Good day Romancelanders(i dnt knw if am right). I really need you guys opinion on this esp the girls in the house

I have this course mate of mine who am asking out. This I decided to do after series of green light from her, in fact even as much as say I admire her too, I tried so much to deny it. So finally I summoned the courage to do so. The day I asked her out she was so welcoming but didn't say yes, but promised to think about it... I celebrate like say I don win lotto. Weeks latter during holidays while trying to build up something between us with normal calls and texting, she complained that I wasn't lively and that I'm too secretive. I tried to upgrade and we somehow moved on

Now the koko be say, it's been about two months since then. Things are not just going well between us, like she never agree. I thought it's just the normal "hard to get" girls play. But the situation is really getting bad, she doesn't even agree to have a date with me. The most annoying part is that she mostly tells me that she has a boyfriend, though i don't think she does

Another thing I noticed is that she gets jealous if I'm with other girls. So my confusion is this girl really in a relationship and don't want to have anything to do with me?? Or is she just playing hard to get?? And more importantly how long do a girl play this "hard to get". Cos I'm really tired of this whole stuff

Comments biko no insults!!!

Op... Get a cute hair cut

Borrow small cash

Rent a car

Storm the school the next day and sleep with her inside that car...

You don't appear to her as an ideal boyfriend. You might play a fast one and win her over, but it won't last cos she don stress u die..remove her from your mind, step up your game and looks, mingle with prettier girls than her, do the best not to take notice of her AGAIN and be nice if she says hello. Depending on her age and personality, these actions might change her mind and the decision to 'date' her will now be yours to make.

Sexxkillz:
The problem with most of you is that you don't want to get to know a girl "as friends" before asking her out, or you don't want to know a girl "as a friend" after asking her out.

If you don't attach "friendship" to a romantic relationship, the embers slowly die out. There's nothing you both have in common, there's nothing else to talk about except "have you eaten" and 0going out to "eat", as if that's enough to show you care.

Get to know her and gauge your compatibility from what you see and not what you think!

I hail ur wisdom.

How well do you know this girl and how old is she?

Raine80:
How well do you know this girl and how old is she?

I've known her for like 2 yrs nw, though u've just started been close. She's abt 23 yrs nw

Sexxkillz:
The problem with most of you is that you don't want to get to know a girl "as friends" before asking her out, or you don't want to know a girl "as a friend" after asking her out.

If you don't attach "friendship" to a romantic relationship, the embers slowly die out. There's nothing you both have in common, there's nothing else to talk about except "have you eaten" and going out to "eat", as if that's enough to show you care.

Get to know her and gauge your compatibility from what you see and not what you think!

guys like you never get girls laid,always in one stupid long distance relationship that is not going anywhere

U r probably not wat she xpected
BORING NIGGA
Lol
Free her....let her chase u.thats if u get d balls
U don too worship her so wat do u xpect?
Show her u've gat selfworth

chubaba22:

I've known her for like 2 yrs nw, though u've just started been close. She's abt 23 yrs nw

You have tried......she has put you truly and firmly in the friend zone this is not going to lead to anything.

BiafranBushBoy:
Op... Get a cute hair cut

Borrow small cash

Rent a car

Storm the school the next day and sleep with her inside that car...

The normal bad guy response is "don't borrow money to impress girl" but nna mehn, we've all done this......

Abeg listen to this bro.....he's on the level

Sexxkillz:
The problem with most of you is that you don't want to get to know a girl "as friends" before asking her out, or you don't want to know a girl "as a friend" after asking her out.

If you don't attach "friendship" to a romantic relationship, the embers slowly die out. There's nothing you both have in common, there's nothing else to talk about except "have you eaten" and going out to "eat", as if that's enough to show you care.

Get to know her and gauge your compatibility from what you see and not what you think!

Tip on how into enter the friend zone willingly