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| I Dont Know How To Love by freeman95(op): 3:02pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
i actually dont feel anything extraordinary towards any female...... im not gay cos i love to have sex but thats about it... never seen or met any girl i wanna date or have a relationship with cos i really dont knoe how to love anyone...... dont know how to explain further but i wanna know if there's anyone like me and if its normal..... is love for everyone? |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by slimthugchimee(m): 3:03pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
who cares ![]() |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by Nobody: 3:04pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
I have the same problem but I still love. |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by freeman95(op): 3:05pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
slimthugchimee:hahaha i understand that feeling of wanting to comment on every thread but this is a wrong thread to fvck with... so get the fvck out THUG! |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by Lisaflex(f): 3:06pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
U cn only truly lv others/sm1 else wen u hv learnt 2 lv urslf |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by slimthugchimee(m): 3:09pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
freeman95:you know i just came out of a 1week ban and not for what happened sometime ago after i fell into another ban just 5mins after coming out of a ban which i dont want it to happen againlemme just let this slide ![]() |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by freeman95(op): 3:10pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
slimthugchimee:u wouldnt have rush to type shiit on a thread that has nothing to do with you or your family..... |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by freeman95(op): 3:11pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Lisaflex:is there anyone who hates him/herself ![]() |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by Nobody: 3:13pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Bro!, Not even your family members? I think what humans experience or call love is attachment, nobody loves a person at first glance, it takes time, continual contact will help nurture any known and hidden attributes you'll come to cherish. |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by falcon01: 3:13pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
freeman95:you are a free thinker who believes in no thing that's why you've got no feelings |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by freeman95(op): 3:15pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
falcon01:u are right bro... how do u know im a freethinker?? not only a freethinker... partly nihilism |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by Nobody: 3:18pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Well, that's not the problem here tho. ![]() some People aren't Capable of loving. U just Happen to be one of those unfortunate Souls. |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by freeman95(op): 3:21pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Estharfabian:not being able to love means im unfortunate? do u know how many things u also cant feel? |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by dingbang(m): 3:21pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Estharfabian:are u capable of loving? ![]() |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by freeman95(op): 3:23pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
dingbang:i dont know, thats why im asking... how do u feel when u love someone? |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by Nobody: 3:25pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
freeman95: eh, Yeah. that pretty much sums it all... ![]() Eh, I could feel virtually anything..
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| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by Bhenehdikt(m): 3:25pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Estharfabian:and she must comment. |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by dingbang(m): 3:26pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
freeman95:Urm I asked estharfabian, not u. Well i've not felt it tho... i"ll know if I love someone if I go out of the ordinary to care for them... |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by freeman95(op): 3:26pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Estharfabian:ever being depressed, like strong depression? or ever felt hate in your heart? |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by Nobody: 3:27pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
dingbang: eh, I think so.. I Once loved my puppy.. before he died. Nealy killed myself. |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by Bhenehdikt(m): 3:27pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
I was once like thee.. my own case worst sef.. My friend hooked me up with a girl,I turned it down. I felt nothing.. But that was before I entered Uni.. Things changed. |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by freeman95(op): 3:28pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
dingbang:u could care for someone out of pity though |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by dingbang(m): 3:28pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Estharfabian:u bak to ph? |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by dingbang(m): 3:30pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
freeman95:yeah yeah I could.. but not love out of pity |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by Nobody: 3:30pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Bhenehdikt: Got a problem with that, Muchacho? ![]() |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by freeman95(op): 3:31pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Bhenehdikt:im in uni, see different girls, i just admire their beauty and all... nothing special.. i admire so many girls, i know there are girls around the world that will catch my attention...... so i wonder how its possible to love just one person... if love exist why do lovers who claim to be in love breaak up and love someone else |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by Nobody: 3:32pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
freeman95:Depression is a mental difficulty . I guess? I'm perfectly sane, No thank you. hate, Yes, that I've felt. ![]() |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by freeman95(op): 3:33pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Estharfabian:oh and hatred is not a mental difficulty? |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by KevMitnick: 3:34pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
This is really unfortunate for you, Op. It's either you have learnt to suppress your feelings or you didn't develop them at all. And it's usually due to a very traumatic childhood experience or a cumulative of such experiences. you have felt so much pain from maybe deprivation and neglect, so much that your body has developed a defense mechanism against any of such feelings that may cause you pain. Your body is simply protecting you. You really need help. |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by Bhenehdikt(m): 3:35pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
freeman95:Dude,you're exhibiting symptoms of 'commitmentophobia'... |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by freeman95(op): 3:35pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
KevMitnick:hmmm wouldnt say u are wrong.... u seem to be intelligent |
| Re: I Dont Know How To Love by Nobody: 3:36pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
dingbang: why's everyone asking me that, lately? ![]() |
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and not for what happened sometime ago after i fell into another ban just 5mins after coming out of a ban which i dont want it to happen again

