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Goldienana:
U still here

Let's no argue. It's something you can't win

tosyne2much:
When you demand sex in relationship they say you don't love them, if you practise celibacy they will label you an impotent. If your joystick is too small you're subject to mockery and ridicule, if your joystick is too big, na wahala again

If you be one minute man they will complain that you can't please them. When you're a one hour man they will still complain that you want to kill them.

Women are the most confused creature in the world and I doubt if God Himself understands them, unlike men

You couldn't have said it any better!
O sun mi

Jarizod:
[color=#679267]what women want(s) varies..most women don't even know what they want...

But two things they always want and remains constant for almost all Ladies are__

MONEY..and

a good konnddo preferably a 20-inch ask any Nairaland girl if I am lying [/color] [/b]

At the emboldened. Don't ever make that mistake falling in love with someone who doesn't.... It's helll!!!!

MoyoGENERAL:
Your initial post highlighted in RED is the genesis of my advice, yet you dey use scope avoid that statement! By the way is it already happening with your girl, or you are just speculating if it will happen?


Simply create a dream of how u want your woman to look like and work towards it. You will be glad you did that. She relies on your vision immediately she discovers that u re dependable. Train her to suit your dream, you will be happy spending the rest of your life with her.



Bro, can you please elaborate on this, I would love you comment on this if I gain more clarification on what you mean. A brief scenario will suffice.

I was very conscious of all I typed n very careful in choosing my words n d arrangt: Boyooosa:
What my woman wants from me is me; being able to make available all she desires. If I couldn't provide just one out of all she desires, she will be worried. They can't hide their feelings for what you don't have, they express their discomfort one way or the other. I don't like it, may be dats why am working so hard to atleast meet up with my own standard for my woman. I didn't check ur reply 2 tosyn2much tho but I know those words in green are the truth of life. Words in red: that is d life of an average/typical Nigerian woman (referential stat tho) but u and I know that fact n they don't deny it @ d point of necessity. Meanwhile, d words in blue; Dream Creation. This us ur ability of managing your woman like a life-line business that must not fail. I am referring to a serious relationship and not bf gf thing. Creating a dream in this scenario connotes your ability to discover what your partner's interest is n being able to construct a better way of reasoning for her according to ur OWN definition. Out urself in d shoe of a business mab that does not want his biz to fail, u ll try to make available all what is required by d biz to survive, sustain and eventually flourish. Dis fact does not necessarily compel you to go ahead and steal or fraud so as to boost your biz. This is exactly what am impressing. Your woman might be demanding for d unreachables at a point in time ranging from time, affection, materials to money which are all necessary, even compulsory but because of a reason or the other, u may not be able to meet up. That doesn't make you a coward and as well does not mean you should call it a quit. Your ability to contain d situation makes u a MAN! what u need to do is to sit down, analyse on how to capsize the tremble to your advantage and finally come up with you OWN standard, I repeat! Your standard might not be outrightly palatable for her but it must define what u stand for and of course, be fair to her. This will justify d decisions u make, ur actions and inactions when u are or not together. Define your role for her and let her know her boundary in the relationship. If she is good for you, she will abide, hence, if she's not, water will always find it's level. But one thing am sure of, is that, your instinct will always reveal a Worthy relationship to you. Then, as a MAN that you are, you have an obligation to work hard towards meeting up with your responsibility fullstop. It's nice reading from you. Shallom!

Some girls are saying freedom,pls what type of freedom are u talking about?

tosyne2much:
When you demand sex in relationship they say you don't love them, if you practise celibacy they will label you an impotent. If your joystick is too small you're subject to mockery and ridicule, if your joystick is too big, na wahala again

If you be one minute man they will complain that you can't please them. When you're a one hour man they will still complain that you want to kill them.

Women are the most confused creature in the world and I doubt if God Himself understands them, unlike men

God who created them understand them. So don't use that word if God himself understand them pls. God is the beginning and the end, I AM THAT I AM, that is HIS NAME.

Kindly explain this properly.

