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Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by LIFEisSIMPLE: 7:25pm On Apr 17, 2018
Please nairalanders, i need help.

2 months ago, i used my money to buy my girlfriend an internet phone and she quickly signed up for facebook. At first i was happy because she was happy, now i think i made the dumbest mistake in the history of mankind.
She has started connecting with a lot of her friends and classmates and always on the phone chatting smiling and laughing. Shockingly, I tried to look through her phone last night only to realised that the phone is now passworded.

I have been observing alot of changes, and recently when i try to call her at night her phone is busy getting lousy excuses. I have invested so much in this girl and i do not want stories that touch.

Please i need advice on how to handle this situation with maturity. Also is it okay if i collect back the phone as this internet phone has now become the source of all my worries and pain.

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by marketer100: 7:32pm On Apr 17, 2018
One chance....... Dis one gbono gannnnn TRY AND KNOW HER FACEBOOK PASSWORD AND WHATSAPP AND MAKE SURE SHE DOESNT KNOW ABOUT IT TO TRACK HER Activities. Inform her about the hazards of using social media recklessly.

I also hope u are not hvn insecurity issues.

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by blackpanthar: 7:33pm On Apr 17, 2018
You INVESTED wrong things.... Instead of investing MINDSET you invested HANDSET, bro you are dating a CHILD.......

i was once in your shoes and I had to leave her till all the euphoria of the car and Iphone I bought for the girl faded (it took 2-3years) then she came back begging with a BODY COUNT OF 9 GUYS... I listened to her super story and laughed and drove off and I didnt say a word because SILENCE IS THE BEST ANSWER FOR A FOOOOOL.

Bro listen TRUE investment is in the MIND/SPIRIT and that should come first before BODY or BAG or kits.... because those other things are perishable but content is forever.

TAKE it as a TEST and know that she is MATERIALISTIC and will only LOVE YOU FOR WHAT YOU GIVE HER.... her heart is into THINGS and NOT YOU. A real true LOYAL BABE will switch off just to speak with you and will hardly take calls that will cut her off from you at the time you are supposed to call her.

LIFEisSIMPLE:
Please nairalanders, i need help.

2 months ago, i used my money to buy my girlfriend an internet phone and she quickly signed up for facebook. At first i was happy because she was happy, now i think i made the dumbest mistake in the history of mankind.
She has started connecting with a lot of her friends and classmates and always on the phone chatting smiling and laughing. Shockingly, I tried to look through her phone last night only to realised that the phone is now passworded.

I have been observing alot of changes, and recently when i try to call her at night her phone is busy getting lousy excuses. I have invested so much in this girl and i do not want stories that touch.

Please i need advice on how to handle this situation with maturity. Also is it okay if i collect back the phone as this internet phone has now become the source of all my worries and pain.

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by CertifiedGee(m): 7:36pm On Apr 17, 2018
Bros....... U r already having stories that touch......

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by McBrooklyn(m): 7:43pm On Apr 17, 2018
Oops...

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by tee59(f): 7:43pm On Apr 17, 2018
Congratulations, ode. Investing on a lady that d future is not so sure for both of you. Why some guys no get sense like this. If it was ur mum or sis that asked for a phone , u wouldn't av granted that. Sorry is your case.

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by daben1(m): 7:54pm On Apr 17, 2018
tee59:
Congratulations, ode. Investing on a lady that d future is not so sure for both of you. Why some guys no get sense like this. If it was ur mum or sis that asked for a phone , u wouldn't av granted that. Sorry is your case.
some guys mumu jare... Na one of all those guys wey to get babe dey shack be this.. So childish!

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by IamD18: 8:00pm On Apr 17, 2018
You should have added money to that phone money to pay for her bride price, since you don't want to give her a breathing space. undecided

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by AstroG: 8:05pm On Apr 17, 2018
The Worst Tin to Do As a Guy,is to invest on Nigerian Girls..
All these Girls wea no get beta tin to offer other than to dy spread Legs like rumours..
I SWORE THAT NO GIRL WILL EVER SEE ANYTHING FROM ME,EVEN AIRTIME.


Stupid Asswhores Everywhere undecided undecided

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Xcoo(m): 8:20pm On Apr 17, 2018
Hahaha mumu

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Headlesschicken(m): 8:42pm On Apr 17, 2018
undecided How many times v u bought a phone for yuh mom.... U nva see anything no worry she go soon phuck man untop yuh bed one day.....

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by WebSurfer(m): 8:50pm On Apr 17, 2018
Dating immature girls is hell

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Nobody: 8:54pm On Apr 17, 2018
You didn't do nothing wrong bro, Listen, Take it a step further... Mark your territory around her so your investment and future investment wouldn't be waste.

what is the territory? pregnancy! hell yeah, Get here pregnant and keep buying her the world.

