byvan03:



Crusty computer

lepasharon:


Lol my thoughts too.I don't believe any story on NL anymore. From 2013 upwards NL went to the dogs

CoCoLav:


Yes, I agree but there is also a 10% chance that no one will snitch unless the girl starts advertising him after stealing someone else's husband. I'm sure you must have heard stories of women who only found out about their husband's second wives at his graveside.

Omegalala:
Yes I've been online since yesterday.
It's really bugging me.

Not justifying cheating. Just feel why can't I love two women.
I feel one day, the nigeria senate will pass the law that a man can marry more than one wive on certain conditions.

And if the senate doesn't pass the law, Jesus Christ will pass the law when he comes back to reign on earth for 1000 years after the great tribulation, I bet.

sweetcocoa:
See the way the hediot even settle down responding to people over an obvious made up story, aimed at trying to justify cheating, by men .

Omegalala:
Not fake.
It's what's I'm facing right now.
Yes, I signed up yesterday to protect my identity.

You can request for my phone number here (omegaconsole@outlook.com) if you have a strong suggestion.

ckamal:
Bros am a Married man just like you...but to be frank with you,you have just created a problem you will never be able to solve in your own life time..i mean not with money,gift or anything...i mean even if you get lonely and need a companion,must you go all the way to impregnate the other lady..i sincerely doubt if you truly love and respect your wife.

Its obvious you took this step simply because you wanted more kids and your wife cant give you more due to the C.S u mentioned she did..as a married man like you..i have been with other ladies casually while been married codedly and i do have one that i have been seeing for over a year..now this lady knows i am married and i can never marry her..its just friendship with benefit thats all..she has kids of hers too and just needs a man to keep body and soul together.

As a man its not so easy to keep away from the temptations at times but no matter what my wife always comes first in the scheme of things and she is the one i would always go back home to even after the whole what have u...I don't mean to judge you but your choice is a very selfish one...I am from a polygamous home and i would never go into one no matter how tempting it could be..Most Polygamous men become loners in their old age because all the the children simply focus on their Moms.

I wish u all the best in whatever decision you make at the end of the day

Cherlene:
Montezz

Omegalala:
Who is mumu...
I came online for advice.

Do you know what your husband is doing or will do behind you...
I feel if the opportunity pops up, we men display our intrinsically polygamous nature.

Better learn from my situation instead of abusing me.

CoCoLav:


You are welcome. Correct this mistake for the sake of your child and not necessarily for the lady because she obviously lacks a moral compass.

Another thing you could do is to tell your wife and get the child to live with you and your wife after he/she is weaned and if your wife is willing to continue with the marriage. The issue with this is the likelihood of the child being maltreated and the probability of your lady agreeing to let her child go. It is the way I have witnessed this issues being handled.

Each of the potential solutions is riddled with problems as getting an abortion is frowned upon by society, letting the lady raise the child alone brings with it the stigma of a single mother/absentee father/possibly delinquent child and marrying her will definitely incur the wrath of your wife.

Choose wisely.

Omegalala:
Hello folks, I need your advice on this.

I'm a married man with a wonderful wife and 2 kids. I love my wife. I'm not a womanizer, but very sexually active with my wife.

My wife, especially, is frustrated with Nigeria (no light, no good education for kids, traffic jams, etc). She suggested relocating to US. I supported and sponsored a legit relocation for her and the kids. But due to my good business clientele base in Nigeria and time required to get work permit for myself in US, I resorted to visiting them 2-3 times a year. They are really doing fine in the US.

Back home here in Nigeria, I won't lie, it gets lonely for me. Somehow I met a babe, a fresh graduate, who has most of the qualities of my wife. We dated for 8 months. Now she is pregnant (I fcked up!).

I'm pro-life, can't do abortion.
I love this babe too.

How can I handle the situation to keep both women happy?

Omegalala:
Thanks MsLady39.

We didn't really discuss how both we'll cope with sx. We just felt we'll be having sx when I visit.

But on my last trip to US, she stumbled text from the babe.
She woke me up and told me about the text. That she understands its not easy for man to go without sx for long period.
That I should use condom and not engage in serious relationship.

But really for me, even in university days, I only have one gf at a time, so I don't use cd.
Sx with cd is waste of time for me.
If I feel I can't love you or live with you, I can't have sx with you.

misspicy:
I don't know why people are pitying the wife after reading this, this is a generous pass to cheat, and when you cheat you get a result (pregnancy) , wife knows this, so why the insults?

cococandy:

Someone else sees it

Omegalala:
She wants it like crazy.

joycesims:


I'm telling you, the 3 both of them! I guess this is what it means for one to have a big heart!

eph12:

1. Mistake has been made already. Move on. You can accept responsibility of the baby you don't have to marry another wife.

2. If you must marry your new baby mama, then you have to legally divorce your first wife first.



How many kids do you have already?

Omegalala:
Thanks.

lepasharon:


And Why would I request ur fone no

Omegalala:
Yes I've been online since yesterday.
It's really bugging me.

Not justifying cheating. Just feel why can't I love two women.
I feel one day, the nigeria senate will pass the law that a man can marry more than one wive on certain conditions.

And if the senate doesn't pass the law, Jesus Christ will pass the law when he comes back to reign on earth for 1000 years after the great tribulation, I bet.

Eteo:
OP, don't mind them. Go ahead and marry ur pregnant mistress. she will be ur nemesis.

a fresh graduate who sleeps wt another woman's husband repeatedly is zero on morals and has a dead conscience...she gets pregnant and insists on being married to u without thinking abt the repercussions of breaking someone's home, all in the name of love...my brother man, go ahead and marry her and watch her ruin ur life and all u ve ever worked for...with that her dead conscience u ll be a dead man the day u mistakenly love a third woman who also has same qualities as ur wife cos she knows the possibilities already.

but u haven't considered the possibility of ur first wife filing for a divorce from u, u believe she wl just swallow ur poo and keep a straight face, abi?

This man is still a learner...see how one 26 year old girl take rope tie u for neck...and is dragging u to the slaughter slab and u are following and at the same time asking NLders how slaughter dey be...e go soon clear u for eye