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My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by sirhot(op): 1:36am On Dec 08, 2016

Okay, I met this new girl at the banking hall, we got talking and then started dating. Few days ago when she visited me, I talked about us going for a test but she seems to give excuses each time I talk about going to the hospital for a test.

At times she gets on the offensive that there's nothing wrong with her that I should stop disturbing her. I think at this point in time that she is hiding something from especially her hiv status, I'm not sure.

But why would a lady reject medical checkup that is free?

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Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by adewumiopeyemi(m): 1:37am On Dec 08, 2016

she may be afraid or hiding something bad to u ... better advice RUN for ur life bro

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by sirhot(op): 1:45am On Dec 08, 2016

adewumiopeyemi:
she may be afraid or hiding something bad to u ... better advice RUN for ur life bro

That's my fear... Ladies these days have a whole lot of secrets to cover up.

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by MrCork: 1:46am On Dec 08, 2016

sirhot:
Okay, I met this new girl at the banking hall, we got talking and then started dating. Few days ago when she visited me, I talked about us going for a test but she seems to give excuses each time I talk about going to the hospital for a test.

At times she gets on the offensive that there's nothing wrong with her that I should stop disturbing her. I think at this point in time that she is hiding something from especially her hiv status, I'm not sure.

But why would a lady reject medical checkup that is free?

she hav priiiiik? (No oofense) undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by MrCork: 1:46am On Dec 08, 2016

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Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by Emescot(m): 1:52am On Dec 08, 2016

I know that girl na... She has hiv since last year

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Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by Melahou(m): 5:24am On Dec 08, 2016

She probably has nothing to hide but
just the fear of running the test.

Don't take it so had, still persuade her.

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Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by QueenSuccubus(f): 5:42am On Dec 08, 2016

Maybe she's embarrassed the way u approached her..

If she doesn't want to go to the clinic to have a test, u can get her HIV test kit where u can both perform it in ur house... This is even more private.

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Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by Mimzyy(f): 5:59am On Dec 08, 2016

Hold off getting intimate with her until you're sure of her status.

You can't really force her though. The best you can do is to try to persuade her.

sirhot:
Okay, I met this new girl at the banking hall, we got talking and then started dating. Few days ago when she visited me, I talked about us going for a test but she seems to give excuses each time I talk about going to the hospital for a test.

At times she gets on the offensive that there's nothing wrong with her that I should stop disturbing her. I think at this point in time that she is hiding something from especially her hiv status, I'm not sure.

But why would a lady reject medical checkup that is free?

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Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by sirhot(op): 6:28am On Dec 08, 2016

QueenSuccubus:

Maybe she's embarrassed the way u approached her..

If she doesn't want to go to the clinic to have a test, u can get her HIV test kit where u can both perform it in ur house... This is even more private.

yes, I don't want to give her the impression that I want to do a hiv test, other test will be done with that inclusive wink

, blood group and others...

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by sirhot(op): 6:32am On Dec 08, 2016

Mimzyy:
Hold off getting intimate with her until you're sure of her status.

You can't really force her though. The best you can do is to try to persuade her.

I'm already getting tired. I'm trying but she's always on the offensive.

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by Nutase: 6:34am On Dec 08, 2016

I think you're taking things too fast. Slow down a bit.

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by sirhot(op): 6:38am On Dec 08, 2016

Nutase:
I think you're taking things too fast. Slow down a bit.

okay, so when should be the appropriate time?

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by Nutase: 6:40am On Dec 08, 2016

sirhot:
okay, so when should be the appropriate time?

win her confidence first by making her believe you have good intentions for her. Then and only then will she be completely free to do anything with you.

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by dingbang(m): 6:51am On Dec 08, 2016

Why must everything with dem ladies be taken too slow...

Give her time, give her space, don't rush things..

Somewhere along the line . Beech is fvcking another dude..

Save us from Eve

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Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by dacblogger: 7:19am On Dec 08, 2016

the O.P is in a hurry to fu*k the gal...... grin

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by firstking01(m): 7:25am On Dec 08, 2016

dacblogger:
the O.P is in a hurry to fu*k the gal...... .

I don't think so if not he would 've used condom...he's just been careful with his health...

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Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by dacblogger: 7:28am On Dec 08, 2016

firstking01:
I don't think so if not he would 've used condom...he's just been careful with his health...

There is a huge diff between raw s*x and s*x with CD.

