₦airaland Forum

Thinking differently

Thinking differently has to do with mental state of mind and someone who is interested in his/her mental state of mind has great value... It tells that he/she is not just a living breathing human being but a living breathing (Esther or george whatever your name is)

Talking about Value

Value can be defined as worth, worth is defined as importance, I defined importance in terms of value and a highly respected positive difference.. You may have heard people saying how you should be different.. or the popular saying that all girls and are not the same but different..

The normal kind of value we know is when we see a girl wearing the latest high heels, latest Brazilian hair, fair in complexion (these days they are all fair) and a tight gown or trousers and a top,

either way when you see this girl you will first weigh your standard and you might say you never have a chance with her (although those are one of the easiest kinds of girls to date)....

Now that standard you weighed is the value I am talking about here and that is just a physical kind of value and not the real meaning of value

Value can show in many ways

How we think

Relationship partners we choose

Future dreams

How we see money

The activities we engage in

How we think

Thinking differently tends to grade your value .

There is a saying that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but a great man once said that everyone is entitled to the right opinion..

The right opinion which not only comes from how we feel, but from understanding how others feel and relating it to ourselves which makes us give a better answer which is easily acceptable and reduce the chances of a long argument (You see what just happened there, you didn't just answer with what you know, but you first thought differently and decided to relate it with the way the person next to you feels and give a better reply, which reduces the chances of a long argument... That shows your value, that you are not a blabber mouth or someone who just speaks based on himself..)

When someone steps on our feet there are many reaction

a. you scream at him/her when he refuses to show remorse
b. You look at him/her pitifully knowing they are not up to your standard
c. You say God bless you
d. You smile and try to talk to the person why he/she wants you to feel pain, turn it into a conversation and get to know someone.

Which one do you think the person thought differently... that's the one with true value.. you might say the d. is unrealistic, but it is because you are refusing to improve on your perceptive, that people are naturally wicked, when it is something so much more..

Some are so quick to react and in public blurt out a word, which they wouldn't normally, Ladies have done this a lot, even those who never wear trousers because they are church girls

This tells a lot about value

Value is a.k.a public image... How we make others see us in public... Some say they don't care about how people see them in public, but we should not forget there is a reason why Yemi Alade is forever greater than Mo'cheedah because of what they represent..

Back to thinking differently..

People like Bill Gates and Mark, Larry Page and Tim Cook are highly valuable, because they think differently... where someone sees a material, they see a product and a way to impact the world...

If you read my other posts on the difference between the actives and the passives you will understand this more

Thinking differently has to do with mental state of mind and someone who is interested in his/her mental state of mind has great value... It tells that he/she is not just a living breathing human being but a living breathing (esther or george whatever your name is), because you are not just interesting in reacting to situation the way nature has created it but in the way you have come to understand it...

I hope you understand...

Relationship partners we choose

Ladies in abusive relationships, or in relationships where you pray the guy will change, guys in relationships where they don't care about anything as long they get to sleep with her.

This tells of the kind of value they posses... Also....................

To be continued...

Remember to follow me... so that you will get a completely improved and different way of thinking, because we can always improve on who we are and the position we are in right now..... (Don't worry I will always follow back)

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

A shout out to those I am following.... you guys inspire me to write more...

Aiholi(m), walcut(m), kennedymonk(m), Sambagenius(m), cooljoe(m), emitoz(m), EyeofHorus, KissChrix(m), ANTONINEUTRON(m), jmanity, ClassCaptain(m), Fadedjeans, gykes(m), UnlimitedIfex(m), Pabloosas(m), Deejay1000(m), DozieInc(m), Viking007(m), Smallville10(m), kannyt01(m), frigingawesome(m), queenitee(f), mumumugu(m), eme40rald(f), trueanalyst, saintfellow(m), ActOfWar(m), Papikush, Julietcutie(f), Harbay0101(m), MatthewDoyin(m), LanreDaMan(m), NevetsIbot(m), Sensie(f), dimexy247(m), Olasco93, PRISTINEMUSCLES, mikhe2(m), youngestmilly, twentyk(m), soulpeppersoup(m), djkaycee001(m), TheRealestGuy(m), abdeiz(m), ajsans, budosky(m), styles2009, blithe2nice(m), psalm1man(m), bassette(m), Shiitposter, agrovick(m), icanfeelit(f), jaywise(m), SpicyJosBabe(f), knight05

Hmmm

Great!

