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She Curses Alot by thebest1210(op): 2:24pm On Dec 15, 2016
It's a very long story, but I will be as brief as possible and try to give the important points.
Again, pls, don't mind my typo errors.

We have been dating for 7yrs 5 months now. All dese while, we have been having serious fights and arguments. The relationship started right from our university days. Now, we have graduated and I now have my master degree. During this period, dere is no week, we don't quarrel, I've tot of pulling out a number of times, but we still got stuck to each other. Won't lie, I have promised, countless number of times dat I will marry her, yes! And I meant it. Just waiting to have a job first, not to even "blow" b4 I will do the "right" tin.
But in the past few months, d rship has degenerated badly, she insults me like boy, call names, I insult her too. And when it results to a fight, she begins her cursing spree. Telling m how I won't succeed in life, how I will die b4 I reach 30, how I will fail and tinz won't work out for me. To make matter worse, she reported me to her younger sister, who is very far below my age, and dis small gal insulted and cursed the hell out of me. Promised to deal with me. A gal I paid putme form for?? Didn't respond to the gal, cos, it will be childish of me to exchange talks with such a small girl. To make matter worse, wen I told m gal wat her sister said, she told m to my face dat I deserved it! Kai!!
After some days, I decided to apologize to m gal for d insults and the fights. Guess what she said, dat I must apologize to her family first, including the sister b4 she forgives me. Na there my head scatter! I told her to go burn and rot in hell!
Now, i have come to realize that, in their family, I know they were trained solely by deir mother, even though the father is still alive, dey don't respect men. Men are insignificant to dem. How can I marry from such a family?? After all dese curses and insults from members of the family? Y does she always refer to my success, especially my financial success in life whenever we fight? And many other sad stories.
I want to pull out, but I don't knw how.
I need advice pls.
Re: She Curses Alot by NevetsIbot(m): 2:30pm On Dec 15, 2016
how fast is a fomula 1 race car??

Run faster than that
Re: She Curses Alot by yomi007k(m): 2:33pm On Dec 15, 2016
embarassed


My brother forget that relationship like' Gba Gbe Oshi'
Re: She Curses Alot by Meekmind(m): 2:33pm On Dec 15, 2016
BRO my advice to you is to do the "NEEDFUL" why you still can...Don't enter "HELL" with your eyes wide open....RUN BRO RUN...Run for your life, career, future, destiny, dreams, goals, sake of your unborn children etc...#SAVEYOURFUTURETODAY#






















Hope she won't see this & curse me too? undecided lipsrsealed
Re: She Curses Alot by thebest1210(op): 2:39pm On Dec 15, 2016
NevetsIbot:
how fast is a fomula 1 race car??

Run faster than that
That's what I really want to do.
Wanted to go see her parents about a week or two ago, but, sometin came up, which made her postponed the visitation to early January, b4 this recent problem came up.
I was opportune to go for a short course in the US, came back with some little cash. Pimped my room to be like a normal guy's room. But she finds everything unappealing. Telling me how the small change I have is swelling my head (God knows I don't brag to her, unless, jokingly), how I am using d small properties I bought to do "iyanga" for her. Howhuh Imagine, telling me not to laugh for so long, dat I will fall again. Can one who loves her guy tell her such?
Just confused!
Re: She Curses Alot by Osgilliat(m): 2:40pm On Dec 15, 2016
Wetin you find go a broken home. It's not wise to marry from a broken home.. Especially for men.
Re: She Curses Alot by Everblazinggg(f): 2:41pm On Dec 15, 2016
One word:RUN
Re: She Curses Alot by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 2:43pm On Dec 15, 2016
Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Re: She Curses Alot by NevetsIbot(m): 2:47pm On Dec 15, 2016
thebest1210:
That's what I really want to do.
Wanted to go see her parents about a week or two ago, but, sometin came up, which made her postponed the visitation to early January, b4 this recent problem came up.
I was opportune to go for a short course in the US, came back with some little cash. Pimped my room to be like a normal guy's room. But she finds everything unappealing. Telling me how the small change I have is swelling my head (God knows I don't brag to her, unless, jokingly), how I am using d small properties I bought to do "iyanga" for her. Howhuh Imagine, telling me not to laugh for so long, dat I will fall again. Can one who loves her guy tell her such?
Just confused!
reminds me of Magaret.... She'd always tell me I'd see fire if she gets vexed just one week into the relationshiip.

Guess what I did.


I showed her peper and fire and.......ran faster than a mad bull from hell.....