If you keep investing without marking your territory, your stock will crash like the 2008 depression and you can't do nothing about it when it does crash, so be wise and buy her out like a real estate and keep the investment going for the future.

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Nobody: 10:12pm On Apr 17, 2018
blackpanthar:
You INVESTED wrong things.... Instead of investing MINDSET you invested HANDSET, bro you are dating a CHILD.......

i was once in your shoes and I had to leave her till all the euphoria of the car and Iphone I bought for the girl faded (it took 2-3years) then she came back begging with a BODY COUNT OF 9 GUYS... I listened to her super story and laughed and drove off and I didnt say a word because SILENCE IS THE BEST ANSWER FOR A FOOOOOL.

Bro listen TRUE investment is in the MIND/SPIRIT and that should come first before BODY or BAG or kits.... because those other things are perishable but content is forever.

TAKE it as a TEST and know that she is MATERIALISTIC and will only LOVE YOU FOR WHAT YOU GIVE HER.... her heart is into THINGS and NOT YOU. A real true LOYAL BABE will switch off just to speak with you and will hardly take calls that will cut her off from you at the time you are supposed to call her.


lipsrsealed

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by marttol: 10:28pm On Apr 17, 2018
You bought her a browsing phone and you expect her not to browse...

Bros wah...

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by cloud9usher: 10:30pm On Apr 17, 2018
Guys, if you are the type who has plenty girls as friends for them to show you their Facebook inbox/notifications, you'd know the type of excess attention ladies get on Facebook.

Even the ugliest girls get their inbox and notifications flooded, all thanks to stupid randy Nigerian guys who keep on licking the a*s of every lady on Facebook. When I see Nigerian guys doing this on Facebook it annoys me like mad! A lady drops a picture and you see their a*s licking comments and they also rush into her inbox as well. I tag such guys as men who find it hard getting girls, annoying set of people!

So you just used your money to buy your relationship a problem, it would take a lady with strong will not to get moved by such attention, and if its her first time getting such attention, brother you are on a long thing o! grin

If its just me or guys like myself on Facebook, I bet you most ladies would have uninstalled the app long ago. grin

Just ignore this lady, text her and inform her that you have seen she has enough attention already and yours is no longer needed, then watch, if she comes back then set standards for her to follow if she wants you guys to be cool, if she doesn't come back then smile and kiss the b*itch goodbye because such a child would only give you more headaches.

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Nobody: 10:30pm On Apr 17, 2018
You use your money to buy headache...
lol

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Bizgold: 10:30pm On Apr 17, 2018
come back hot relationship
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by deepwater(f): 10:30pm On Apr 17, 2018
Dem pass word u for you own phone wey u buy?
Woman wrapper

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Noblefreeman(m): 10:31pm On Apr 17, 2018
,.,
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by R2bees(m): 10:31pm On Apr 17, 2018
Which village did u pick her from?

2. How old are u?

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by banjeezay(m): 10:31pm On Apr 17, 2018
collect that phone and replace it with a Nokia torch light phone fr dt babe.















don't take this too serious, we're just here to have fun
Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by stano2(m): 10:33pm On Apr 17, 2018
Oga investor, keep investing in girls

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Nwaohafia1: 10:33pm On Apr 17, 2018
Better to have a broken relationship than a broken marriage. Run away from her now

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Victorakats(m): 10:33pm On Apr 17, 2018
Facebook is ruining your relationship but you are on Nairaland seeking for help.

How do you hope to fix your Facebook relationship on Nairaland?

Scrap that though.


The phone I bought for my ex was what she used to connect with her fiancé on Facebook.


But good news is... I'm happy I didn't keep a lady who never chose me in my life.


Something you don't fight for is what isn't yours because keeping it will most likely bury your own happiness.

It feels bad, but my suggestion is, give her some space and let her make her choice.

Never give a lady so much attention that you lose yourself.

It is a stewpid thing to do....

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by banjeezay(m): 10:34pm On Apr 17, 2018
McBrooklyn:
Oops...
cloud9usher:
oh
stano2:
Ok
foliman:
.
old men like una, Una dey here dey book space fr this kind time. Una no go go sleep abi

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by foliman(m): 10:34pm On Apr 17, 2018
My nigga you think say your girlfriend na oshaprapra abi?
Sorry, shepeteri spirit don waka join, your baby don turn shakushaku.

Even if you collect the phone, her clients would easily raise another for her!

Her true colour has been revealed by her access to social media, work on her and she fail to heed to correction, abeg comot face jejely or learn how to treat her like a slut.

This is 21st century, no lady should hold your emotion a ransom.

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by obainojazz(m): 10:34pm On Apr 17, 2018
grin
One dude fresher than you is e-toasting her

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Re: Help Help Facebook Is Ruining My Relationship by Solari8(m): 10:35pm On Apr 17, 2018
story for the founder.

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