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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by IYANGBALI: 7:26pm On Dec 15, 2016
op MMM is another causer of the problem
Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by freemile2ru: 7:26pm On Dec 15, 2016
Its not still adding, its not like the ladies are going to marry their age mates or something morova some men go ahead and marry from 3-4 wife's in Nigeria so that should cover up for the mortality rate. Please come up with another explanation so that I can debug it grin

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by Atoos(m): 7:28pm On Dec 15, 2016
In a developing country like Nigeria, it is kinda expected....imagine if the government forces men to have two or more wives.... cool

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by totosucker(m): 7:34pm On Dec 15, 2016
True talk. There is always a man for a woman. There are guys who desperately needs a woman and vice versa.
Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by bigcp(m): 7:35pm On Dec 15, 2016
yeah op u r right....and d rate at which men die these days eh...baffles me alot...n i think the ratio is 70:30...that's another reason there's more ladies in this world...some r in d prison...both d innocent n guilty ones... some lost their lives in the battle field (the cult-war n the actual war)...some in a tragic accidents...etc....n if it continues like thes in d next 5 to 7 years this country wld definitely be running out of men.. (potential husbands)...may God help us all

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by bigcp(m): 7:39pm On Dec 15, 2016
freemile2ru:
Its not still adding, its not like the ladies are going to marry their age mates or something morova some men go ahead and marry from 3-4 wife's in Nigeria so that should cover up for the mortality rate. Please come up with another explanation so that I can debug it grin

even if govt forces men 2 marry at least a man to 5 wives. ..believe me men won't still be enough 2 go round...

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by Maj196(m): 7:40pm On Dec 15, 2016
Most guys r running 4rm responsibilities, they dnt wanna b tied down etc

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by Nobody: 7:40pm On Dec 15, 2016
Pidgin2:
Actual birth ratio is 105males:100 females in Nigeria.
you are 100% correct... Even this month recent survey by WHO puts male to female ratio in Nigeria at 5:4
while we were meant to believe more females should be born than males in biology the reverse is the case in real life

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by babyfaceafrica: 7:44pm On Dec 15, 2016
Pidgin2:
Actual birth ratio is 105males:100 females in Nigeria.
actual mortality rates also is that men die earlier than women...so its kinda balanced...do not believe men are more than ladies

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by DaudaAbu(m): 7:46pm On Dec 15, 2016
Risky lifestyle, multiple partners which leads to terminal diseases.

Women tend to take care of themselves better esp if they are sick whereas men are more busy and wanna show macho-ism

The more men die, the more single older women we hav esp women of 40+

There are also the gay ones that is -2

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by SmartMugu: 7:49pm On Dec 15, 2016
A similar topic was a waec essay topic in the early 90s. Is this still a topic in 2016?
Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by freemile2ru: 7:55pm On Dec 15, 2016
bigcp:


even if govt forces men 2 marry at least a man to 5 wives. ..believe me men won't still be enough 2 go round...
why? So half of Nigerian men die b4 40? Nawa for u o

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by Nobody: 7:55pm On Dec 15, 2016
Single ladies are not more than single guys. I'm not limiting the scope to RCCG Congress.
1). The standard for eligibility and success is different.
1a).For you to be an eligible bachelor you must work hard, have a good paying job, accommodation and proven ability to provide for your family.
1b). For women; look good. If you don't have it, apply makeup. If you don't have the money, ask the men for it . Buy good clothes. You don't need all the accomplishments demanded of the men. God dey.
2). Unsuccessful men, by materialistic standard are anonymous; bus conductors, gardeners, security guards, etc. They don't get counted when census of single men are taken
3). Age. Men can afford to wait and add to the census of bachelors; even men in their forties. Women have shorter shelf life in the marriage wait room. Women in their 30s are ridiculed.
4). Women wait longer these days to pursue education, carrier, passion, etc.
5). Choice - women can now set standard for themselves about their choice for life partner. Such choice have raised the bar for male eligibility. Some women would rather not marry than marry and face the subservient life experienced by our mothers. Such women are counted among the number of single women.

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by Nobody: 7:57pm On Dec 15, 2016
I already did a research on this and I figured - Women have always out numbered the male population because of constant wars male engaged in since the dark ages through to both WW1 and WW11.

Since the last decade the male population has really increased since no too much wide spread of wars which requires the male folks engage in. But in the middle East, women are still more compared to Men because of the War on terrorism men in the Middle East engage in.

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by kherlly(m): 7:57pm On Dec 15, 2016
Olasco93:
Using Nigeria as a Case study, you will understand that our ladies are more "single" and More because of their SHAKARA and SELECTIVE nature. Who shakara and selective nature help...


Like i was eyeing a lady buh she dey form form me and luckily i chat wiv her friend she agree sharperly na so i drop that one wey dey form on top nothing. Im wiv her friend now.

