vchykp:


its past but not a memory worth remembring, d unfortunate thing is that i dated better babes, i wonder how i fell onto her trap, she humiliated me in public a lot, tour my cloth in public, broke my laptop, pour me pepper water, hot water sef.. name it bro, d cute babes i had where much, but she show dem craze one by one, all of dem run, as if she use charm, i cnt shout at her sef … tnk God am out of it tho

Switup:
okay then its diff. the person i refer to feels remorse and mostly woldnt return back!
shei u grab

henrydadon:


nah..every real nigga should be able to look after himself

Charlentine:
ok. Thank God. That sounds like a normal girl.

Charlentine:
That's what we all say until we say something else. Bro, read some of the posts here: players have fallen. Myself (tho not a player) I'm generally not the kinda guy you can just overlook. There's a reason why girls (crazy and sane) like to hang around some of us. Not to brag at all but I'm telling u that I know my worth and wouldn't take crap from anyone on a normal day. Yet, I fell!

So, just watch ur steps and leave the real nigga thing, bro.

Switup:
i know of a girl that bit her bf. wen i saw the mark and asked him, he said she crazy but they were playing? would u tame that an assault?

kratosonofzeus:
on this faithful afternoon, was in ss1 bck den...my female classmates were playing football during Break time, na so stupidity carry me go there ....na so I kicked the ball to a very far distance.....as I was running for my dear life on the field naso one huge igbo girl appear from nowhere...(like someone who wants to play shot for football) naso she hit my scrotum +dick + everything wey dey under, evrything together "wammm" naso I fall for ground lying down helplessly (naso dey ring the bell for end of break) everyone went back to their classes na only remain on d field lying down rolling and moaning(my male friends were even watching me from the class they were laughing like craze(To God be the glory 15 mins later I regained my conciousness) sinc then I never fvck wit dt girl again

Charlentine:
hehehehe! I think that's the typical answer you'll get from a guy who's been assaulted by his babe. Lol. Tho I know some couples have kinky fetish that involve some sick stuff during sex, but really, ask him to tell u the truth. Say to him "all liars shall perish!" he'll probably open up to you.

Charlentine:
hahahahahahaha!!! Really, really laughing that much

1. Anybody can fall into their trap, bro. You probably met her as a cute, fun, and maybe at lil crazy kinda chic that u thot u could handle. That's not bad until they suddenly transform into wild animals then u realize that u have overestimated your abilities. Then u try to run but mehn u are already trapped in her jungle; her territory!

2. I can relate. This one too chased all my cute friends away (even male friends too, stylishly) but I didn't allow her to humiliate me anywhere o. I could still control her madness until she used teeth. Ah! Na to just pick race remain

Guys, beware o.

vchykp:




..ur own nah play, u never jam..

kally01:
These days I dey voluntarily port to friendzone

Zceesneh:
Bleep it bro i won't beat a girl for nothing, she cross my line, i will use my belt on her body

Switup:
lol. He had broken her pinky finger earlier. it took about a month to heal.lol lol lol lol. crazy couple i tell u. once he said she almost tore one of expensive shirt cus he was(,playfully) threatening her with hot iron. they were crazy that year. i tell u. crazy

Franky826:
Back in jss 2 then. One girl sama me wella. Her name is Cynthia okoye.

Cant remember what happened and she tell me say if I mess up she go just beat me. The girl na giant and one bad mouthed bully. Fast forward 15-20mins later the babe don tear me o I no fit cry as man na. Na em guys come round me dey ask 'Nna how e take happen na' I no fit hol am again na em I tell them say I dey sick na em she fit beat me come begin take style form cold come cry wella. Dem come dey do me ehyaa...

No be small thing my people.

Charlentine:
True talk. compared to some others' experience, this one na play.

vchykp:


Just pray you get a good woman, because a bad woman will affect every area of your life including your finances..

Charlentine:
They can even KILL YOU ALIVE if u aren't strong. This is no joke o. Have u seen a responsible guy become a useless drunkard just like that? If u struggle with the damage they cause you and you don't find a way to release the feelings (either by talking abt it or immersing yourself in gainful activities or revenge) it can slowly paralyze your whole life.

vchykp:


WOMEN CAN KILL OR SAVE...it takes Gods hrt for the saving part.. i was worst than a drunkard tho.. tnk yahweh i am now an odogwu..!

lawrenzi:
me i was not abused oo. the girl just beat me.. her name is Eno, she is from calabar, then i was in J.SS 1. I could not control the tears. But i won't tell you how it happened, but i got my pound of flesh, please don't ask me how.

