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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by CoCoLav(f): 9:12pm On Dec 13, 2016
Amelian:




But irony is that someone in his family or one of his friends or even her friends will tell the first wife.
Do u honestly think Nigerians keep secrets like that?
Lol

One person will definitely snitch!

That's life.

Yes, I agree but there is also a 10% chance that no one will snitch unless the girl starts advertising him after stealing someone else's husband. I'm sure you must have heard stories of women who only found out about their husband's second wives at his graveside.
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 9:13pm On Dec 13, 2016
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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by misspicy(f): 9:17pm On Dec 13, 2016
Omegalala:
Thanks MsLady39.

We didn't really discuss how both we'll cope with sx. We just felt we'll be having sx when I visit.

But on my last trip to US, she stumbled text from the babe.
She woke me up and told me about the text. That she understands its not easy for man to go without sx for long period.
That I should use condom and not engage in serious relationship.


But really for me, even in university days, I only have one gf at a time, so I don't use cd.
Sx with cd is waste of time for me.
If I feel I can't love you or live with you, I can't have sx with you.



I don't understand why some people are fighting an irrelevant battle for the Op's wife, she already gave him a pass, a new wife will not surprise or shock her.

Please yuu guys should stop insulting him abeg.
Op tell your wife the truth, marry your pregnant girlfriend, try to do right by both of them equally, iran okunrin lonfe iyawo meji, meta, merin, mefa etc grin
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by sweetcocoa(f): 9:23pm On Dec 13, 2016
Pro life ko, all these useless mod inspired stories sef, mschew.

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 9:26pm On Dec 13, 2016
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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 9:27pm On Dec 13, 2016
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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by sweetcocoa(f): 9:30pm On Dec 13, 2016
Omegalala:
Not mod inspired. This is 4 real.


My friend keep quiet and go to bed, you must think everyone is stupid.

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 9:36pm On Dec 13, 2016
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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Nobody: 9:37pm On Dec 13, 2016
Mtcheeew. . Mumu man!

You claim to value kids yet you don't seem to care about the two children you already have. If you thought of their future even once during your marathon s3x, you won't be here blabbing nonsense.

Yeye.

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Nobody: 9:38pm On Dec 13, 2016
Omegalala:
Is that how you tell your husband or whoever is shining your congo 'keep quite'...
If you don't have any helpful contribution, then gerrrrout.

I think I learnt couple of moves from CoCoLav, misspicy, etal.



Mumu!

See the kind of men women marry these days.

Olodo! !!

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by sweetcocoa(f): 9:42pm On Dec 13, 2016
Omegalala:
Is that how you tell your husband or whoever is shining your congo 'keep quite'...
If you don't have any helpful contribution, then gerrrrout.

I think I learnt couple of moves from CoCoLav, misspicy, etal.


See mumu, you learnt a couple of moves, grin, chai! You are lucky this is the internet.

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 9:43pm On Dec 13, 2016
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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 9:53pm On Dec 13, 2016
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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by byvan03: 9:58pm On Dec 13, 2016
Omegalala:
Who is mumu...
I came online for advice.

Do you know what your husband is doing or will do behind you...
I feel if the opportunity pops up, we men display our intrinsically polygamous nature.

Better learn from my situation instead of abusing me.





Please carry your cross without roping other men in, WTF is "we men? ".

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by CoCoLav(f): 10:02pm On Dec 13, 2016
Omegalala:
Thanks CoCoLav..




You are welcome. Correct this mistake for the sake of your child and not necessarily for the lady because she obviously lacks a moral compass.

Another thing you could do is to tell your wife and get the child to live with you and your wife after he/she is weaned and if your wife is willing to continue with the marriage. The issue with this is the likelihood of the child being maltreated and the probability of your lady agreeing to let her child go. It is the way I have witnessed this issues being handled.

Each of the potential solutions is riddled with problems as getting an abortion is frowned upon by society, letting the lady raise the child alone brings with it the stigma of a single mother/absentee father/possibly delinquent child and marrying her will definitely incur the wrath of your wife.

Choose wisely.

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 10:06pm On Dec 13, 2016
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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by purple3091: 10:07pm On Dec 13, 2016
Omegalala:
She had two c-section births.
Doctor advised no more babies.

i take it,you mean that you are fine with her having side guys since she wont get pregnant?oya please tell me,i have my cousin in usa who likes sex,i shall send him for her grin

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 10:11pm On Dec 13, 2016
Sx

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by cococandy(f): 10:12pm On Dec 13, 2016
Omegalala:
Who is mumu...
I came online for advice.

