything to do with not being blessed with good looks, which I'm afraid is the major determinant of success in these days and time. Sad but true.

My advice to her would be to try and maximize her looks. For instance, she could wear heels to appear taller, get her hair done, nice perfume, nice outfit and nice manners. This would improve her her success a bit but not in anyway comparable to her colleague.

Curvinus:
Confidence can only come from previous experience, validations and in this case, attention from customers. The poor girl said it exactly the way it is, that her gorgeous colleague steals all the show cos she's been preselected due to her good looks, but the Bella lad didn't have the guts or do I say knowledge to tell her exactly the way it is, that life isn't fair and that not everyone is gifted with good genes or programmed to be successful.

This has nothing whatsoever to do with confidence or jealousy. It has everything to do with not being blessed with good looks, which I'm afraid is the major determinant of success in these days and time. Sad but true.

My advice to her would be to try and maximize her looks. For instance, she could wear heels to appear taller, get her hair done, nice perfume, nice outfit and nice manners. This would improve her her success a bit but not in anyway comparable to her colleague.

No matter how you dress up a pig it would still be one, beauty without good character is nothing you wouldn't even want to associate yourself with that kinda person it's all about how you relate to people not your physical appearance

Talk2Bella:
No matter how you dress up a pig it would still be one, beauty without good character is nothing you wouldn't even want to associate yourself with that kinda person it's all about how you relate to people not your physical appearance

Clearly, you are underestimating the power of good looks. Models are rare species and that's why they get paid tons of money to walk on the runway. Naomi Campbell, for instance, is still an in-demand model, despite her fiery temper and numerous run ins with law enforcers.

Beauty is simply the barrier breaker that draws you closer to someone before you even get to have a feel of their inner character. A perfectly symmetrical face/figure instantly stimulates a rush of dopamine in the brain which is the feel good hormone and the the alluring effect of this chemical is one that is so extreme that you cannot possibly wish it to stop. Beauty is nature; character is convention and we all know you can't cheat nature.