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by firstking01(m): 7:31am On Dec 08, 2016

dacblogger:

There is a huge diff between raw s*x and s*x with CD.

And i'm bent sure the op wouldn't 've bleeped her raw...you, would you allow your bf to drain you raw??

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by dacblogger: 7:34am On Dec 08, 2016

firstking01:
And i'm bent sure the op wouldn't 've bleeped her raw...you, would you allow your bf to drain you raw??

am a virgin.. cry

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by firstking01(m): 7:37am On Dec 08, 2016

dacblogger:
am a virgin..

There are NO virgins in nigeria.

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by luvguy(m): 7:39am On Dec 08, 2016

MrCork:
she hav priiiiik? (No oofense)

aint funny

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by dacblogger: 7:41am On Dec 08, 2016

firstking01:
There are NO virgins in nigeria.

you sound pained, who is that gal that dealt with you huh

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Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by oluwafreshkid(m): 8:26am On Dec 08, 2016

dacblogger:
you sound pained, who is that gal that dealt with you

No, you sound defensive. Which guy took your virginity? And broke your heart?

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Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by dacblogger: 8:27am On Dec 08, 2016

oluwafreshkid:
No, you sound defensive. Which guy took your virginity? And broke your heart?

which virginity?? , u know hear say I be virgin huh

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by Tyviv(f): 8:30am On Dec 08, 2016

Op RUN for your life.... If she doesn't have anything to hide, going for test won't be a problem...

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by jamex93(m): 8:31am On Dec 08, 2016

sirhot:
Okay, I met this new girl at the banking hall, we got talking and then started dating. Few days ago when she visited me, I talked about us going for a test but she seems to give excuses each time I talk about going to the hospital for a test.

At times she gets on the offensive that there's nothing wrong with her that I should stop disturbing her. I think at this point in time that she is hiding something from especially her hiv status, I'm not sure.

But why would a lady reject medical checkup that is free?

Make I fall deep in sleep, take sample of her blood and go do ya test

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by firstking01(m): 11:28am On Dec 08, 2016

dacblogger:
you sound pained, who is that gal that dealt with you

Pained huh?, smh...nairalanders and misuse of words ignorantly...NO female born of a woman can break my heart, i'm no novice in the game.

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by Viccoguy4real(m): 11:38am On Dec 08, 2016

QueenSuccubus:

Maybe she's embarrassed the way u approached her..

If she doesn't want to go to the clinic to have a test, u can get her HIV test kit where u can both perform it in ur house... This is even more private.

How can one get the HIV test kit and how much those it course

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by QueenSuccubus(f): 11:44am On Dec 08, 2016

Viccoguy4real:
How can one get the HIV test kit and how much those it course

If the pharmacies in Ng doesn't dispense HIV test kit, u can order it thru online wink

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by schumastic(m): 11:51am On Dec 08, 2016

sirhot:
Okay, I met this new girl at the banking hall, we got talking and then started dating. Few days ago when she visited me, I talked about us going for a test but she seems to give excuses each time I talk about going to the hospital for a test.

At times she gets on the offensive that there's nothing wrong with her that I should stop disturbing her. I think at this point in time that she is hiding something from especially her hiv status, I'm not sure.

But why would a lady reject medical checkup that is free?

MAYBE SHE IS SCARED OR SOMETHING. IF AT ALL YOU INSIST ON YOU BOTH GOING FOR THE TEST, I WOULD ADVICE YOU FIND A BETTER WAY TO LET HER KNOW.
BY THE WAY IF YOU GO AHEAD WITH THE TEST AND IT TURNS OUT NEGATIVE, WOULD YOU INDULGE IN RAW SEX?

THE REASON I ASKED IS THIS, WHAT IF SHE CHEATS ON YOU WITH SOMEONE ELSE WHO IS POSITIVE WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?

Re: My Girlfriend Seems To Be Hiding Something? by AbdulAdam56(m): 1:00pm On Dec 08, 2016

sirhot:
Okay, I met this new girl at the banking hall, we got talking and then started dating. Few days ago when she visited me, I talked about us going for a test but she seems to give excuses each time I talk about going to the hospital for a test.

At times she gets on the offensive that there's nothing wrong with her that I should stop disturbing her. I think at this point in time that she is hiding something from especially her hiv status, I'm not sure.

But why would a lady reject medical checkup that is free?

see this guy oo
you don marry her?
she just come your place for once you are talking about test.Na wa wao

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