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Re: A Frustrated Woman by Jewelbaby01(f): 6:10pm On Oct 26, 2016

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by Maaamaaa: 7:32pm On Oct 26, 2016

Thank you so oooooooooo much everybody.

I'm so happy because I saw my little bunny today, hmmm I actually cried.

Baby daddy cried too, he was so emotional and he said it's so real. Lolsssssss..

I saw the heart beat beating, the head and the arms and limbs.

Gosshhhhhhh... I'm truly going to be a mummy.. cry cry

I called my mummy and she said she wants to see little bunny too... She was so happy, singing and jumping.

Don't mind her, this is her first grandchild.

I'm so happy and my sickness just vanished.

Thank you all for your support and love.

I love you all.

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by brownsoldier(m): 8:26pm On Oct 26, 2016

Dyt:

I know sometimes if not most times
I am quite annoying

yes lol you often are grin

Re: A Frustrated Woman by frmglorytoglory: 8:39pm On Oct 26, 2016

Maaamaaa:
Thank you so oooooooooo much everybody.

I'm so happy because I saw my little bunny today, hmmm I actually cried.

Baby daddy cried too, he was so emotional and he said it's so real. Lolsssssss..

I saw the heart beat beating, the head and the arms and limbs.

Gosshhhhhhh... I'm truly going to be a mummy.. cry cry

I called my mummy and she said she wants to see little bunny too... She was so happy, singing and jumping.

Don't mind her, this is her first grandchild.

I'm so happy and my sickness just vanished.

Thank you all for your support and love.

I love you all.

All's well that ends well. That's why I said you should go ahead with your wedding because I knew he would come around.
Be careful of some kind of advice you get on a faceless online forum......envy can also make people spur out bad advice.....a young lady of 23yrs old who can afford her rent and has a stable job ....is pregnant and about to be married.....girl you have a lot going on for you which is enough to generate spiteful advice to mar your 'have it all image'.
Talk less to the internet and listen to your mum....she has your best interest at heart than the thousands of strangers on this forum.
Wishing you a happy marriage filled with the blessings of the Lord. Shalom.

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by Nobody: 11:13pm On Oct 26, 2016

Rocktation:
Modified.

Because it's too early....

Lemme just go.

Why are you always banning me in the sexuality thread when i am not always the one starting the trouble?

It's simply not fair. To make matters worse, you ban me and delete my posts while you leave the posts of others insulting and denigrating me.

I didn't start the quarrel today. They all came attacking and ridiculing me, and I had to give it to them fire for fire.. But I always the one getting banned.Yet only my posts will be deleted.

Why the unfair treatment? Please be fair and just. All my insulting posts tonight was in response to posts insulting me. I didn't start any.

Re: A Frustrated Woman by jabojafa(m): 11:17pm On Oct 26, 2016

splendidbaby:
my sister am really sorry about your predicament,the mistake has been done already.what u will do now is to move on with ur life and assume he doesn't even exist. focus your attentional on your work and ur child,you don't need to move out of the house just stay as Room mate but pls respect yourself by not allowing him tourch u.pls let's chat privately on WhatsApp 07036189706

u jst gave d whole world ur number.

Re: A Frustrated Woman by Generalsamm(m): 11:20pm On Oct 26, 2016

To begin with,i appreciate the op's courage and maturity, it's not easy being faced with such an hellish situation and have people spur insultive words all over you in the name of trying to get advice on NL.
my advice to the op is to brace up and BE PREPARED because a time is coming when the baby will be around. the question that should be asked is what will happen when the baby finally comes and the guy has to face the reality of catering for the family?, will he be there to support you or look back at how he was at the beginning(innocent and burden-less with no form of responsibility whatsoever) and then turn back at you with a fierce bite, lamenting how you brought him into this knowing he was broke at the start and all those issues.
Dear,the truth is, you CAN'T go through that hell, i've been there and i know what its like, just imagine how his reaction to you will be two years from now if you go ahead with him along with that killing look he'll give you whenever he remember the other lady.

Re: A Frustrated Woman by Generalsamm(m): 11:40pm On Oct 26, 2016

Here's my plan:
*inform your mum about this, open up the whole issue to her just as it is, she should be able to help you.
let her know about the whole issue too,you never can know how great the succour she can offer you when all strings gets loosed
*Adjust your financial capacity, add your baby's expenses to yours and look for something to engage yourself with that can take care of that, i'll recommend two ways:
one,
*Go into business, build that diligently and slowly now with whatever money you have at hand and watch it grow ahead of the time when junior will have been a big boy OR
*Rearrange your CVs and trust God to gain employment in a good company with an awesome pay.
*Move on with your life.
*Knowing that either junior stays with you or Grandma, you can always live a happy life and this time, you will tread with wisdom.