Do you know what your husband is doing or will do behind you...
I feel if the opportunity pops up, we men display our intrinsically polygamous nature.

Better learn from my situation instead of abusing me.



And here lies the crux of the thread. Not any advice seeking intention but the good old plot to excuse and justify misbehavior among men.

probably a single boy wanking away on his crusty computer keyboard.

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by 4nobody4every1: 10:12pm On Dec 13, 2016
Omegalala:
Thanks, Ori e wam be!

I no go lie, I love that babe. Mo laiki omo ye.
I love my wife too.

God will see me through.

Baba God noni!



Case closed, next story pleaseeeeeeee grin grin grin

Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by byvan03: 10:15pm On Dec 13, 2016
Omegalala:
Sure, will carry my muth'fkin cross.
Yes men, I mean men... I'm sure you've stared at butts and jugs more than once this week.
And if the chance pops it will take grace of God for you not to commit.





No by men, you should mean man, yourself. Others stare at jugs, you? You knocked up a bloody side chic. Bros your issues are deep rooted. Fix it and don't hide behind "we men", it's an insult to men with functioning mental faculties.

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by purple3091: 10:17pm On Dec 13, 2016
Omegalala:
Sx no longer freak her.
She enjoys the 'everything works' US environment, her hobbies and watching the kids grow.


maybe she doesn't want sex with you as much?and not just sex in general,just saying...am a woman,married,and do cheat.anyway my question still remains:in accordance to your reply to the question asked by baby here:

baby124:
Lol, you are a joke. I hope you will accept a child your wife has abroad for her boyfriend due to cold nights and an absent husband who fu**ks around without fear or use of condom in this day and age.

Omegalala:
She had two c-section births.
Doctor advised no more babies.


does that mean you are fine with it,since your reasons where you were lonely,your wife gives the same.are you fine with her cheating as long as she doesnt get pregnant? yes/no..no divergences like before

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by byvan03: 10:17pm On Dec 13, 2016
cococandy:

And here lies the crux of the thread. Not any advice seeking intention but the good old plot to excuse and justify misbehavior among men.

probably a single boy wanking away on his crusty computer keyboard.


Crusty computer grin grin grin grin

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 10:24pm On Dec 13, 2016
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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Mafio: 10:29pm On Dec 13, 2016
Op U are not thinking about ur wife Stop being selfish At least be remorseful..

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by lepasharon(f): 10:36pm On Dec 13, 2016
You lot are getting ur knickers in a twist over a fake story.

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 10:41pm On Dec 13, 2016
Yea
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Nobody: 10:46pm On Dec 13, 2016
Omegalala:
I'm getting more and more depressed by the doom scenario being painted for me by folks on nairaland.
May be I shouldn't have shared the topic on this platform.

May be I should just run away from both women.

I'm fcked man!




Where is your wife located in the US? The Nigerian community is very small here. I will find her o! Give me a name, I will locate her on your behalf. Thunder fire you!! You have made me suspect my husband today. I will be watching him closely. Shameless man impregnating a young girl. See how you talked of her with romance in your heart. You are certain you are the only man she has been with in the short time you have known her. I hope she is playing nice to ruin you in the end. May your konji fall each morning your rise.

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by sweetcocoa(f): 10:53pm On Dec 13, 2016
I really wonder how it is that most of you are falling for this sorry excuse of a story and wasting your breadth on it.

OP registered yesterday, if anyone cares to know sha.

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by sweetcocoa(f): 10:54pm On Dec 13, 2016
lepasharon:
You lot are ur knickers in a twist over a fake story.
Just imagine the nonsense.grin

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by sweetcocoa(f): 10:56pm On Dec 13, 2016
To think that some women are even advising him on how to manage the situation sef, smh.

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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by lepasharon(f): 10:56pm On Dec 13, 2016
sweetcocoa:
I really wonder how it is that most of you are falling for this sorry excuse of a story and wasting your breadth on it.

OP registered yesterday, if anyone cares to know sha.

Lol my thoughts too.I don't believe any story on NL anymore. From 2013 upwards NL went to the dogs

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