Guy.. Ditch this girl. Unless, you like sadness
Re: She Curses Alot by thebest1210(op): 2:48pm On Dec 15, 2016
Osgilliat:
Wetin you find go a broken home. It's not wise to marry from a broken home.. Especially for men.
The parents are still together. It's just that the mum is one only one carrying most, if not all of the financial obligations of the family. Wondering wat d dad does huh
Re: She Curses Alot by ikp120(m):
This is crazy mehn.
Abeg just delete her number since you're not 30 yet, you can still get things running again with a better person.

I see some ladies and I ask myself who is that stupid guy dating this scum of the earth.
Bro I hope you're not the ...

I didn't say anything o. Lalasticlala abeg come fast fast because this guy wanna commit suicide grin grin grin

Re: She Curses Alot by marshalcarter: 2:57pm On Dec 15, 2016
why would you pay fees for her nii....nd ppl lyk you...Maybe ur younger would need money for sumtin but the otumokpo she used on you is still working.....nobody need to tell you wat to do ...not yet married nd its lyk dis...wat if you get married nkohuh??


naim be sey na hell in a cellcheesy
Re: She Curses Alot by mofeoluwadassah: 3:01pm On Dec 15, 2016
D bible says,flee 4rm every appearances of evil,i dont knw if u're a christian tho, bt dats wht d bible says,nd i tink u shld apply it nw b4 its too late o. lipsrsealed
Re: She Curses Alot by swagdopey: 3:20pm On Dec 15, 2016
Guy just run, had something similar I had to call it off.. Can't live with insults
Re: She Curses Alot by Hugo55(m): 3:21pm On Dec 15, 2016
NevetsIbot:
reminds me of Magaret.... She'd always tell me I'd see fire if she gets vexed just one week into the relationshiip.

Guess what I did.


I showed her peper and fire and.......ran faster than a mad bull from hell.....


Guy.. Ditch this girl. Unless, you like sadness
" Showed her peper and fire and... Ran faster than a mad bull from hell...
Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha.
That was really funny!

But wait a second! You said Magaret? Kai! Is it perculiar to ladies called Magaret? Reminds me of a lady called Magaret...I was seeing then. God! She can talk... She is always saying if she gets angry she will wound me, she would break things, that I won't like her. Bro, gradually I drawn from her. We are so far apart now.
Re: She Curses Alot by Nobody: 3:23pm On Dec 15, 2016
You don advise yourself nah grin.......so you wasted 7yrs just like that undecided.....your girlfriend is just immature,I won't tell you to dump her,just do what is necessary cool
Re: She Curses Alot by Ginaz(f): 3:33pm On Dec 15, 2016
thebest1210:
It's a very long story, but I will be as brief as possible and try to give the important points.
Again, pls, don't mind my typo errors.

We have been dating for 7yrs 5 months now. All dese while, we have been having serious fights and arguments. The relationship started right from our university days. Now, we have graduated and I now have my master degree. During this period, dere is no week, we don't quarrel, I've tot of pulling out a number of times, but we still got stuck to each other. Won't lie, I have promised, countless number of times dat I will marry her, yes! And I meant it. Just waiting to have a job first, not to even "blow" b4 I will do the "right" tin.
But in the past few months, d rship has degenerated badly, she insults me like boy, call names, I insult her too. And when it results to a fight, she begins her cursing spree. Telling m how I won't succeed in life, how I will die b4 I reach 30, how I will fail and tinz won't work out for me. To make matter worse, she reported me to her younger sister, who is very far below my age, and dis small gal insulted and cursed the hell out of me. Promised to deal with me. A gal I paid putme form for?? Didn't respond to the gal, cos, it will be childish of me to exchange talks with such a small girl. To make matter worse, wen I told m gal wat her sister said, she told m to my face dat I deserved it! Kai!!
After some days, I decided to apologize to m gal for d insults and the fights. Guess what she said, dat I must apologize to her family first, including the sister b4 she forgives me. Na there my head scatter! I told her to go burn and rot in hell!
Now, i have come to realize that, in their family, I know they were trained solely by deir mother, even though the father is still alive, dey don't respect men. Men are insignificant to dem. How can I marry from such a family?? After all dese curses and insults from members of the family? Y does she always refer to my success, especially my financial success in life whenever we fight? And many other sad stories.
I want to pull out, but I don't knw how.
I need advice pls.
Just pull out, what the goddamn shiit is wrong with you? You are seeing this, all this character of hers you're asking if you should stay? I don't believe it. huh

OK stay o, Mr 7 years relationship undecided, who years epp? Soon you will even wish you had wasted that years and jump inside lagoon than marrying her. Her family will show you pepper, she curses without feeling she's at wrong cos it's used to her, that's her family hot tea, to throw hurtful words at someone.

If you want to live, Mr man, run without picking ur shoes, that marriage is doomed. Words kills faster than bullet. Both of you will so insult each other in your marriage with no respect.

