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Zceesneh:
egbon don't dull urself, or if u are shy, ask her can u hold her by the waist, she is single bro

xxxtedyxxx:
too bad....you jumped to stage 3 without gaining a solid foothold on stage 1. you even ignored the rapport phase completely. you should have focused on gaining more rapport before opting to meet her.

Don't ever ask a girl out...or tell her to be your girl. it doesn't work. just assume and play a boyfriend role from the start.

I am sorry to say... but you have been friendzoned. free the girl...and move ahead brother.

xxxtedyxxx:
too bad....you jumped to stage 3 without gaining a solid foothold on stage 1. you even ignored the rapport phase completely. you should have focused on gaining more rapport before opting to meet her.

Don't ever ask a girl out...or tell her to be your girl. it doesn't work. just assume and play a boyfriend role from the start.

I am sorry to say... but you have been friendzoned. free the girl...and move ahead brother.

saintdennis:
Smh... she said she was busy.

But that you can come to my house,

...& you went to the house, her fathers house?!

DESNAT:
hahahaha...@the bolded,the guy get mind o.

Mustiboy:
lol. Bro, ayam finished! No solution? But i followed the advices on ur thread. I mean, i and the girl really chat a lot on whatsapp and we call each other too. She's even quite invested, I must say. That's why I though I had gotten the go ahead 2 do so. Pls, help me bro. You're a professional when it comes to things like this

Mustiboy:
hmmm. Bro she tells me she's not single but me I just ignore it. I do tell Her I love Her but she doesn't reply positively. She said no problem shebi we're friends

Mustiboy:
lol. Bro, ayam finished! No solution? But i followed the advices on ur thread. I mean, i and the girl really chat a lot on whatsapp and we call each other too. She's even quite invested, I must say. That's why I though I had gotten the go ahead 2 do so. Pls, help me bro. You're a professional when it comes to things like this

Ifakiland:
She's not single and u wanna "win" her over? Ure an idiot.

xxxtedyxxx:
you sounded a little desperate with your reply. what she told u means she is not/not yet attracted to you. you need proper stage one work.

just focus on other babes for now.

you said you guys chatted a lot. its not really about the number of times you chatted or called each other. its about how you advance the convo, from normal chats..to knowing deep things about her.

also asking her to be your girl is tautology if u had been doing the boyfrnd thng well

Mustiboy:
hmmm. So, I should just let her be for now hun? Does dat mean I should stop calling Her? We chatted last night and she was still using the usual 'sweetie' 'dear' and all that. The girl Herself is just confused. Walahi!

xxxtedyxxx:
free her...focus on other babe's. let her miss you... if you continue giving her attention, you will fall deeper into the abyss of friendzone. ignore am small...package other babes.

Mustiboy:
cutehec tor estha rfabian Joecuti e xxxted yxxx misspicy Mrc ork puca xo firstking 01. You guys should help me pls

misspicy:
Follow xxxtedyxxx's advice

slimthugchimee:
grow up

thats what you need to do

superstarDikk:
Abeg tell am o. u go girl house, she left where she was sitting n came next to u to show u 'pictures' n u foolishly held her hands n said nonsense instead of reading btwn d lines.. op is 15 or younger

Frankraj:
Nowadays if a girl likes you,she will accept your love from the very first start. Any girl that refused your love from the beggining will never genuinely love you , she will be cheating on you . So I will advice you to maintain as she claim she needs only friendship then try to fvk her based on the friendship level after that she will be the one to be loving you and even want you closer but if she doesn't do this after you fvk her then forget her completely

Mustiboy:
lol. Reading between what lines? I'm 19 by the way

temitopeking:
someone said u shud grow up... that is just it.
she has seen u completely and ladies like someone that is head up.... enuf task in ur hand.
sleep and wake up, u will get the code

superstarDikk:
U r still a kid sha. but at ur age i was way smarter. the girl wanted at least a kiss, thats why she moved closer to u.. she wasn't showing u pictures, she was tellin u to man-up n do something

Mustiboy:
lol. How would i know she wanted that? It's her house not mine. So, i felt i should respect her and be a good boy

superstarDikk:
There is nothing good in being a good boy. If u had done something naughty to her, she wouldn't hv rejected ur proposal

xxxtedyxxx:
free her...focus on other babe's. let her miss you... if you continue giving her attention, you will fall deeper into the abyss of friendzone. ignore am small...package other babes.

Mustiboy:
lol bro! How on earth is that possible? I respect Her body pls, I don't ball like that.

iwatch:
The only thing I can tell you is that, I wish you quick recovery from your first accidental heart break. Since you have decided to fall in love, heart break awaits you. It might be from this girl or another girl.

Joseid:

She has friend zoned you huh? I guess you have good and nice conversations with her. If there will ever be any hope for you, you have quiet a couple of things to work on. But first of all, you need to disappear from her side. This is your first step towards crashing that friend perspective that she has of you. Don't pick her calls often. If you do, tell her you are busy and will get in touch with her. yet, don't get in touch with her. Do this for a week, then let's see how it goes.

Mustiboy:
Guys pls help o. Due 2 my shy nature(I've been trying to fight it with the help of fellow nairalanders here), I decided to find a girl on Facebook and on getting her no, we started talking on phone and sometimes, chatting whatsapp.
I got to know her sha, she's a student of uniosun. Then I asked Her to come visiting me, she said she's not that free but she'll try but she said if I could come to Her place, it'd be fine.
So, today I visited Her in Her father's house and we started talking albeit watching a movie. I nervous, I wanted to tell Her how I felt but i was just sacred. Fortunately, she came close to me and we started checking pictures on our phones whilst laughing.
Minutes later, I summoned courage and collected both phones from Her. I told her to gimme her hands which she did. So, we were both holding hands and I started telling Her everything with my voice trembling. She told me she doesn't see our relationship happening that we can just be friends. I didn't bug her any further though. We laughed again and she saw me off and called me when i got home thanking me 4 my visit
so, guys. What do you think i can do? I really love this girl. Somebody help me pls