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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Hadez(op): 9:05pm On Nov 18, 2016
Masonic:
Its a kiddies fun park here, what do you expect?
I expected people to use their sense once in a full moon at least.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Nov 18, 2016
MackBrooklyn:
cheesy grin









She is gonna come for your ass soon tongue
grin......say wetin undecided....I nor fit air my opinion again undecided
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Dfinex(f): 9:06pm On Nov 18, 2016
Maxi112:
its not advisable to always Cook for your boyfriend every time you visit him. its advisable to cook good food for him once in a while
you are right, once in a while not under compulsion though.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Nobody:
Hadez:
I find this very interesting to discuss here and I will go straight to the point.

I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him. It is important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life.if you are his friend,you act like his friend and if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife, you also act like one.

A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you, what threat wil I give you when we get married?
I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife! What are your opinion ladies?

men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks
No biggy in cooking the food that we will both devour.... Once in a while though.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Hadez(op): 9:06pm On Nov 18, 2016
KissChrix:
I must surely taste a Lady's food before marrying Herhuh Plenty times infact


Even after marrying Her, She must spend one week at my mum's place to learn how to prepare my favourites
So she is your slave! The only thing good you think can come from her is food? I am beginning to hate Nigerian men
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Nov 18, 2016
Dfinex:
so every time u visit him, he buys u food from chain restaurants? ??

just curious.
So you cook for a guy that you are not married to.

Good girl. Onye oma

NL guys are coming to dish out likes for you.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by SmellingAnus(m): 9:06pm On Nov 18, 2016
If I see you as a potential wife, you have to be cooking for me o, but if you are just a constant fling, I don't care if you cook for me or not, infact , I will be happier if you don't cook for me... Shekina..... Mimzyy spot on huniee
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by eph12(m): 9:07pm On Nov 18, 2016
Hadez:
So sex is the gateway to do anything for a man? Is that suppose to be the key to a lady's heart? Talk about standards
I think it's a popular saying though that the way to a man's heart is his stomach
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Nov 18, 2016
Cooking always for your boyfriend...are you his wife?, if he needs a permanent cook then he should do the needful.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by MackBrooklyn: 9:08pm On Nov 18, 2016
Presh900:
lol... Gave my life to christ 2nite, will probably collect it back 2mrw.. So he shouldn't feel fly yet...
Lol, shît happens now cool
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Hadez(op): 9:08pm On Nov 18, 2016
Dfinex:
if u can let him have sex with u, what's difficult in cooking for him?
Sex is a mutual understanding not a duty.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Maxi112: 9:08pm On Nov 18, 2016
Hadez:
It is not a bad thing if he do the cooking
you mean doing it always? how would you feel watching your bf cook for you each time you visit him, will you seat comfortable grace him battle with pot,knife, gas, and onions in the kitchen?
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by merit12(f): 9:08pm On Nov 18, 2016
Forse
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by dingbang(m): 9:08pm On Nov 18, 2016
Just look at d number of ladies viewing this thread


OK so who wants y'all to enter our kitchen sef, like as if one third of y'all knw how to cook a sumptuous meal.



Don't even bother, we gat our own edible katerer..
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Hadez(op): 9:09pm On Nov 18, 2016
Nma27:
No biggy in cooking the food that we will both devour....
Same goes for him
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by saintCaligula(m): 9:09pm On Nov 18, 2016
Hadez:
Men like you are with the mentality that LADIES ARE MEANT FOR THE KITCHEN. Spits
calm down babe, ladies don't belong to the kitchen but one of the things that makes her a woman is in the kitchen.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Presh900(m): 9:09pm On Nov 18, 2016
Hadez:
You can't put the whole blame on them, sometimes it is love
ahh.. Love?? Love goes in hand with self respect.. As someone noted, you should reserve an element of surprise for when he eventually marries you.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Nobody:
Hadez:
So she is your slave! The only thing good you think can come from her is food? I am beginning to hate Nigerian men
So, cooking for one's husband is now slavery?? Aye mi

Or should I hire a maid to cook for Me when I have a wife?

