folasayolyn:
I'm over qualified

KingCheezyPuff:
Haha ......i like yer honesty doh.You just came out and said it

freeman95:

because u have G wagon and work in an oil company??
or which over qualified u mean?

folasayolyn:



really n those are your qualifications? anyway a joke

ItsQuinn:
Chai! Imagine if I were in your shoes...God forbid talk2bella what's your take on this?
Will you suggest that he should keep trying until he find or he should stop trying?

mamuzoOMAH:
love ought to be beautiful but damn, it hurts. i am single because, there is no need being in a relationship when i am not getting married yet. and girls my age are very unstable and have high tendencies of cheating. So make i kukuma dey my lane.

metallisc:


na so you ugly reach?

chigirlangel:








Yes,thinking of suicide self.

timmyblast:
funny? been sincere and dont get me wrong. what i meant is im not into something serious becos of the aforementioned deficiency. lol

metallisc:
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metallisc:
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Gkemz:
Talk2bella you've been a very good motivator. You nailed the points. You listed a lot of reasons why people remain single for too long. It was not as if they willingly chose to be single but situations and circumstances can cause an adjustment shift. There are so many reasons for late marriages. We all had goals and ambitions at a tender age, we desired to go to school, study big and respectable courses (not as jamb decide), marry the best wife or husband, get a good job, live a comfortable life, raise beautiful and wonderful kids, purchase fleet of cars, landed properties, pay tithe of course but these aspirations become a mirage when we meet life challenges and limitations. Human beings need everything but unfortunately these needs are insatiable because of scarce and limited resources, in that case we often go for most pressing ones. Marriage comes later when one must've satisfied basic needs.

taoheedoriloye:
I wanna have 200 girls before getting married. If my counting is correct, I only had just 15 so my journey still long.wish me well guys

I wish you well that may you not contract STD STI and every other sexually transmitted disease/infection

OBTSubtle:
The unbent, unbroken, unburnt..


I'm like a male Khaleesi..


Speaking from zhitz I've seen over the years..

MNDY:


"Unbent, Unbroken, Unburnt" OMG! With this, you just reminded of my top favourite unmatched show GAME OF THRONES, the highly subliminal and (for its expansiveness) the overall best thing to happen in lights, camera and action!
#GoT-7Loading
#TheEndBegins

Game of thrones returns next summer..


It's also my best series..

creativity4real:
ok na!

Talk2Bella:
Don’t you get tired when people ask you this question? But here I am asking you, why are you single? Most people don’t know being single sometimes is a choice, but what’s a choice without a purpose or a reason? If you don’t know why you’re single then you need to know why no one is asking you out.


Everyone these days is single, a guy comes up to you and says he’s single, you know this very pretty girl and she tells you she’s single and you open your mouth in awe because you don’t believe such a beaut could be single.


What is the reason behind that decision you’ve taken to be single


Work?


Heartbreak?


Sexual preference?


Finance?


Time?


Lack of a dating type?


Honesty?


Location?


School?


Waiting on someone to notice you?


Age?


Gender?


Lack of interest?


Self-Searching?


Character?


Family Background?


Tell me your reason and purpose, being single is no fun without a purpose, it sometimes lead to depression, envy, suicidal thoughts and lonesome nights.


You begin to question yourself and your existence, most people who always scream team single {without a purpose} are dying inside, they need that companionship, someone to talk to, someone to listen to, someone to touch, someone to play with, they just need someone and most times because there’s a lack of someone they begin to give everyone a chance which becomes a cycle and leads to more heartbreak and then we hear the Forever Single Phrase all over again.


You need to know why you’re single, there’s enough people in the world to go around for everyone, heck people are getting married every Saturday, every day, and you’re there scream “SINGLE LADIES” “SINGLE MEN CREW” wake up, you need help ASAP screaming Team No Hoes won’t alleviate the loneliness you feel inside, screaming Team No Dykes won’t make you feel any better, you need a purpose for being single or without that you’re just someone who isn’t able to get a man or a woman.


While I was in the University, I didn’t date, not that I didn’t have a play companion, I just didn’t want anything serious because I wanted to finish school without distractions and I saw that as one, and when I finished school I said nah, I need a job before I’d date, no one wants to date a liability, when I finally got a job I was ready to date, I did for a while and realized I wanted more things in life than dating and I went for it.


This isn’t a write-up to make you feel bad, for everything there’s a season and a reason and without these you’re just floating on the plane of reality, not making an impact, not contributing, you’re just sliding in and out without realizing how opaque your life is.


This doesn’t apply to dating alone, why do you do the things you do? What’s the reason behind the purpose that’s motivating you? Don’t forget to drop your comment and encourage someone.


Thanks.


Isabella Ibeji


Talk2Bella

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/why-are-you-still-single.html?m=1

metallisc:



and you are here talking about relationsh..... my friend, before hi hopen my heyes...!!!!!!

Iamhatey:
I'm still single because guys are complicated.

I'm afraid I will be faithful and he will cheat on me.
I'm afraid that he will change to something else.
Im afraid that after all the fvcking and all that, he won't marry me

metallisc:



so, according to your profile... you are still freestyling ba??

Xtianart:


it sounds like your happiness depends on the opposite sex. Enjoy

Stalker365:
Nobody likes me

Gkemz:
Talk2bella you've been a very good motivator. You nailed the points. You listed a lot of reasons why people remain single for too long. It was not as if they willingly chose to be single but situations and circumstances can cause an adjustment shift. There are so many reasons for late marriages. We all had goals and ambitions at a tender age, we desired to go to school, study big and respectable courses (not as jamb decide), marry the best wife or husband, get a good job, live a comfortable life, raise beautiful and wonderful kids, purchase fleet of cars, landed properties, pay tithe of course but these aspirations become a mirage when we meet life challenges and limitations. Human beings need everything but unfortunately these needs are insatiable because of scarce and limited resources, in that case we often go for most pressing ones. Marriage comes later when one must've satisfied basic needs.