Hello folks,

Simple.

Make her whatever you want to make her.

1-Baby Mama.

2-Second wife.

3-Side Chick.

I am Pro life too,so that is why a woman you are ready to sleep with unprotected with,is a woman you can trust to have your baby or make a wife.

Congratulations on your new baby (in view)

born, ur wife na naija ma.....she go just de vex, nothing she fit do

Simple?

You didn't tell us if this your girlfriend knows about your wife and two kids abroad.

Omg! Chai!

Well , you can't marry her. She won't be legit. Just get her her apartment and start rearing an illegitimate family, just like the men before you. Whew! You guys are truly your fathers' sons! Jeeeez!

Thanks.

Genuinely repent, report urself to ur pastor,and ur wife. Show true remorse,and all,will be well. Am sure d girl,does,not know. So tell her and av a meeting with all parties

knows

Most times the girlfriend will know but still stick her head into it. As long as his wife is based abroad.
Op, Congrats on your new baby.. Na 2 come chop rice remain.

Does

Omegalala:
She knows about them.

Lol, I knew it


The babe knows

Oga, u fucvked up sha but the deed is done already.
The next step is to pay her dowry and prepare for the tears and wailing of your first wife when she eventually knows, with the look of distrust in her eyes also.

Congrats once again



And Nigerian law does not recognize second wife, except u place it in your will about her existence and her child or childrens' existence.

But know this path uv chosen, will honestly be a bumpy ride for u, for her, your first wife and all your kids, even after your demise in old age.
Am from a polygamous home and I know how it bites like hell.. It's not fun, one bit.. Even though as all our parents are dead.. It even became worse.

But it's well..

Lol, you are a joke. I hope you will accept a child your wife has abroad for her boyfriend due to cold nights and an absent husband who fu**ks around without fear or use of condom in this day and age.

Men these days , smdh !!! If a woman had done dis to her husband people wud be calling her names left n right .

Omegalala:
Does nigerian law recognize second wife?
If not will traditional wedding/introduction help?

Is she insisting you must marry her?

Yea

Omegalala:
Does nigerian law recognize second wife?
If not will traditional wedding/introduction help?

It depends on the kind of wedding done with the first wife. If it's in the court, no. If it's traditional, yes. You can do traditional/introduction with her either way...I just pity your wife. Na which kind Nepa, lawman, roadma she run for sotey her bobo go play the wrong match. It is well. You are incorrigible , btw.

She

Yes.

ehyah, all is well

Omegalala:
Yes. The babe love me die.
Besides I like following protocols.

She was aware of your legally married wife and now wants you to marry her. Hope you also planning to divorce the other one too?

Someone

What does the mistress want to do with the baby?

She

1bkaye:
What does the mistress want to do with the baby?

See question o
She wants to the keep baby and even have more babies and be his second wife

U all are just asking questions as if u are not in nigeria

Lol

Oga carry go


But by God's grace my husband will not be like you ooo.. Amen oo

Omegalala:
She wants it like crazy.

Hahahahahahahahahah

Your wife would be very proud of you. I mean for a woman to accept to leave her husband, in the name of "poor education", shows she's ready to accept even a 10th wife.

Goodluck OP

It is not easy running parallel families today.

You are supder duper lucky that both wives have similar qualities. You could be a model polygamist tomorrow.

Omegalala:
Someone suggested Traditional/Introduction.

Which means you marrying two wives? Is that what you want?

Hi,
Ummmm...this is quite a sticky situation I must say first & foremost. I hesitated answering this one. Just a few questions first....
1). Are you a Godly man?
2). Do you believe in polygamy ?
3). Are you ever planning to join your wife kids in the U.S?

If 1). is "yes", then you need to ask God & then your wife for forgiveness. The baby didn't ask to be here, but at least you are willing to help raise it & won't deny it.

If 2). is "no", then you need to break the relationship off.

If 3). is "yes", then you need to shutdown your business, expedite that visa, and go in faith to the U.S. and be one family unit.
Notice that I answered the questions in the manner that "I" personally would hope you would answer it. Marriage, in my belief, is between only "1" woman & "1" man. If I were married I also wouldn't agree to be separated from my husband. We'd have to live simply and humbly in Nigeria or all move to the U.S. However, I don't know your views on marriage.
Everyone in this situation is gonna be hurt in some way, regardless...but life will still have to go on & a solution will have to be made...I'd hope an agreement could be made that would work for everyone.

Omegalala:
Hello folks, I need your advice on this.

I'm a married man with a wonderful wife and 2 kids. I love my wife. I'm not a womanizer, but very sexually active with my wife.

My wife, especially, is frustrated with Nigeria (no light, no good education for kids, traffic jams, etc). She suggested relocating to US. I supported and sponsored a legit relocation for her and the kids. But due to my good business clientele base in Nigeria and time required to get work permit for myself in US, I resorted to visiting them 2-3 times a year. They are really doing fine in the US.

Back home here in Nigeria, I won't lie, it gets lonely for me. Somehow I met a babe, a fresh graduate, who has most of the qualities of my wife. We dated for 8 months. Now she is pregnant (I fcked up!).

I'm pro-life, can't do abortion.
I love this babe too.

How can I handle the situation to keep both women happy?

Amelian:




See question o
She wants to the keep baby and even have more babies and be his second wife

U all are just asking questions as if u are not in nigeria

Lol

Oga carry go


But by God's grace my husband will not be like you ooo.. Amen oo

I wanted to know if she actually wanted to keep the baby or was being forced or persuaded by the guy as I think the woman should have the ultimate decision when it comes to abortions.

Lol all this second wife talk is a massive insult upon already very serious injury, I seriously really pity the wife smh