otunbaa:

In June 2014, I moved into this house in ikeja while working with an oil and gas firm and my fiancé was living and working in the states and was planning to relocate back to Nigeria so we can get married and start our own family. In December 2014, same year I moved into the house, I got sacked by the company for no reason and this is a job I have been doing for almost 3 years and since then I have not gotten another job till this moment because I feel that someone with my experience shouldn't be finding it difficult to get another job because I have worked with 3 major oil and gas firms with close to 8 years experience. In 2015, my fiancé got back from the states hoping to start a business and before we know it we started spending the money on nothing tangible till it finished and ever since she tried going back but no luck due to no money to finance it and nobody is willing to assist us with money, it's like helpers are running away to assist. We struggled to pay this year's rent ( 300k ) which will expire by June next year. Just recently someone told us to move out of the house that the owner might have done something to hinder our progress while he progresses and also I was told by someone in the neighborhood that a labourer died in the building while building the house and we are the first occupant of this house. I and my fiancé have concluded to move out of the house.
So fellas what do you think?

Richy4:
My brother, Nothing was wrong with where you were living....You did not know how to be prudent in spending......If you and your girl knew how to manage money, you would not have been in this situation...Your girl was in states and she doesn't watch Suze Orman show...

I suggest you move out. not because of the landlord, but because you cannot afford the payment anymore. get an affordable apartment man, when things became ok again, then you can decide to buy or live in an affluent suburb...Everyone needs wisdom in terms on money management...

One last advise, In future, choose your friends wisely...Do not go for all weather kind of friends....They are not good for keeps...

Mimzyy:

Phewww. Thank you. I was almost beginning to believe that everyone on this thread is superstitious when it's just money management that the intending couple lack.

My sis, I hate when they blame the witches when they were practically innocent and were not even looking their way

I believe that the landlord was not there when he was spending his money....Besides, who got that kind of time to charm someone to spend his or her own money...He cannot tell me that he did not invite few friends over to his house to come and see his girl when she arrived Nigeria...When money is only going out without coming into the account, what did he expect..

I think Nigerian movies.... with their creative acts/ imaginations has so brainwashed a lot of people, that you can't even differentiate a learned person and .....

Mimzyy:

Phewww. Thank you. I was almost beginning to believe that everyone on this thread is superstitious when it's just money management that the intending couple lack.

Richy4:


My sis, I hate when they blame the witches when they were practically innocent and were not even looking their way


I think Nigerian Churches and mosque.... with their creative acts/ imaginations has so brainwashed a lot of people, that you can't even differentiate a learned person and .....

Richy4:


My sis, I hate when they blame the witches when they were practically innocent and were not even looking their way

I believe that the landlord was not there when he was spending his money....Besides, who got that kind of time to charm someone to spend his or her own money...He cannot tell me that he did not invite few friends over to his house to come and see his girl when she arrived Nigeria...When money is only going out without coming into the account, what did he expect..

I think Nigerian movies.... with their creative acts/ imaginations has so brainwashed a lot of people, that you can't even differentiate a learned person and .....

kayzat:






You can't really blame them now because that is what our brand of religion leaders are storing on their members brain . Common headache now in this country is an invitation for long periods of deliverance and stories of spiritual attacks.




Nothing happens naturally in this country anymore without linking it to spiritual attacks from some imaginary enemies.

kayzat:





fixed .

Acidosis:
Could any of you criticizing OP for going spiritual ask for his address and spend some days, or better still, relocate to his home?

Do not force him to remain there if his spirit no longer agrees with the home and the associated ill luck.

OP, in so far as your spirit no longer agrees with the home you live in, whether a voodoo lives there or not, please move out.
Majority of these landlords are occultic. I once lived in an apartment with a lot of engraved & artistic images and flowers. I didn't know they had implications until after 2 years when the landlord openly listed the reasons he planted those "flowers".

There is a particular thread on a dead headless woman on the front-page. You think the killers used the head of the innocent woman for pepper soup?

Another one here: www.nairaland.com/3372477/theres-room-house-makes-skin/4

This is Nigeria, a country filled with people with evil intentions. If you won't join them in their evil deeds, you need to brace yourself in order to resist their ways. I can tell you of a fact that 9 out of 10 landlords in this country did something "spiritual" on their lands/home. To some, it is prayers from a priest, some buried pots, dead animals, etc. You are an ordinary tenant, you can't afford to live clandestinely.

It is true Nigeria is too spiritual.. but do westerners cut their neighbours head for rituals? Did Trump bath in the middle of the night with an animal's blood to win the US presidential election? Do UK politicians distribute money in red coffin, like Dino Melaye did in Kogi state?

There is no comparison here, Nigerians and indeed Africans are wicked.

Richy4:


No one was disputing that some people doesn't act funny......But We are all talking about this post at the moment...
People get laid off of their job every day when their services were no longer required everywhere in the world...
People spend scarce resources carelessly everyday without planning ahead... his Economics crash course teacher should have told him that that's what happens when scarce resources are rolling out without coming in.....I did not see what was so new based on his post... Or did he mention that his house was hunted and he hear strange noises?....

ifyalways:
This Acidosis of a guy cannot cease to amaze me. How can you hide behind your laptop to type trash?

Are you a landlord?

How in God's name did you come up with this your statement of fact : 9 out of 10 landlords are occultic or did something spiritual in their homes? How

Lazy ass tenants with zero money management and planning skills who blame everyone but themselves for their misfortunes.

Acidosis:
So people actually think an oil and gas worker (with 8 years experience) who decided to live in a 300k flat in Ikeja lacked money management skill?


It is well.


I've said enough though. I wish you all the best OP.

Bro.... Based on what you have posted above, I just have to conclude that you don't know much about Financial planning and wealth management...I would have given you some tips but it might be really boring to you and a waste of my time because you were not paying for it..

But hey, I will not hold that against you because you might be a professional in Engineering or Architecture...and when you happens to bring a house plan and ask me to take a look,...I might just look and smile like a simpleton because I don't know what to do with it...

I have to reassure you that Bill Gate or any rich man on this planet could be in a financial mess if he/she does not invest wisely....It is really very simple to loose money...