Thashen:
Per Se vs. Per Say

blackberlin:

Advice of the year. . . somebody give this man a crate of 7up

Akanbibabatunde:
But baby,I thot we talked this thru already... So why bring it here??
Am sorry .... Just come and let's settle this ...
I will be waiting for you in the other room,with no boxer on...the way you love it...

Geraldyne:


so cos I bleeped...I shudnt pray??...u gonna tell me dah u dnt pray evn wen u a sinner...I want advice nt judgement

Geraldyne:
Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my bf..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.
He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.
I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.
Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

ChiFirstLady:
U no dey satisfy ni? One day, make u give am like neva b4 and make sure say na u start am and don't give him space. No resting.....go like 8rounds if u can and in d morning try again, na him go run. If u can't do it, run for ya life cos it's a mismatched libido. Don't shave o,by d tym him joystick peel, he shall rest

blackberlin:



My dear, I appreciate your honesty and boldness to come here for advice. . .
Now let me tell you things from a man's perspective. A guy always has either of 2 reasons to date; (a) to look for a soul mate/ prospective wife or (b) sexual exploration. This guy in question sounds like one who belongs to the B category.

The truth u must know is that he's not forcing you to have sex with him and you also enjoy it sometimes, otherwise you wouldn't allow him. The only advise I can give to you now is to search your heart and ask yourself what you really want. . . You're a learned lady and I believe you come from a good family cos of your prayer life.

Another thing you must know is that you can't eat your cake and have it. Most of you ladies already have a mental picture of the kind of guy you want and often times, it's not always what is right for your soul. If you want something better for yourself, ask God to forgive you and seek a true believer. A man who fears God will never turn you into a sex slave. If you're still enjoying the sexual trips codedly, continue. . . man is always the architect of his own destiny. Just don't deceive yourself

Geraldyne:
Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my bf..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.
He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.
I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.
Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

blackberlin:


I think it just reflects the elements of good upbringing. A sinner girl that prays still has a conscience and is a better wife material. Eventually, such a person will get closer to God.

Geraldyne:
Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my bf..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.
He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.
I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.
Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

Akanbibabatunde:
But baby,I thot we talked this thru already... So why bring it here??
Am sorry .... Just come and let's settle this ...
I will be waiting for you in the other room,with no boxer on...the way you love it...

misspicy:

This does not hold true for all men.

Mistake 101 y'all make -Generalization

vicben27:
men i think is d oda way round bro! conscience ke! because God is merciful we often tak advantage of that! we prepare to sin n believ we wil b forgiven after all. derz no conscience der bro! me self no holy too!

jamalnation:


haba you wan kill am ni

Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

ChiFirstLady:
as him no wan calm down. If she no fit do am, I fit help but make she ready to loose her bf......I no be cucumber fan o

misspicy:

He has high libido for sex.
These type of men are rather dangerous,because if he is not getting it from you he will go outside and still blame you,if you are not okay with his sex demands you better run now before he impregnate you and everything gets complicated.

If there are no plans to wife you anytime soon,he will just use you finish for your husband.Please


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rossiebarbie:
Just transfer him to me...shikena

Ifakiland:

My dear u need a big broda to cane u...flog sense into ur cement head.
Am sure ur mom raised u better Dan opening ur legs freely for a guy who hasn't wifed u.

Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

SmellingAnus:
The guy may truly love you per se but it's just a case of voracious appetite for sex.... It's either he is not too busy or it's just a normal thing to him ... Don't blame him much for wanting to have sex with you even while mourning, I am not a hypocrite so I know the way this thing works.... The dickkkk has a mind of its own especially in this peculiar case where your boyfriend has a voracious appetite for sex... Your boyfriend and I share the same thing in common it's just that maturity has helped me to at least know when to avoid it... Solution... Try to get him to be busier with school/work or let him join a department in church and also give his life to Christ... Note that , it will not automatically stop his voracious appetite for sexx but it may help him to reduce the number of rounds he goes then maybe from there he could even become so changed that you will be the one to disturb him for sex.... I remember dating a church girl for only six months without sex and she left me for it... ( if only she knew that I was a reformed sex maniac that no girl( the ones I have tried) has been able to match my appetite for sexs).... It's matter of your guy channeling that appetite to something more productive... It may take a long time, Mayne even a break up from both of you before he gets there....

zaragal:


How can someone type with so much sense but hide under a senseless moniker??.... Am confused

Elkay3:
What advice is left, dear? Are you a sex machine? Or a sex slave?