Serious Advice Needed

I've been dating this pretty and loving lady for almost 2 years now. Truth be told she has been supportive of all my goals and aspirations. I love her to death and I try my best possible to nake her happy. I'm sure she loves me too. I have been out of the country for about a year now for studies but I try to make up for the distance in calls, messaging and skype. The question of fidelity is not an issue. I trust her (call me stupid if you want). Now the problem is that she complains anytime I get caught up in school work and I do not have time to call or chat (take into considerations the time difference). Most times we spend over an hour on the phone daily. Now the complaining has gotten worse to the point of nagging. Even when I see her call on my phone now, I'm worried because its going to be a nagging session. Many at times I get angry and shout at her on the phone when the nagging is getting too much. I don't want to loose this relationship.

Matured minds in the house, please how do I salvage this.

I will comment later.

Chaleeee:
Serious Advice Needed

I've been dating this pretty and loving lady for almost 2 years now. Truth be told she has been supportive of all my goals and aspirations. I love her to death and I try my best possible to nake her happy. I'm sure she loves me too. I have been out of the country for about a year now for studies but I try to make up for the distance in calls, messaging and skype. The question of fidelity is not an issue. I trust her (call me stupid if you want). Now the problem is that she complains anytime I get caught up in school work and I do not have time to call or chat (take into considerations the time difference). Most times we spend over an hour on the phone daily. Now the complaining has gotten worse to the point of nagging. Even when I see her call on my phone now, I'm worried because its going to be a nagging session. Many at times I get angry and shout at her on the phone when the nagging is getting too much. I don't want to loose this relationship.

Matured minds in the house, please how do I salvage this.

Chaleeee:
Serious Advice Needed

I've been dating this pretty and loving lady for almost 2 years now. Truth be told she has been supportive of all my goals and aspirations. I love her to death and I try my best possible to nake her happy. I'm sure she loves me too. I have been out of the country for about a year now for studies but I try to make up for the distance in calls, messaging and skype. The question of fidelity is not an issue. I trust her (call me stupid if you want). Now the problem is that she complains anytime I get caught up in school work and I do not have time to call or chat (take into considerations the time difference). Most times we spend over an hour on the phone daily. Now the complaining has gotten worse to the point of nagging. Even when I see her call on my phone now, I'm worried because its going to be a nagging session. Many at times I get angry and shout at her on the phone when the nagging is getting too much. I don't want to loose this relationship.

Matured minds in the house, please how do I salvage this.

Mheen na that stupid fit ya name pass o. You still can't forsee what u said can't happen, coming your way.

Lol for her to have started giving you complain, she has either found company or confidence in someone else or shes thinking you already have another gf over there or shes thinking how long is she gonna do this funny online chat with you without seeing you. So my dear face the reality. You're in the US and she's here. Let d blunt truth be told...you've lost this one. So prepare ur mind to go thru d hrtbreak then God will provide u an american baiby over there.

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RadicallyBlunt:

Mheen na that stupid fit ya name pass o. You still can't forsee what u said can't happen, coming your way.
Lol for her to have started giving you complain, she has either found company or confidence in someone else or shes thinking you already have another gf over there or shes thinking that how long is she gonna do this funny online chat with you without seeing you. So my dear face the reality. You're in the US and she's here. Let d blunt truth be told...you've lost this one. So prepare ur mind to go thru d hrtbreak then God will provide u an american baiby over there.

femiero:
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Its witches and wizards commenting on ya post... Be careful, village people are sitting on ya matter...u should have posted (African time) ....what am I even typing...

See, best you can do is to let her know your schedule and the time best for you both to communicate on phone. Communication is really important here. You guys will quarrel and you must be patient with her if you want to keep her....plus, you need to find a way to vist her about twice or three times a year.. You can also support her to get a visit visa so she can visit you. Good luck

the niggá above me is high on weed.

OP... Distance relationship is never encouraged, it's only very few that can cope with it. You don't expect a lady that's been having sex every week to just stop it completely for.... How many years will u be gone


I'm speaking from experience bro... I have a friend currently who's screwing someone's wife currently cuz her husband is in the UK hustling for the family.

We've been advicing this our friend but he keep telling us that he's in love with her... I asked the lady one fateful day about her actions with my
friend & she bluntly told me "body no be fire wood" & that she truly likes my friend. She & her husband constantly quarrel on phone, it's like decoy used to do whatever they like over here as long as they keep quarrelling with their man

OP I think ur gf is trying to pick a fight with u thereby creating an avenue where she can be screwing another guy without her conscience pricking her.

^^^
Rubbish..

Burger01:
^^^ Rubbish..

Then give your own.....
Op Long distance kills a relationship

chibwike:
Then give your own.....

