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I am a virgin and I don’t know what to do, he tells me he loves me, wants to marry me and other girls are just for show and don’t matter but I don’t know if I can cope with this anymore.


I am still very young, and he’s met my people that he wants to marry me, my mother insisted I must be untouched until our wedding night, he agreed but said I must come visit him weekends, he’s paid bride price just remaining the big wedding, now my fear is, he says since I aint giving it to him he will receive from outside till our wedding night and after that day he won’t cheat on me anymore but I don’t believe him.


He’s never tried to touch me, saying he’s reserving me I am his special one and he loves me, but he’s a man with feelings and he needs to satisfy them, what do I do?



Talk2Bella.



I can’t believe someone is walking into disaster with her two eyes wide open, you’re on reserved but he sleeps with other women, you’re a virgin, he wants to marry you, you know he’s cheating but you still want to marry him, please I am not understanding, is you umbilical cord tied to this man?


He cheats right to your face with the promise of stopping when he pops your cherry and you believe him, wow, clap for yourself, I am guessing your case is the case of an arranged marriage and you might have no say in it.


Talk to your parents about this, see their reactions, if you’re willing enough you can leave before you tie the knot to someone who would continually disrespect you, and if you’re not willing to leave, well happy married life in advance.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/he-says-im-on-reserve-but-he-keeps.html

He has paid your dowry that means you are his wife.I don't know what you guys are waiting for.Will you go to the other room and give him that kpekus to shine.After all white wedding is not part of our culture.

Which kain dirty reserving is this one?
Is either you both do it together. (After all he has paid bride price)
Or, he stays faithful till the big wedding.

So because am cooking rice,I cannot sharply buy small bread chop

Bella And Useless Story Are Like

Abeg Who Get That Zuma Pic?

I can't stand a cheating man, not on any ground.

The fact he even rubs it on your face makes it worst.

harlee:
So because am cooking rice,I cannot sharply buy small bread chop

hehehehehehe

NO

Papikush:
You shall not die young with this comment you just made

amen

Get ready to have reserved STDS

mhisbliss:
which one is reserve again? He's cheating on you already and you're ok with it, when you're married he'll still do it, this is very one sided, and you're being used, if he values chastity he should be patient and stick to his end of the bargain, I'm sure he wont be okay with it if you do the same, run while you still can

bad advice

Laveda:
I can't stand a cheating man, not on any ground.

The fact he even rubs it on your face makes it worst.

You sure? A Cheating man that's gat truckload of money nko?

You just have to believe him or return his bride price...simple! ....even though he continues after marriage, it's no big deal, just tell him to use condom always

skarlett:
Get ready to have reserved STDS

she can tell him to use condom for her sake and the sake of their kids in future

ItsQuinn:
she can tell him to use condom for her sake and the sake of their kids in future

Fantastic idea

you see y i don't like virgins,its not only dia puna dt x blocked dia brains r too

Laveda:
I can't stand a cheating man, not on any ground.

The fact he even rubs it on your face makes it worst.

but u girls cheat jumping from one pric to anoda

jake2much:
but u girls cheat jumping from one pric to anoda

From one cucumber to another

Women think men are their mate

They meed to mind their biz and enter the oza room

No complain. U can't eat ur cake and have it, since u and ur mama don decide say u go wear iron pants with padlock till u marry. Una no fit take konji kill d guy, una no fit turn d guy to celibate. If do d thing before, u go know say hi no easy to stop just like dat. D guys need to dey use him tools, my advice is join the groove and enjoy ur guy. Since d guy dey chop different soup now, he no go fit con dey chop only egusi (fvck only u) after marriage.

iamkingzlee:
You sure? A Cheating man that's gat truckload of money nko?

Kings, that's tempting but I'll pass.

This Bella ehnnnnnnn, as if n'a only fit advise people... Me sef fit advise them.... SMH

Tales by moonlight brought to you by bella and her phantom messengers who always send their problems to her.

Laveda:
I can't stand a cheating man, not on any ground.

The fact he even rubs it on your face makes it worst.

and you can't cheat too? Smh!

Zizaboni:
This Bella ehnnnnnnn, as if n'a only fit advise people... Me sef fit advise them.... SMH

u can be on my team if u wanna

harlee:
So because am cooking rice,I cannot sharply buy small bread chop

u no serz

Dat bread will choke u!

So if nepa lite no dey make person no use generator again abi

Talk2Bella:

You must think I'm a pest because I'm skeptical, right?