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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by cococandy(f): 10:57pm On Dec 13, 2016 |
byvan03:With yamayama (dirt) stuck between the keyboards. 1 Like |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by sweetcocoa(f): 10:59pm On Dec 13, 2016 |
lepasharon:See the way the hediot even settle down responding to people over an obvious made up story,aimed at trying to justify cheating, by men. 3 Likes |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 11:02pm On Dec 13, 2016 |
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Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Nobody: 11:03pm On Dec 13, 2016 |
CoCoLav: That was then.. Not nowadays.. Have u heard such stories again? Nowadays all the concubines and wives know each other and it's all always battle to the end. And trust me either her friend will snitch, with the go ahead from her, so that his first wife will get angry and file for divorce and eventually relocate abroad for good. Then viola! The coast is clear for her to become the next first wife.. My dear some ladies of these days can plan unimaginable things to become the first. I know of one lady who made the first wife run mad, mean stark raving mad.. And the marri3d man she was dating then had to return his first wife to her family, saying she suddenly had mental illness and never knew her family had a history of mental illness but unknown to. Him.. The madness came from his concubine. He then marri3d his concubine and divorce his first wife on the count of mental. Illness. He later got to know the truth, when his new wife tried to kill him spiritually after having 2 children for him .. This man was in tears as he was narrating his ordeal to. Me.. I just shook my head in wonder My dear anything can happen.. There are so many twist to this scenario. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 11:10pm On Dec 13, 2016 |
Yes |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by sweetcocoa(f): 11:28pm On Dec 13, 2016 |
Omegalala:You are high on b.s. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by cococandy(f): 11:35pm On Dec 13, 2016 |
sweetcocoa:Someone else sees it 2 Likes |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by lepasharon(f): 11:37pm On Dec 13, 2016 |
Omegalala: And Why would I request ur fone no 2 Likes |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by lepasharon(f): 11:41pm On Dec 13, 2016 |
ckamal: See this one.How would you feel if you found out ur wife is with men casually? 4 Likes |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Tyviv(f): 12:23am On Dec 14, 2016 |
Na wa o |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by MrMcJay(m): 1:11am On Dec 14, 2016 |
@Omegalala, don't rush into marrying your concubine. The girl knows she's a dispensable option to you and she now wants to be your priority. That pregnancy is just to tie you down. First things first, read the link below, you need it. https://www.nairaland.com/2186575/40-first-borns-not-fathers Very importantly, discreetly run a DNA test as soon as possible once the child is born. I'll advise that you don't marry her yet. Let her give birth and study her behaviour closely for sometime. Love is blind, marriage opens your eyes. 1 Like |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 1:15am On Dec 14, 2016 |
One Love Bro! |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by montezz(f): 2:19am On Dec 14, 2016 |
I wonder why people are calling for OP's head when they would have done worse. @OP, do whatsoever you think will make you happy. I know some women will come for my head but no one is perfect. Really? Body no be wood na and sinx you have made that mistake, keep the baby and find a way to clean your mess. 1 Like |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Cherlene(f): 2:35am On Dec 14, 2016 |
Montezz |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Eteo: 2:43am On Dec 14, 2016 |
OP, don't mind them. Go ahead and marry ur pregnant mistress. she will be ur nemesis. a fresh graduate who sleeps wt another woman's husband repeatedly is zero on morals and has a dead conscience...she gets pregnant and insists on being married to u without thinking abt the repercussions of breaking someone's home, all in the name of love...my brother man, go ahead and marry her and watch her ruin ur life and all u ve ever worked for...with that her dead conscience u ll be a dead man the day u mistakenly love a third woman who also has same qualities as ur wife cos she knows the possibilities already. but u haven't considered the possibility of ur first wife filing for a divorce from u, u believe she wl just swallow ur poo and keep a straight face, abi? This man is still a learner...see how one 26 year old girl take rope tie u for neck...and is dragging u to the slaughter slab and u are following and at the same time asking NLders how slaughter dey be...e go soon clear u for eye 12 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by montezz(f): 2:52am On Dec 14, 2016 |
Cherlene:Yes my love. How have you been? How are the girls? |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Nobody: 6:04am On Dec 14, 2016 |
Omegalala: I didn't marry a dundie like you nah, I can actually leave him without worrying about what he's doing. Love kin love kon. That love will soon clear in your eyes like film trick and you'll see what you've brought on yourself. It's just your wife and kids I pity! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by misspicy(f): 6:10am On Dec 14, 2016 |
