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Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Legend87(m): 11:37am On Nov 15, 2016 |
RadicallyBlunt:That is why it is good to have stabilizer in the house |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 11:47am On Nov 15, 2016 |
My brother use to do the same thing to his wife and she kept quiet and endured it until he developed to regular beatings and that was when she told us, we advise him to no avail that was when we advice her to give him fire for fire at home not in public. My dear see my brother turn ice water we nor believe our eye na. Dont shout ät him in public deal with privately, men sometimes need iron hand, sack that yr housemaid dont trust most of them. Sorry to ask this question did you force yourself on him? How long was the courtship? Did u know he has that behaviour before and u ignored it? What his is relationship with ur maid? Are u a full-time housewife? Is he seeing someone? Are you guys friends? How do y treat him? Save yr marriage but dont die in silence. i wish ur marriage forevermore. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by mysticgal(f): 11:48am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Caseless:Loll |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Vikto: 12:02pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
THIS IS RESOLVED DURING A PILLOW TALK. IN THE BEDROOM, WHILE PREPARING TO SLEEP. BECOME RESTLESS AND LET HIM NOTICE IT AND ASK YOU WHAT IS WRONG. THEN VERY LOVINGLY, REMIND HIM OF HOW THE TWO OF YOU STARTED AND THE HOPES THAT SURROUNDED THE RELATIONSHIP, WHICH EVENTUALLY ENDED IN MARRIAGE. REMIND HIM OF THOSE QUALITIES IN HIM THAT SO MUCH ATTRACTED YOU TO HIM. THEREAFTER, MENTION TO HIM THAT THERE'S SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE MISSING AMONG THOSE GOOD QUALITIES. TENDERLY MENTION THIS ISSUE AND DISCUSS IT WITH UTMOST RESPECT. PLEASE, DON'T EVER SHOUT BACK AT HIM IN PUBLIC. YOU WILL BE SHOCK HOW PEOPLE WILL BLAME YOU FOR THAT. A MAN SHOUTING AT HIS WIFE IN PUBLIC IS MESSING HIMSELF UP, NOT THE WIFE. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nemesis99(m): 12:27pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: Haba oga! Why are you pushing this woman na? I am 100% certain that if she dares shouts back at him, the man is gonna get physical with her. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nemesis99(m): 12:33pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Madam abeg talk to a counsellor. Shouting back at him just to make him understand how it hurts won't yield anything positive. Instead, its gonna get physical and escalates to constant DV |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by dangotesmummy: 1:06pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Fairgodwin:you're handsome in mind too |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Caseless: 1:13pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
mysticgal:YIM is the only platform to connect? |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by habsydiamond(m): 3:00pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Its bad to do that a wife not even a servant. I think she deserve better. If he is not ready to change the wife should be ready to change him. Cos if u don't change him, who will. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Dfinex(f): 4:35pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
coolviv: lolss....some people are just comedians. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Summersland(m): 4:38pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez:Haaaa! Ur advice is eavy because igbaju will end her boldness.. .Gbabee |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by mysticgal(f): 5:18pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Caseless:Go to Facebook.. I like it |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by centboy123456(m): 5:53pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
davidif: All these girls matter trie me sef |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by eyinjuege: 5:53pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
kassy777: But is it not an agboro husband that shouts on his wife in public? No decorum at all. Its so shameful. How can anyone respect such a man? Or even the wife? Respect can't be forced or commanded. Its earned , and definitely not by barking like a dog in public. Ewww... 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by warmachine(m): 8:23pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
iamloyalty:. Its not every man o....if shout at me. U might be making the worst mistake...I hate confrontations even if you are right...but just keep shut and calm...guilt will just overcloud me |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by warmachine(m): 8:27pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
eyinjuege: Mtchww...see how you think...if she shouts back are they not both stupid... So people determine your reactions... That's childish na...violence is never the best....let her sit hubby down and pour her heart out..she can even cry...if he doesn't react positively then you know its something extra odinary |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by eyinjuege: 8:54pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
warmachine: OK, so you've agreed the man is stupid right? Meanwhile, I've not read anything about violence here, maybe lack of manners but not violence. You've also said she should start acting nollywood by crying like Mercy Johnson? She should start faking tears? Wonders shall never end. So you support she should start some emotional blackmail to get what she wants? That's also not healthy in any relationship. If you don't like your husband shouting at you in public madam OP, there and then look him in the eye and tell him you'll appreciate not being shouted at and remind him that you're not his child!. You don't have to shout while doing that, be calm focused and direct. Don't get riled up over his stupidity as this person I quoted has aptly put it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by warmachine(m): 9:30pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
eyinjuege:This is an over grown child Pls stay of my mentions till u grow up |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by eyinjuege: 9:35pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
warmachine: Better an overgrown child than a senseless adult... 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by luvuinxs(m): 11:12pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Try snubbing him and acting as if you aren't the one he is talking to whenever he tries disgracing you in the public 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Caseless: 11:26pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
mysticgal:your handle on Facebook. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 1:41am On Nov 16, 2016 |
Why did you wipe off your comments, Yieldings? Because the thread made the front page? Weirdo. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 2:18am On Nov 16, 2016 |
Yes, that's why. I do have copies of the replies, as I saved them beforehand. Thanks, I embrace my weirdness, lol. DarkRebel101: |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by cococandy(f): 3:15am On Nov 16, 2016 |
jarmy:pathetic 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by cococandy(f): 3:17am On Nov 16, 2016 |
Disgusting oatzeal: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by lepasharon(f): 3:25am On Nov 16, 2016 |
cococandy: Lol I sense sarcasm sis |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by cococandy(f): 4:44am On Nov 16, 2016 |
lepasharon:Hmm. it better be 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 5:03am On Nov 16, 2016 |
MBTI = Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. It pretty much tells you what your personality type is. There're 16 types, with each person falling under one. It's best to take a test offline first, before playing around with the ones online but I know not everyone has access to the former, so you should do whichever you can get your hands on. Enneagrams are also personality types but they're more in-depth and they're definitely a bit more personal because they explain your core self, your motivations in life, your pattern of behaviour and why, etc. There're 9 enneagrams. They're like an addition to the MBTI, however the MBTI is more commonly used, e.g. by some employers. Enneagrams are a bit more complicated because there're wings and there're tritypes but like the MBTI there's always one dominant type that explains who you are at the core. Based on your NL posts, I would say you're an ENTJ. DarkRebel101: |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Fairgodwin(m): 7:12am On Nov 16, 2016 |
dangotesmummy: Funny you. Thanks though. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by mysticgal(f): 8:21am On Nov 16, 2016 |
Caseless:M'prizy Nnake |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Caseless: 9:47am On Nov 16, 2016 |
mysticgal: |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 10:35am On Nov 16, 2016 |
Yieldings: And because you are equally self-conscious and shy. Yes? Would you like to talk offline? Don't say yes if you are too busy with work and school at the moment, just give me a mention and type the word “available” whenever you've got time on your hands -- that way I'd get the cue. ... Besides, I meant weirdo as a compliment. I also consider myself cut from the same bolt of polyester fabric of weirdness. Who likes a regular Joe or a regular Jane anyway? 2 Likes |
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