Vorpal:
It's highly condescending and shallow for a MAN to be bothered about whether his wife is cheating or monitoring her to see if she is not.


A man should always be a man.

If u like buy her USA! Love her more than love itself!!! Give her all the attention!




She go still cheat!!!

bbmpin:
ignorant garbage!

The wants of women vary!

But basically they all want "care, attention, financial security and a practical dream to believe in"

Telling me that all they want is to "want what they want" is crap!

[b]There is a "REASON" why we as men are supposed to guide them

This is a lazy man's manual to being ignorant and selfish #grow up [/b]

Women are not pets. They were able to get on fine with their lives before marriage. I'm sure they can do it fine after marriage.

BiafraBushBoy:
Drama...

let me explain..

They seek for love, when they see love, they want money

When they find money, the seek for Time and commitment..

When they find it, they start looking for whether he is cheating

When they can't find any of the above, they stir up controversy..

you know why??

Most Ladies are wired around Drama and Controversy..

you are right, I don't even understand myself, and have been guilty of some crazy and dramatic behaviour in the past

Nori:
you are right, I don't even understand myself, and have been guilty of some crazy and dramatic behaviour in the past

It is normal for you... But you have to understand that it is one of the greatest turn-off's for guys...

HE wont tell you, but believe me, it wears and tears relationship apart...

ItsQuinn:
I don't know about other women, but as for me....I would love my freedom freedom = happiness

I don't know you but you are a sweetheart. Freedom is like the very air we breath. Opposite of freedom suffocates me and that is what scares me getting married to an African man because 90% of them are drunken in authority and control over women.

We have dreams, life and entitled to them.

Again,OP is 100% right.

BiafraBushBoy:
It is normal for you... But you have to understand that it is one of the greatest turn-off's for guys...

HE wont tell you, but believe me, it wears and tears relationship apart...

that's why I said in the "past".

Nori:
that's why I said in the "past".

Welcome to a new beginning..

Hope you are making him proud?

chronique:
Kindly explain this properly.

If you have doubts about your wife, confront her and ask her. Take her word for it except you have a valid evidence that proves she is unfaithful.

But being hovering around her like the pussy is some life and death situation is messed up. Insecurity doesn't look good on anybody especially a MAN.

Vorpal:
If you have doubts about your wife, confront her and ask her. Take her word for it except you have a valid evidence that proves she is unfaithful.

But being hovering around her like the pussy is some life and death situation is messed up. Insecurity doesn't look good on anybody especially a MAN.

Sure. What if after asking and you wanna believe you were told the truth, but keep stumbling on clues that all isn't well? For most men, finding out such a thing is usually heart breaking most especially when you're totally committed to the person. Then again, people have experienced certain things and this can make them come off as a little bit insecure though.

chronique:
Sure. What if after asking and you wanna believe you were told the truth, but keep stumbling on clues that all isn't well? For most men, finding out such a thing is usually heart breaking most especially when you're totally committed to the person. Then again, people have experienced certain things and this can make them come off as a little bit insecure though.

Then you confront her with the clues.

I think as a man., you should always be straight forward with your woman so they won't be any assumptions or misconceptions. Once you derive a reputation of holding her to her words and actions she will know you mean business.

On that insecurity bit, i have my fair share of experience and i have resolved that one should not give anyone no matter the amount of loyalty or perceived it might be, the dictate to manipulate your emotions or decide your happiness.

Only God is indispensable.

Cutehector:
The muslims think their women aren't making the right decision when it comes to marrying outside their religion despite being exactly what she wants.

And how is that your problem

Goldienana:
When he was busy typing big n small joynonsense.

Pardon?

When he was busy typing big and small joynonsense. Hv I cleared u?

goshikid:
Pardon?

Goldienana:
When he was busy typing big and small joynonsense. Hv I cleared u?

No... lets chat 1st

Lol..
97% of ladies on this thread agree with Toks2008. (I.e almost all women agree with Toks)

97% of men on this thread don't. (I.e almost all the men do not agree with Toks)

Inference: Men seem to know women more than women seem to know themselves.

Conclusion: Laughable.

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