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Pls frds matured advice
I had a relationship of four years while in school, but after his nysc he left for abj for a greener pasture.
Four months after he left for abj i met a guy that is asking my hand in marriage. My concern is that he is not educated.
I dnt know if i should accept his proposal.

You need to re-evaluate your priorities at this moment in time.

Follow your heart. Does the banker take ur relationship with him serious, how often do you hear from banker since he left for Abj.

There is nothing wrong if a graduate lady marry a man who is not a graduate.

Ife ni koko

Nne you will make that decision for yourself. marriage is a life time commitment so nobody on nl will be with you to bear your marital quantas.
I say if he's a good man and he ticks every other thing you need in a husband then why not.

What happened with the other guy in abj? just four months after and you're talking marriage with another. what happened to the 4 years relationship? it wasn't a serious something?

You're a university graduate and you cannot make an ordered, coherent post??


And they wonder why this country is in shambles!

Piercedclit:
Nne you will make that decision for yourself. marriage is a life time commitment so nobody on nl will be with you to bear your marital quantas.
I say if he's a good man and he ticks every other thing you need in a husband then why not.

What happened with the other guy in abj? just four months after and you're talking marriage with another. what happened to the 4 years relationship? it wasn't a serious something?

we talked today but i feel he still need more time to settle himself before marriage commitments
i do love him alot but am afraid of the distance between us right now. I have feeling and he has too if am not there to fill that gap guess someone else maybe

SirWere:
You're a university graduate and you cannot make an ordered, coherent post??



And they wonder why this country is in shambles!

Boom.

Wicked answer

SirWere:
You're a university graduate and you cannot make an ordered, coherent post??



And they wonder why this country is in shambles!

pardon my error sir

Pinkkytee:
pardon my error sir

It's best you edit and redress the original post so viewers can read and understand it better.

For one, it seems as if there are two guys involved but their role seems murky.......
Is the uneducated guy also the banker or wha

I really want to contribute to this, but I don't see how I can do that without being rude.
So I'm just going to say, do whatever makes you happy, if this uneducated man is what makes your boat rock, then go for it, don't let anyone tell you otherwise...
Live your life on your own terms, not on some nairalander's opinion. In the end it's your uneducated man, abi?

This is a recipe for trouble in future

No.

if love can be blind i see no reason why it cant be uneducated

Kobicove:
This is a recipe for trouble in future

pls how is it recipe for trouble in future