If u like, u can stay o. I can't forget love makes one look like a mumu. embarassed
Re: She Curses Alot by MadJay: 3:34pm On Dec 15, 2016
Niggga run for your life
This is a Life and Death matter

you stay you Die
you run you live

so do whatever you want
thebest1210:
It's a very long story, but I will be as brief as possible and try to give the important points.
Again, pls, don't mind my typo errors.

We have been dating for 7yrs 5 months now. All dese while, we have been having serious fights and arguments. The relationship started right from our university days. Now, we have graduated and I now have my master degree. During this period, dere is no week, we don't quarrel, I've tot of pulling out a number of times, but we still got stuck to each other. Won't lie, I have promised, countless number of times dat I will marry her, yes! And I meant it. Just waiting to have a job first, not to even "blow" b4 I will do the "right" tin.
But in the past few months, d rship has degenerated badly, she insults me like boy, call names, I insult her too. And when it results to a fight, she begins her cursing spree. Telling m how I won't succeed in life, how I will die b4 I reach 30, how I will fail and tinz won't work out for me. To make matter worse, she reported me to her younger sister, who is very far below my age, and dis small gal insulted and cursed the hell out of me. Promised to deal with me. A gal I paid putme form for?? Didn't respond to the gal, cos, it will be childish of me to exchange talks with such a small girl. To make matter worse, wen I told m gal wat her sister said, she told m to my face dat I deserved it! Kai!!
After some days, I decided to apologize to m gal for d insults and the fights. Guess what she said, dat I must apologize to her family first, including the sister b4 she forgives me. Na there my head scatter! I told her to go burn and rot in hell!
Now, i have come to realize that, in their family, I know they were trained solely by deir mother, even though the father is still alive, dey don't respect men. Men are insignificant to dem. How can I marry from such a family?? After all dese curses and insults from members of the family? Y does she always refer to my success, especially my financial success in life whenever we fight? And many other sad stories.
I want to pull out, but I don't knw how.
I need advice pls.
Re: She Curses Alot by MadJay: 3:40pm On Dec 15, 2016
Wifey material
sadsadsad
Ginaz:
Just pull out, what the goddamn shiit is wrong with you? You are seeing this, all this character of hers you're asking if you should stay? I don't believe it. huh

OK stay o, Mr 7 years relationship undecided, who years epp? Soon you will even wish you had wasted that years and jump inside lagoon than marrying her. Her family will show you pepper, she curses without feeling she's at wrong cos it's used to her, that's her family hot tea, to throw hurtful words at someone.

If you want to live, Mr man, run without picking ur shoes, that marriage is doomed. Words kills faster than bullet. Both of you will so insult each other in your marriage with no respect.

If u like, u can stay o. I can't forget love makes one look like a mumu. embarassed
Re: She Curses Alot by Ginaz(f): 3:41pm On Dec 15, 2016
MadJay:
Wifey material
sadsadsad
Husband material huh huh huh
Re: She Curses Alot by MadJay: 3:44pm On Dec 15, 2016
Maybe

Hello babes am Jay
Ginaz:
Husband material huh huh huh
Re: She Curses Alot by Splinz(m): 3:53pm On Dec 15, 2016
Op, you're in a hell hole of a relationship, the earlier you pull out now, the better for you.