This feminist movement is turning to something else huh
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Hadez(op): 9:10pm On Nov 18, 2016
SmellingAnus:
If I see you as a potential wife, you have to be cooking for me o, but if you are just a constant fling, I don't care if you cook for me or not, infact , I will be happier if you don't cook for me... Shekina..... Mimzyy spot on huniee
Good you should marry a caterer then
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Masonic(m): 9:10pm On Nov 18, 2016
Hadez:
I expected people to use their sense once in a full moon at least.
And you wonder why most of them are still single grin
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by ikp120(m): 9:10pm On Nov 18, 2016
As for me, I no get gf... But my gf no go cook for me except she volunteers to... To make the stuff fun, we'll cook together, and that is if she agrees... If she doesn't agree, kini big deal?
I cook the stuff and we chop... But no tell me say the food no sweet o because I asked you to assist me but you no gree. Even when I marry, my wife and I go dey do the cooking because it's fun when two lovers tangle, not just in bed but everywhere.

By the way #TGIF.

e-clubbing on point
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Lucremoy(m): 9:10pm On Nov 18, 2016
Truth is, I'm probably not gonna let her cook for me, unless she's extremely good at it..
I'm an amazing cook and I just seem to like my cooking more than anyone else..
Even if she's my rib..
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Mimzyy(f): 9:11pm On Nov 18, 2016
Hadez:
So sex is the gateway to do anything for a man? Is that suppose to be the key to a lady's heart? Talk about standards
My point is, if you allow him to Bleep you free of charge I.e without paying your bride price, why should you be worried about trivial things like cooking except of course if you're a disaster in the kitchen dear.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Hadez(op): 9:11pm On Nov 18, 2016
Maxi112:
you mean doing it always? how would you feel watching your bf cook for you each time you visit him, will you seat comfortable grace him battle with pot,knife, gas, and onions in the kitchen?
I help arranging the stuffs and he cook them
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Nov 18, 2016
What do i even want to say here sef??
Cant remember...I'm out. undecided
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Nov 18, 2016
saintCaligula:
You must be kidding me..
Incase you dont know, I've seen men that fell for ladies just by eating their food and incase you don't know, men respect ladies that cook always to the once that goes to an eatery often
Men have always preferred slaves cheesy
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by MackBrooklyn: 9:13pm On Nov 18, 2016
Mimzyy:
Except you guys are in a 'no sex' relationship then this is hypocrisy. I mean he bleeps you whenever you guys want but you Wana ration the number of times you cook for him just 'cos he hasn't paid your bride price? Talk about double standards. Pftttt.

PS: A man knows who his heart belongs to, if you like do monkey flips on his d!ck and fry his chicken on diamond oil, if it's not you then it's not you. Ce que sera sera.
cheesy grin






Wow, Mimzyy I fûcking love this cool

Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by SmellingAnus(m): 9:14pm On Nov 18, 2016
Hadez:
Good you should marry a caterer then
I have seen girls that know how to cook yet they still said they will go to catering school, I sure will marry a good cook , one thing I know is that wether she knows how to cook or not, I will still encourage her to consider going to a catering school cool
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Maxi112: 9:15pm On Nov 18, 2016
Dfinex:
you are right, once in a while not under compulsion though.
once in a while is cool, you as a man won't get tired of her meal, things like cooking,washing of cloths should be minimised in a relationship. do, but don't over do it?



before we tag you busy body or attention seeker grin
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Nov 18, 2016
EmperorLee:
grin




You, I just dey spy you with gbejero eye undecided
Na jamb question nah grin
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Hadez(op): 9:16pm On Nov 18, 2016
Mimzyy:
My point is, if you allow him to Bleep you free of charge I.e without paying your bride price, why should you be worried about trivial things like cooking except of course if you're a disaster in the kitchen dear.
Maybe you should read the topic again
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Maxi112: 9:17pm On Nov 18, 2016
Hadez:
I help arranging the stuffs and he cook them
loooolz.

so you can never cook for your man for any reason, right?
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