Re: A Frustrated Woman by queencalipso(f): 8:30am On Oct 27, 2016

andyanders:

You have told her the bitter truth. That marriage cannot work out if she forces herself to it. She cannot marry out of sympathy.Either she take your advise or to go ahead with her wish.

I do not wish her bad but come tomorrow, she will be here again crying over an abusive marriage.Hence there is no love, anger could set in and the guy would end up using her the way he wants.

My dear.. It's a very bitter and painful truth. I wonder why she's feeling reluctant to call off the wedding when her dad is/will not be there when she's being abused and treated like thrash.. If she calls of the wedding the guy will at least see her with some respect and not one desperate chick who want to tie him down with pregnancy.. Cz that's what I see too. If you want to be treated nice you have to earn it true your actions and not force your self on someone who doesn't want you.. You don't force love/marriage if it's not working, get out of it with your head high.

Re: A Frustrated Woman by phulxpression: 8:32am On Oct 27, 2016

My candid advice is for u to start praying d lady he dumps also come across a good man to marry her soon if not ............. undecided

well it depends on d kind of lady in question.

That bin said make sure u are finacially stable,no man wants a liability.If he can treat u like dis even wen u r gainfuly employed n love him wholeheartedly,I can imagine wot will appen if ur jobless.

Only u knows wot makes u happy if u can cope with his attitudes for years to come den u can continue.But remember life is too short
to be sad.

I wish u all d best o shocked

Re: A Frustrated Woman by Nobody: 9:35am On Oct 27, 2016

Maaamaaa:
Thank you so oooooooooo much everybody.

I'm so happy because I saw my little bunny today, hmmm I actually cried.

Baby daddy cried too, he was so emotional and he said it's so real. Lolsssssss..

I saw the heart beat beating, the head and the arms and limbs.

Gosshhhhhhh... I'm truly going to be a mummy.. cry cry

I called my mummy and she said she wants to see little bunny too... She was so happy, singing and jumping.

Don't mind her, this is her first grandchild.

I'm so happy and my sickness just vanished.

Thank you all for your support and love.

I love you all.

Please read everyone trying contribute their advice.

Op is now OK with her man oooooo and everything is back on track... No need for advice again.. People try read pls..

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by Omolola1(f): 11:08am On Oct 27, 2016

Maaamaaa:
Thank you so oooooooooo much everybody.

I'm so happy because I saw my little bunny today, hmmm I actually cried.

Baby daddy cried too, he was so emotional and he said it's so real. Lolsssssss..

I saw the heart beat beating, the head and the arms and limbs.

Gosshhhhhhh... I'm truly going to be a mummy.. cry cry

I called my mummy and she said she wants to see little bunny too... She was so happy, singing and jumping.

Don't mind her, this is her first grandchild.

I'm so happy and my sickness just vanished.

Thank you all for your support and love.

I love you all.

Smh in advance

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by Maaamaaa: 1:21pm On Oct 27, 2016

I choose my happiness and my baby.
I thank you all for your kind words.
I want to focus now on my work, baby and myself.
Gods will be done, I'm done stressing myself or fussing about.
Thank you all for your words.

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by accountbalance: 1:41pm On Oct 27, 2016

Maaamaaa:
I choose my happiness and my baby.

I thank you all for your kind words.

I want to focus now on my work, baby and myself.

Gods will be done, I'm done stressing myself or fussing about.

Thank you all for your words.

Am happy for you. I am glad you are now fine. I saw your last post where you mentioned your hubby was happy about the baby too.

Please you guys should stop your advice, OP is okay with her man ooooo.

I believe you should delete this thread as it has done it's purpose. Except you still need it for any other reasons, which I don't think it's necessary.

Kindly move on with your life and be happy with your man and your baby.

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by Generalsamm(m): 1:59pm On Oct 27, 2016

accountbalance:

Am happy for you. I am glad you are now fine. I saw your last post where you mentioned your hubby was happy about the baby too.

Please you guys should stop your advice, OP is okay with her man ooooo.

I believe you should delete this thread as it has done it's purpose. Except you still need it for any other reasons, which I don't think it's necessary.

Kindly move on with your life and be happy with your man and your baby.

Lobatan!...Na So my yoruba peepz dey talk

Re: A Frustrated Woman by Generalsamm(m): 2:09pm On Oct 27, 2016

never overlook the nature and root of the matter at hand,every other things like the hugs and smile that comes shud only remind u of the inevitable that is predominant and is the Reality.
I have passed thru those kind of situations and i dnt even wish it on my worst enemy.
times when your own dad treats u like an alien far from being a human being not to even talk of being one of his own belly.

Re: A Frustrated Woman by Maaamaaa: 3:29pm On Oct 27, 2016

Please how can this thread be closed?
I want it closed.
Cc lalasticlala

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by iamtewwy(m): 3:32pm On Oct 27, 2016

Maaamaaa:

I earn 80,000naira monthly but my firm pays us 50,000naira this year and I did a contribution of 30,000naira earlier this year, so right now I get 20k a month and I use that for my upkeep... My contribution ends this month so by November salary I'll get it 50k and I'll register for my ante-natal then. I'll be four months plus then.

