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[/quote][quote author=Raine80 post=51615330]Domestic violence happens to both men and women hits because the effect on women is highlighted more men still get affected as well.

You are well informed

Sierusvirus:
You are well informed

Thank you

Raine80:
Domestic violence happens to both men and women hits because the effect on women is highlighted more men still get affected as well.

You are correct! There was an episode of a program called MALCOLM IN THE MIDDLE where a grown man went to the lake with his toddler son, to sail a toy boat for fun. Then a 9 year old boy showed up and rudely asked the man to leave that spot; that he OWNED the spot. Ofcourse the man told him off (even quite politely, that nobody "owned" any of the seats there) and the boy left in a sinister way.


Next, as the man was happily sailing his remote-controlled boat, a superior boat showed up on the lake, came straight at the weaker boat, smashed it and sank it. The man was like what are u doing?? The boy retorted "I think I'm sinking your boat!!!!"


The man couldn't let the injustice go. He went home, fortified his boat, and then showed up at the same spot the next weekend. Naturally, the sinister boy came too, attacking and crashing the man's boat for the second time and laughing hysterically, only this time the man had installed a mini missile on his boat which he used to blow up the boy's predatory boat.


Now, the boy started crying "you blew my boat! it was my Grandfathers boat and he gave it to me just before he died "

All the people there were now staring at the man like he was a wicked bully, whereas nobody cared when it was the boy destroying the man's boats for no reason at all and laughing hysterically.

That's exactly what happens in society; it's no big deal if the man is the victim, but it becomes a big deal when the woman is the victim.

Charlentine:
You are correct! There was an episode of a program called MALCOLM IN THE MIDDLE where a grown man went to the lake with his toddler son, to sail a toy boat for fun. Then a 9 year old boy showed up and rudely asked the man to leave that spot; that he OWNED the spot. Ofcourse the man told him off (even quite politely, that nobody "owned" any of the seats there) and the boy left in a sinister way.


Next, as the man was happily sailing his remote-controlled boat, a superior boat showed up on the lake, came straight at the weaker boat, smashed it and sank it. The man was like what are u doing?? The boy retorted "I think I'm sinking your boat!!!!"


The man couldn't let the injustice go. He went home, fortified his boat, and then showed up at the same spot the next weekend. Naturally, the sinister boy came too, attacking and crashing the man's boat for the second time and laughing hysterically, only this time the man had installed a mini missile on his boat which he used to blow up the boy's predatory boat.


Now, the boy started crying "you blew my boat! it was my Grandfathers boat and he gave it to me just before he died "

All the people there were now staring at the man like he was a wicked bully, whereas nobody cared when it was the boy destroying the man's boats for no reason at all and laughing hysterically.

That's exactly what happens in society; it's no big deal if the man is the victim, but it becomes a big deal when the woman is the victim.

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You just said it all and I pray and hope the society starts taking it serious.

Read it:

http://www.uncommonforum.com/viewtopic.php?t=56093