Op Long distance kills a relationship

I've seen well managed long distance relationships. The impact of the distance could be managed by both partners taking time and turn to visit....especially the guy. The girl loves the Op, she complains of lack of attention and time.. ..and these are exactly what the Op should address. You have a study visa, work part-time, then pay your babe a visit at every holiday.. ..this shouldn't be too much a thing

Burger01:
See, best you can do is to let her know your schedule and the time best for you both to communicate on phone. Communication is really important here. You guys will quarrel and you must be patient with her if you want to keep her....plus, you need to find a way to vist her about twice or three times a year.. You can also support her to get a visit visa so she can visit you. Good luck

Two to three times yearly as a student

Burger01:

I've seen well managed long distance relationships. The impact of the distance could be managed by both partners taking time and turn to visit....especially the guy. The girl loves the Op, she complains of lack of attention and time.. ..and these are exactly what the Op should address. You have a study visa, work part-time, then pay your babe a visit at every holiday.. ..this shouldn't be too much a thing

Very true

out of sight.....is out of mind. Visiting will go a long way.

Why did you not say this earlier

Create more time for her. Perhaps, friends are telling her she has lost you. So, she is expressing her fear via nagging. Atleast, that's the best she can do now. She still loves you.

If you're serious about settling down with her, let your family get to know her. And possibly start serious marriage things, that would give her more confidence that you’re still with her.


Nb:HOW OLD IS SHE? ladies don't play with their age ooo... So, I don't how long u want her to be waiting for u. Very critical.

Bro...I can see reason for her complaining. How caught up can you be in schoolwork that you can't msg or call via Skype? This don't need special time... can be done while travelling.. in the toilet.. wherever. That's a very poor excuse. Using Skype can be a great help... not only in the face to face. .. but for her to see what you go through ... like going to work in the dark... in the snow.. etc... them maybe she would better understand why you would be tired and not have much time. But like someone said... maybe she is not as loyal as you believe... and using these naggings to break away from you...maybe... just maybe.

gabinogem:
the niggá above me is high on weed.

OP... Distance relationship is never encouraged, it's only very few that can cope with it. You don't expect a lady that's been having sex every week to just stop it completely for.... How many years will u be gone


I'm speaking from experience bro... I have a friend currently who's screwing someone's wife currently cuz her husband is in the UK hustling for the family.

We've been advicing this our friend but he keep telling us that he's in love with her... I asked the lady one fateful day about her actions with my
friend & she bluntly told me "body no be fire wood" & that she truly likes my friend. She & her husband constantly quarrel on phone, it's like decoy used to do whatever they like over here as long as they keep quarrelling with their man

OP I think ur gf is trying to pick a fight with u thereby creating an avenue where she can be screwing another guy without her conscience pricking her.

True...and the nigga above you is high on gbana (coke)..not just weed

Long distance "relationsheeps" never last...

GboyegaD:


Two to three times yearly as a student

Yeah, maybe twice. The relationship must go on if it's that valued. What's worth doing is worth doing best. I did it and it worked for me

Burger01:
Yeah, maybe twice. The relationship must go on if it's that valued. What's worth doing is worth doing best. I did it and it worked for me

If you have the means, it's fine. Ticket cost quite a fortune.

I think you should let her know what your schedule is like. You can find a way to text her sometimes in the midst of being busy. It doesn't have to be calls or skype or chat everytime.


My opinion tho

[i][/i]That is why distance relationship is bad. If u have let hee to understand everything and she still nag, let hwr be. Move on and face ur study bro, the better one is yet to come.

1. You don't have a problem. The only problem is you're not being mature. Act like a man. Her man. Take responsibility for her insecurities. Laugh about it. Crack a joke or tell a story when she's at it again.

2. Apologize. Tease her. Reassure her of your commitment.

3. Back to number 1. Keep being her man. Be her man. When she's childish you shouldn't be too. When she's low you must bring her up. It's your responsibility if you truly love her. Otherwise, you can keep complaining together.

* why would you shout, get angry at her? You don't fight over the phone. You don't fight when you're so far away. That'll break you up fast.

Chaleeee:
Serious Advice Needed

I've been dating this pretty and loving lady for almost 2 years now. Truth be told she has been supportive of all my goals and aspirations. I love her to death and I try my best possible to nake her happy. I'm sure she loves me too. I have been out of the country for about a year now for studies but I try to make up for the distance in calls, messaging and skype. The question of fidelity is not an issue. I trust her (call me stupid if you want). Now the problem is that she complains anytime I get caught up in school work and I do not have time to call or chat (take into considerations the time difference). Most times we spend over an hour on the phone daily. Now the complaining has gotten worse to the point of nagging. Even when I see her call on my phone now, I'm worried because its going to be a nagging session. Many at times I get angry and shout at her on the phone when the nagging is getting too much. I don't want to loose this relationship.

Matured minds in the house, please how do I salvage this.

Lubish jor.