More like tips for every one, cos the difference between people is opinion/perspective, you make the bridge when you are able to see from the others opinion.
@ Newbeginnings more ink to your pen.

DozieInc:
More like tips for every one, cos the difference between people is opinion/perspective, you make the bridge when you are able to see from the others opinion.
@ Newbeginnings more ink to your pen.

Thank you ..... I would like to ask you about something.... just to get your input.... when you are online just reply this quote...

Newbeginnings:
Thank you ..... I would like to ask you about something.... just to get your input.... when you are online just reply this quote...

hmmmm if una wan buy lube , I get

judeefcc:
hmmmm if una wan buy lube , I get

I already have sources for that.... But since you are into this.. I want to ask you the question...

What do you think about being fit and exercising??

KissChrix:
Hmmm

What is hmmm?? are you eating it and feeling the sweetness

hahahaha...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Newbeginnings:
I already have sources for that.... But since you are into this.. I want to ask you the question...

What do you think about being fit and exercising??

i mean lube for u and him, I don't exercise, sex has been helpful

Newbeginnings:
Thank you ..... I would like to ask you about something.... just to get your input.... when you are online just reply this quote...

online...

judeefcc:
i mean lube for u and him, I don't exercise, sex has been helpful

Okay.. thank you

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

DozieInc:
online...

Okay ..

What do you think about being fit and exercising??

Newbeginnings:
Okay ..

What do you think about being fit and exercising??

Being fit is worth it, you stay healthy, strong and alert to accomplish your daily tasks, exercising helps you tone your body it is another way to gain fitness.

DozieInc:
Being fit is worth it, you stay healthy, strong and alert to accomplish your daily tasks, exercising helps you tone your body it is another way to gain fitness.

so do you do it? everyday... and if no? Why not?

firstking01:

Now I know that you check my profile ....

Good to know you have turned a new leaf..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Newbeginnings:
so do you do it? everyday... and if no? Why not?

No i dont do it everyday or week, due to my schedule and access to a gymn... its been like 3months I purposely did any form of fitness ecercise.

DozieInc:
No i dont do it everyday or week, due to my schedule and access to a gymn... its been like 3months I purposely did any form of fitness ecercise.

very interesting.. although I have never been to a gym once in my life ..... But my God ... if you see my face to face you could see a lot more than ordinary..

Thank you... I would like to share an article with you that will help relieve stress and frustration... (it is a link)...

Do you want to see it..

Newbeginnings:
Now I know that you check my profile ....
Good to know you have turned a new leaf..
Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

I don't check your profile.

Don't loose ur spouse becos ur sex hormones re low.we sell enhancement cream,soaps, chewing gums,tea etc. Contact us to get ur groove back 08057583879

Newbeginnings:
very interesting.. although I have never been to a gym once in my life ..... But my God ... if you see my face to face you could see a lot more than ordinary..

Thank you... I would like to share an article with you that will help relieve stress and frustration... (it is a link)...

Do you want to see it..

@ Newbeginnings I have replied your questions... why did you ask those questions? why do you think I would need your article??... just curious.

This op and this thread , if una need lube halla

Still haven't seen The golden tip.. .

firstking01:
I don't check your profile.

Interesting.. still wearing your old clothes aren't you...?

DozieInc:
@ Newbeginnings I have replied your questions... why did you ask those questions? why do you think I would need your article??... just curious.

Why I asked those question.? I just wanted to know who you are... like I said people who value their mental health and state of mind (which is something I gain from exercise and fitness) are very valuable and they know a lot about life...

Why I think you need the article? This is the recession period, some are biting hard in the dust, others are gripping to their jobs.... stress is inevitable even for those who are still doing well.... This article is all about how to get rid of stress without even leaving your bed.. It clears the mind and improves the mental state.... all just for your benefit...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise...

Newbeginnings:
Interesting.. still wearing your old clothes aren't you...?

Whatever that means you go do the findings.

Newbeginnings:
Why I asked those question.? I just wanted to know who you are... like I said people who value their mental health and state of mind (which is something I gain from exercise and fitness) are very valuable and they know a lot about life...

Why I think you need the article? This is the recession period, some are biting hard in the dust, others are gripping to their jobs.... stress is inevitable even for those who are still doing well.... This article is all about how to get rid of stress without even leaving your bed.. It clears the mind and improves the mental state.... all just for your benefit...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise...

Ok, please do share the article, who doesnt want to stay healthy and fit after all. tnx