CoCoLav:Is like you didn't read where his wife gave him a free pass to cheat abi. That aspect has been taken care of already. I fail to understand the grievance of most ladies on this thread, this story whether fake or real is what is obtainable in our society and who are those trying to change the world here, y'all better don't kill yourselves for the world , Jesus did that already. My point is, it has happened, Op needs a solution on how to handle a polygamous home, so the essence of these insults is what I don't understand..... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by loomer: 6:20am On Dec 14, 2016 |
Omegalala:. Marry her na. But put am for mind say you don loose your wife and kids sha 2 Likes |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by misspicy(f): 6:21am On Dec 14, 2016 |
I don't know why people are pitying the wife after reading this, this is a generous pass to cheat, and when you cheat you get a result (pregnancy) , wife knows this, so why the insults? Omegalala: |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Nobody: 7:14am On Dec 14, 2016 |
misspicy: But she specifically requested that he uses protection and not get involved in a committed relationship. Going by your logic of what the woman 'permitted' him to do, don't you think he deserves to be faulted here? And in any case what were you expecting her to say? She already saw reasonable evidence that he was cheating even with getting a 'pass'. Personally I think she was just being realistic about what she can and cannot tolerate. The fact that she acknowledged that it will be impossible for him to stay without sex for 6months, and accepts the reality of that, doesn't mean she has cosigned to sharing her marriage with another woman. The OP originally intended to marry the strange woman and bear children with her since his wife cannot have any more kids. Somehow I think with or without her 'consent' he would have still done that. So people are blaming the woman for wanting a better life for her kids, but this was a decision both of them took together. I personally would never agree to such, not because I don't want this scenario to play out in my home, but because I know how difficult it is to raise children alone. As much as I love my kids, I won't make such sacrifice for them. I cannot come and go and kill myself!!! I'll stay wherever my husband is staying and together we will both play our own individual roles in raising the kids. People assume because the woman is living abroad, she having a time of her life. I bet she is also extremely lonely, overstretched and possibly depressed. Imagine how she will react when she discovers what her her husband has been up to back home. I bet my 1kobo that OP is a broke dude who's refusing to live a broad because he can't bring himself to do menial jobs which is all that will be available to him over there. Back here he can live off the few dollars his wife scrapes and sends to him and brag about how he cannot stand the weather and how his family lives in the almighty US. . . . I know his type. I see them everyday. . . I just pity the wives who think they can become heroes to these undeserving men. 13 Likes |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by sweetcocoa(f): 7:38am On Dec 14, 2016 |
cococandy:No be today na. 1 Like |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by 2mNaira: 9:13am On Dec 14, 2016 |
Omegalala: Look friend. Smone just got you trapped with a pregnancy. From what I read about her dispostion, I wont be surprised if in the future she gets you to kick your wife out.That lady had it all planned out.She is obviously in control. Whatever you do, don't allow her to get you to kick your wife out.Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by 2mNaira: 9:22am On Dec 14, 2016 |
joycesims: This your post made me laugh so hard. 1 Like |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by 2mNaira: 9:41am On Dec 14, 2016 |
eph12: Apart from the divorce part, this is the best advice. Don't marry the woman but take responsibilty for her and the baby. Please don't marry her and PLEASE...ZIP UP. |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by 2mNaira: 9:51am On Dec 14, 2016 |
Omegalala: I remember how my born again christian best friend told me of his plan to change his surname. I thought he was joking until some time back he change his surname on facebook.He is from.a polygamous home. |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Nobody: 10:30am On Dec 14, 2016 |
lepasharon: Make he give u belle join. Then voila! Hes inlove with 3 women and confused on what next to do Kkikikikikiki 7 Likes |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Ngokafor(f): 10:37am On Dec 14, 2016 |
...The op is an attention-seeker biko. ...For the life of me,he sounds like a teenage troll with too much time on his hands.. ...that has to be the fact cos it would be one of the biggest tragedy on earth if he is truely a married man and is this irresponsible in his ways and speech!. 4 Likes |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Ngokafor(f): 10:43am On Dec 14, 2016 |
Omegalala: .....what a clownish dolt!!..smh!! ..... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Omegalala: 10:50am On Dec 14, 2016 |
No Trolling |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by DozieInc(m): 11:32am On Dec 14, 2016 |
Eteo: 1 Like |
Re: Married Man Impregnates Girlfriend. Advice Needed. by Hitunnu(f): 12:14pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Both are at fault bt most goes to the woman. The nature of men need to be understood as well as our duties. Abuses isnt the solutions when issues arises. It can only be prevented when it hasn't happened. Couples that lives together or in the same country still cheat let alone of someone who left her husband. Both didn't reasons well before taken the decision. She went for both good bt at the same time. An aspect couples must to address well. She may accept the baby if she realised she neglected her duties. Dnt go for any introduction/marriage without her consent. |
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