Sexxkillz:
Since when is a wife allowed to decide who her husband decides to employ as staff?

Questions like this one are downright stupid. . .

Splinz:
You think because she's curvy and all that, she's that much of a threat to me as a man?

Not at all. Infidelity is not insurmountable. I can still employ her as my assistance and ignore her sexually like shit!

Xiadnat:


Allowed?? Wow! Some kinda husband you will be. She will have no say huh?

Is it also a stupid question if this question was turned around as in if a husband is allowed to voice if a "whatever you consider attractive" male to work for wife.

Or wait, wives arent allowed to be bosses?

Sexxkillz:
Nothing wrong in a wife being a boss. Will her husband come to her company to decide who she employs?

Why are attractive people on attack, simply because stereotypical thinking assumes that there is bound to be an affair?

Xiadnat:


Personal assistant! Not another employee and
not even a receptionist or secretary. Personal assisant is bound to get personal-- hence the word. They do more for you outside office.


And why is the husband employing people? A third party like human resources should br responsible fir new hires.

Plus, a happy wife is a happy home is a happy life. If your wife says shr is not comfortable with her, then she is within her rights i feel especially if the hubby has tendency to wander....... and a man who knows he has that tendency should not employ what he considers temptation.

Sexxkillz:

Are you saying human resources cannot hire a lady that has all those qualifications, simply because she is attractive and their bosses wife would take exception to it? Again, what is the concern of a wife as to how and who the human resource managers of her husband's company, decides to hire?


That is totally by the side. if a man has a tendency, it's his problem. His wife may get uncomfortable. That is natural. But am i to believe that every man has a tendency to wander? Do you also believe that every attractive woman who works as a personal assistant to a married man would definitely seduce and sleep with him?

There are still loyal people out there. There are loyal men, and there are loyal attractive personal assistants. Should the man, the lady, his company, his human resource managers come under attack, simply because his wife "has a feeling that her husband will go astray? Does she trust him at all? What if her actions as a wife is detrimental to the success of her husband's company? Should she be allowed her excesses?

TrapQueen77:



As if these men can afford to pay her professional fee

Y'all don't need her if ur biz is only selling agege bread and grilled plantain sha...

Xiadnat:
Human resources can hire based on credientials. Thats a different story than hubby personally hiring.

A personal assistant has very little to do with success of a company. Its more a glorified house maid or office maid. Or does personal assistant mean a different status there in Nigeria?

Look, i am not saying its right or wrong. To each couple's own how they handle issues such as that.

It requires a lot of open communication and honesty and transparency.

Loyal my foot. Most men who deviate considerd themselves "loyal".

Can i be your personal assistant?

Sexxkillz:

Can i be your personal assistant?

Splinz:
You think because she's curvy and all that, she's that much of a threat to me as a man?

Not at all. Infidelity is not insurmountable. I can still employ her as my assistance and ignore her sexually like shit!

TrapQueen77:



As if these men can afford to pay her professional fee

Y'all don't need her if ur biz is only selling agege bread and grilled plantain sha...

shedy03:
she's called chelas, US model..

AngelSweetLips:
I support equal opportunities at work. She could sue and win if I demand she not be hired because of her looks.