Rayhandrinni:
fuccin listen to yourself....i bet your dad thought you alot of things

Zceesneh:
ur papa left yansh there

NevetsIbot:
one assaulted me once o. She come our well to fetch water, me sev dey fetch, na so she begin pour water on me anyhow. I con tell her say make she take am easy.
Con see as the girl begin curse my parents. I bone am.. She pour water again, I warn am again.... As if she be hulk. She grap my colar, drag me outside where every body dey look. Woza!! Woza!!! She sama me two better slap for public.

Kai, na people con seperate the girl from me o. She don panel beat my life finish.

Everybody tell me'' ehyah sorry''. Shame catch me. I enter house. Even my popsi sev take me laugh... The baba just dey replay d way she slap me. If no be day I wan be gentu man.. I for beat her back o.

I con vex, the next day as I see say she don come our well again, I do push ups, weight lifts... Carry my bucket go downstairs again. She begin dey pour water again. I warn am. Na so she insult my parents come try to slap me. I dodge the slap..wooooosh.... Com sama the girl better punch for mouth.

She bend down dey cry like foul. Everybody run out including her maale. Blood just dey comot her mouth. She come dey use gender stuffs try to win. Het fat maale almost beat me finish. Na God say make my pman come on time.

She was 25 then nd I was 15. she fell into the gutter im front of me on day like that. I don laff taya

Charlentine:
A lot of ladies can relate to domestic violence or abuse because it is more commonly reported. But, though I know it is very embarrassing for us Guys to talk about it even with our best Buddies because somehow it makes us look and feel weak, please, this is faceless forum and its likely nobody knows you personally here, so please speak for the sake of the truth: have you ever been assaulted or abused by a female (wether a colleague, relative, girlfriend or wife)? Please don't just assume "she was crazy" because that's what we guys always say instead of calling her what she really was; an abuser!


I know a girl who runs an NGO thats against domestic violence AGAINST WOMEN. One day we were talking and I said, do u know a lot of men get abused/assaulted too by women? She says, no, in those cases it's the mans fault because women don't just instigate violence bla bla bla. I even went online and showed her some articles that explicitly listed cases of unwarranted abuse against men, by women, but she said "I don't buy it, it doesn't make any sense" which was when I humbly rest my case. I couldn't tell her that I have just come out of a relationship with a hateful, vengeful, angry, and abusive "nice" girl, and I even have two bite scars to show for it. My guess is she would dismiss that too and say it was all my fault or something like that.


Guys, please, for the sake of ignorant people, and the many other guys who may be too shy to take necessary steps, please speak. Lalasticlala, or other mods who may come across this, please put this on FP. It may help other people, because when it's happening u'll feel alone and lost cos it would seem like nobody would understand what you're going through. Thanks.

Charlentine:
Funny thing is that, with those mutually crazy couples, it can actually work. They would love eachother and hurt eachother and love eachother and hurt eachother again, and you dare not interfere or the two of them would crucify you...later....after their current battle is over. Lol. I don't ever pray for that kind of relationship sha

Sierusvirus:


I have been sexually assaulted, my brothers and many of my friends. it happens and even still happening now, maids, etc.
Pls do me a favour and link me up with the NGO lady. She will get back to u once am done with her with facts and figures. pls help me out. tnx

Charlentine:
Bad idea, bro. Shes a very stubborn girl. I mean very, very stubborn. Shes the typical beautiful, well financed, entitled chic who feels that the world turns however she thinks it turns (I'd say fvcking naive, excuse my French!). The only reason I even got into the subject with her was because I just wanted to show her that she was wrong about that girl, cos she was the one telling me back then to just "try to be there for the girl" that "if you show a girl unconditional love she would change no matter what. bla bla crap " Yet when I hinted that our experiment didn't go well afterall, she only hinted back that I probably didn't try hard enough (which was why I didn't even BOTHER to tell her the details). So u can imagine. Don't waste ur time, bro.