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Let's face it. Cold approaches are plenty challenging enough, even if the woman is sitting by herself in an empty coffee shop already smiling at you.

But even assuming you've conquered approach anxiety with a big, heavy hammer (and if you haven't, see yesterday's newsletter) there are some situations that can make even the most seasoned veteran scratch his head and go, "Now what?"

Well, by now you know I'm all about eliminating the phrase "now what?" from our collective vocabulary.

Until that day finally gets here, however, here are some practical suggestions--rapid-fire style, mind you--for meeting a woman you just have to talk to, regardless of how sticky the situation is.

How about a "top ten list"?

Here are the first five this time around. Bear in mind that challenging situations WILL typically require bold action:


1) She's Walking The Opposite Way Down A City Street

In a scenarios like this, you've got to be pragmatic...and you've got to be fast. There's no time for thinking, just action.

If ever the "three second rule" is particularly mission-critical, it's under circumstances such as this.

So call it out like it is.

Approach the woman from an angle where she can see you, tap her on the shoulder and pronounce--bluntly--"Look, I saw you and I knew I HAD to meet you. You're obviously headed somewhere and so am I, so give me your number so we can continue this conversation properly later."

First of all, you'll be shocked by how frequently your sheer confidence turns a woman on in situations such as this. Second of all, you'd better have something to write with. There's no time for trifling with cell phones, etc. Write her number on your hand.


2) She Has Headphones On

Oftentimes we automatically assume that a woman has headphones on at the gym, beach or wherever to "tune us out". You're probably right.

But all you need to remember is that women are hard-wired to follow our lead, and they are NOT hard-wired to their smartphones.

Again, approach from an angle that won't seem like she's being ambushed, get eye contact with her--even if you have to get right in front of her face to face (at least 18" away, please)--and simply tap your ear.

That's the universal symbol for, "Would you please remove your earphones?"

Prepare to be shocked by how consistently this works. And when she loses the headsets, also be prepared to introduce yourself. As always, your confidence will be credited to you by any woman with her head screwed on straight.

That is, unless you're flat-out creepy, or something--which you're not.

Read the full article here: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com/blogs/how-to-attract-men-and-women/834-how-to-meet-a-woman-even-in-the-most-challenging-situations-you-can-think-of

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If you have questions, let me know...?

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How do I approach a lady who is walking with her man
Or a lady who is properly on a date with another guy

Bluezy13:
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How do I approach a lady who is walking with her man

Or a lady who is properly on a date with another guy

Hey!

C'mon if she is with a man then it proves she isn't single. So, go find a single girl.

I believe you don't like trouble?

Consulter:
Hey!

C'mon if she is with a man then it proves she isn't single. So, go find a single girl.

I believe you don't like trouble?

Those are the ones that interest me.

You are amazing!