With what you've said, trust me, you'd be doomed with that woman!
Re: She Curses Alot by schumastic(m): 4:01pm On Dec 15, 2016
OP I THOUGHT YOU SAID YOU BOTH ARE NO LONGER STUDENTS, CUS THE CHILDISH ATTITUDE IS STILL THERE.IS OBVIOUS YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT.
Re: She Curses Alot by princessayesha(f): 4:05pm On Dec 15, 2016
We've heard she curses a lot....what did u do to her before she cursed u? u must have cheated...or something worse. A woman showered with love and affection do not curse.
Re: She Curses Alot by schumastic(m): 4:08pm On Dec 15, 2016
thebest1210:
That's what I really want to do.
Wanted to go see her parents about a week or two ago, but, sometin came up, which made her postponed the visitation to early January, b4 this recent problem came up.
I was opportune to go for a short course in the US, came back with some little cash. Pimped my room to be like a normal guy's room. But she finds everything unappealing. Telling me how the small change I have is swelling my head (God knows I don't brag to her, unless, jokingly), how I am using d small properties I bought to do "iyanga" for her. Howhuh Imagine, telling me not to laugh for so long, dat I will fall again. Can one who loves her guy tell her such?
Just confused!
YOU ARE MORE GULLIBLE THAN MOST MMM PARTICIPANTS WITH THIS STATEMENT OF YOURS..LEAVE HER BEFORE SHE DESTROY YOU. YOUR LIFE YOUR HAPPINNESS
Re: She Curses Alot by schumastic(m): 4:09pm On Dec 15, 2016
princessayesha:
We've heard she curses a lot....what did u do to her before she cursed u? u must have cheated...or something worse. A woman showered with love and affection do not curse.
PRESIDENT, DEFENDERS OF THE WOMEN UNIVERSE.
Re: She Curses Alot by midehill(m): 4:17pm On Dec 15, 2016
bro dnt pick ha kal again...dnt visit ha again.. if she visit u...tell ha u r going out..at d end Mr break up...na d koko b dat
Re: She Curses Alot by thebest1210(op): 4:38pm On Dec 15, 2016
princessayesha:
We've heard she curses a lot....what did u do to her before she cursed u? u must have cheated...or something worse. A woman showered with love and affection do not curse.
I don't cheat on her. I agree, I did insult her too, even fought with her. But, never cursed her! I have also showered her with so much love. I v foolishly bot gifts for her wen I bot none for m mum. Won't deny d fact dat she was dere wen tinz were rough. dat had been her bragging right. Always telling how she was dere bla bla bla... . Never deceived her of using and dumping her foe anoda woman. Atyms, I do use her pic as my whatsapp dp to scare oda gals away (foolish tin to do), Taken her to m village and also wia m parent reside. D only tin i knw dat I v done wrong was insulting and fytin her. But, dat doesn't give her d ryt to curse my future. Pray for m downfall! Dats pure hatred!
Re: She Curses Alot by thebest1210(op): 5:28pm On Dec 15, 2016
midehill:
bro dnt pick ha kal again...dnt visit ha again.. if she visit u...tell ha u r going out..at d end Mr break up...na d koko b dat
Tanx
Re: She Curses Alot by bigcp(m):
no offence bro.....pls b honest. ..is there something wrong with u?...i don't think so...
wat de heck r u doing with her in d 1st plc ..a girl has zero respect 4 u n u r here reconsidering Wether 2 leave or stay...her family hate n despise men...na dat kind family u wan enter?
what kind of family is that...a broken home...nai u wan enter with ur eyes wide open...hv u ever bought half of the things u bought 4her...4 u ur mom?
it's obvious she's jealous of u...
n maybe she don wash something put 4 ur food...but if na ordinary hand she de use 4 u...my broda u need more dan a deliverance...

this kind girl no wnt ur progress oo at all. ..instead of her praying 4u she de curse u n praying 4 u to continue 2 de fall...tell me...is she using juju on u?...or u need a soldier 2 reset ur head with compound slap...?
she doesn't respect men...she'll never respect ur dad or ur frnds... omo d greatest mistake u go mk na 2 marry frm dat family...well it's ur life....choose ur path
Re: She Curses Alot by bigcp(m): 6:30pm On Dec 15, 2016
thebest1210:
That's what I really want to do.
Wanted to go see her parents about a week or two ago, but, sometin came up, which made her postponed the visitation to early January, b4 this recent problem came up.
I was opportune to go for a short course in the US, came back with some little cash. Pimped my room to be like a normal guy's room. But she finds everything unappealing. Telling me how the small change I have is swelling my head (God knows I don't brag to her, unless, jokingly), how I am using d small properties I bought to do "iyanga" for her. Howhuh Imagine, telling me not to laugh for so long, dat I will fall again. Can one who loves her guy tell her such?
Just confused!
i don't think u r confused. ..u r just in a deep messy sh!t..n d only remedy is 4 u 2 run as fast as possible...this kind lady fit poison u d day u go upset her...d day she'll think u r cheating on her...bro say bye bye 2 ur d!ck dat nyt...
n she'll be heartless in no times....a man that will end up with this kind of gurl won't last up to a year b4 dying of hrt attack...be wise...
Re: She Curses Alot by bigcp(m): 6:36pm On Dec 15, 2016
Ginaz:
Just pull out, what the goddamn shiit is wrong with you? You are seeing this, all this character of hers you're asking if you should stay? I don't believe it. huh

OK stay o, Mr 7 years relationship undecided, who years epp? Soon you will even wish you had wasted that years and jump inside lagoon than marrying her. Her family will show you pepper, she curses without feeling she's at wrong cos it's used to her, that's her family hot tea, to throw hurtful words at someone.

If you want to live, Mr man, run without picking ur shoes, that marriage is doomed. Words kills faster than bullet. Both of you will so insult each other in your marriage with no respect.

If u like, u can stay o. I can't forget love makes one look like a mumu. embarassed
lolz...@love makes some1 2 look like MUMU....
reallyhuh
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