I have no savings for now...

I'll get my baby things from January next year because my EDD is may 2017..

Why dont u just abort.. Instead of going through this humiliation and stress?? ?

Re: A Frustrated Woman by accountbalance: 4:14pm On Oct 27, 2016

Seun , Lalasticlala , mynd44 , this is very important.

Please the OP would want this thread deleted. The purpose intended has been served and any further comment on this thread is no longer necessary.

Kindly delete the thread for the sake of OP's personal life. Thanks.

Re: A Frustrated Woman by Nobody: 4:40pm On Oct 27, 2016

I just don't know how people fit get mind dey Bleep pra pra ontop 80k, 50k monthly.

Re: A Frustrated Woman by Dyt(f): 7:12pm On Oct 27, 2016

BoboYekini:
I just don't know how people fit get mind dey Bleep pra pra .

Buhahahahaha
cheesy

Re: A Frustrated Woman by nuelyoyo(m): 7:21pm On Oct 27, 2016

sexybbstar:
I have always been in love with NAIRALAND for a long time but I can't describe how elated I felt presently ....I AM NOW A NAIRALANDER!!!

This forum rocks!... Whenever I feel down,I will just click on naira land on my bookmarks and enjoy reading the comments without being able to reply but now I CAN REPLY!

Happy mood.

oya reply to the matter being discussed. tongue

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by nuelyoyo(m): 8:06pm On Oct 27, 2016

yinkslinks:
And i am begging God to just give me a woman to get pregnant for me since i cant find true love. Here is another man throwing his away. God please make me understand you. I need a child so desperately. Doing well and all i meet are hungry women

I taught I was the only one meeting hungry women as well.

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by yinkslinks(m): 8:17pm On Oct 27, 2016

Bro dem full everywhere now grin

Hello how are you? Oh why the sad look? my phone needs to be replaced. Just first time ooooo grin

nuelyoyo:
I taught I was the only one meeting hungry women as well.

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by nuelyoyo(m): 8:32pm On Oct 27, 2016

yinkslinks:
Bro dem full everywhere now Hello how are you? Oh why the sad look? my phone needs to be replaced. Just first time ooooo

Re: A Frustrated Woman by Eminya(f): 5:47pm On Oct 28, 2016

Maaamaaa:
I choose my happiness and my baby.

I thank you all for your kind words.

I want to focus now on my work, baby and myself.

Gods will be done, I'm done stressing myself or fussing about.

Thank you all for your words.

Maaamaaa I am happy you have chosen happiness over sadness. I can't imagine going through pregnancy with out my hubby by my side, I just hope all will work out well for you guys. So happy he was emotional during the scan pls, OP's boyfriend pls give her all the pampering and peace of mind she deserves at this time, she is too young to through all these alone.

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by zthree: 12:05pm On Oct 29, 2016

Please don't go ahead with the wedding cos your marriage will be full of struggles and regrets. I advise you move on with your life as sincerely as you can. As per the shame and all that, this life is full if people who messed up, accepted their mistakes, learnt from them, stood up with their heads high, and moved on to become better people. Nothing you have done is new under the sun. Your eventual rising up and success will someday be the encouragement someone might need in the future.

Re: A Frustrated Woman by nuelyoyo(m): 2:25pm On Oct 29, 2016

pek:
@Maaamaaa Reading through your post, I have this strong feelings you are an intelligent lady. Mistakes have been made, you can't take back the hands of the clock. From your responses and comments so far, you have not tried to exonerate yourself from blame or tired to embellish the story. You told that as it is. Thank you for that. My advice to you which I will give my daughter, sister or friend is that don't marry this dude for any reason. Keep the baby. It will turn out to be the "worstest " mistake if you marry him. I wish you the very best. I wish we could chat personally.

Yea, she sounds very intelligent and nerdy .

Re: A Frustrated Woman by nuelyoyo(m): 3:01pm On Oct 29, 2016

franugo:

what d hell are you guys talking about

the way both of them have been talking, looks like they know themselves from the spirit world. Dem be real ogbanje.

Re: A Frustrated Woman by nuelyoyo(m): 3:12pm On Oct 29, 2016

Richiy:
Nairalanders in Uyo should reach out to her please. We need each other, especially in times like this.

Cc maaamaaa

Seconded

Re: A Frustrated Woman by Maaamaaa: 3:16pm On Oct 29, 2016

@nuelyoyo I'm so grateful for your concern but I'm fine now...
Although I don't mind having friends here.

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Re: A Frustrated Woman by balosammy(m): 4:03pm On Oct 29, 2016

Maaamaaa:
@nuelyoyo I'm so grateful for your concern but I'm fine now...

Although I don't mind having friends here.

Thank god U are now ok now

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