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by freemile2ru: 7:59pm On Dec 15, 2016
The simple reason why many women are still single is simply becos so many men are single too and they don't care. Some of us are not even willing to settle down sef. Its not based on any probabilistic statistics that you are giving

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by drLammy(m): 8:01pm On Dec 15, 2016
beacon02:
Recently I've been hearing people complaining over the ratio of single ladies to single guys. Most arrived at the conclusion that it is because girls are given birth to more than the boys but I would like to disagree with such stance.
The last time I made research on male ratio female birth rate, I dscovered that boys are more birthed than girls. Only in a few countries like Norway will you see it the other way round. Even during the last annual convention of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, the number of the children birthed during the program was announced and it was 5:4 boys to girls respectively.

Now here is the statistic behind your illusion...

Given that 50 boys and 50 girls are birthed today. In the next 30 years, there is a high probability that the number of boys would have reduced to 35 or less while the number of girls to 43 or more.
The reason behind this is quite natural as men are more adventurous than women. That causes the rate of mortality to be high in men as they grow older.
Here are the factors that cause high rate of mortality among men:
...Nature of job... Jobs like factory work are dangerous in many ways and it has claimed the lives of many men at their youthful age. Also, transportation is another risky job. Men majorly are the drivers of vehicles and motorcycles.

...Thuggery and Cultism... Without much explanation, I believe you know the danger it has imposed on our society.

... Military... Eventhough women also do join millitary, you can hardly see them at the war front. Ethiopia was recently ravaged by war which caused a serious reduction in men's population. The government have to force the remaining few men to marry at least 2 wives.
Some other factors are also responsible.

Now, by the time they get to their late 20s, men would have reduced in population compared to women.
So I believe this article will be helpful for you when next you are thinking why women seems to be more than men.
Have a wonderful day.

i agree with you OP and at a particular point in time men are more affected with coronary heart diseases compared to women that also added to the decline in the numbers of male in the society..
Good write up nice observation OP

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by mikywonder(m): 8:02pm On Dec 15, 2016
Most of d guys dey inside prison. If u doubt go visit one

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by baba11(m): 8:02pm On Dec 15, 2016
I agree.
Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by wristbangle: 8:09pm On Dec 15, 2016
I agree with you OP.
Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by Chapecoense(m): 8:10pm On Dec 15, 2016
Utter shite...
We have more single men out there..

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by Nobody: 8:11pm On Dec 15, 2016
Olasco93:
Using Nigeria as a Case study, you will understand that our ladies are more "single" and More because of their SHAKARA and SELECTIVE nature. Who shakara and selective nature help...
If they don't show off you would say they're too cheap
Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by buffalowings: 8:11pm On Dec 15, 2016
EVILFOREST:

True.
APC ECONOMY is suitable for an example.
Most ladies get mouth watering JOBS ,than the guys, all because of customer service and bedmatics.

U hardly see any BANK that has few ladies.
Even MTN, ETISALAT, GLO employ more ladies than the guys.
Most marketing JOBS are done by ladies because they can serve dual or multiple purposes, like accompanying customers to HOTEL ROOMS.
Most AIRLINES employ ladies more for increase turnover of customers.
Above all , MOST LADIES lack respect and have decided to go head on with the MEN.
Like my Mum will always say " that as a lady, u have no business in a man's house if u are not ready to LISTEN to him, at least"
From my estimation, by 2020 ladies will have no choice than to start protesting openly....
It's no longer about HEIGHT, BEAUTY or PAGEANTRY (after all most are baby mamas), it's now about the MAN'S happiness, because happiness yields quality sperms.
That's why Men date beauty queens but end up with the ?ugly ones on Saturdays...

O boy this is a roller coaster

You OK?
Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by caesarsconcept(m): 8:14pm On Dec 15, 2016
seXytOhbAd:
Hmm, there are more single ladies than single men due to only one thing :

UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS.

You will see a woman earning 40k/mo expecting to date a guy who works or owns a biz earning at least 500k/mo, has a car, a nice house or flat, speaks in tongues, sings like iyanya, has pink lips like kiss Daniels , and Bleep$ like a porn star.

Repeat after me,

UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS

It's as simple as that ladies and gentlemen.
Now hit the like button
Sabi person u just nailed it

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by brightalo17: 8:14pm On Dec 15, 2016
Op is that a curse or does it pose any threat to the society What do we need to do ?
Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by HaneefahRN(f): 8:20pm On Dec 15, 2016
Who said single ladies are more? Women are just more pressured by the Society to get married earlier.

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by Olasco93: 8:22pm On Dec 15, 2016
asuustrike2009:

If they don't show off you would say they're too cheap
If you really wanna tell yourself the truth, you'll agree with me that Nigerian Girls Overdo it, in short, they overdo the Negative things and only under-do the positive, forgetting that attraction is Emotional, not Logical.

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by Nobody: 8:24pm On Dec 15, 2016
Olasco93:

If you really wanna tell yourself the truth, you'll agree with me that Nigerian Girls Overdo it, in short, they overdo the Negative things and only under-do the positive, forgetting that attraction is Emotional, not Logical.
Hahaaaaaaaaaa but it's true
Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by demolaxl(m): 8:24pm On Dec 15, 2016
Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by JERRY1925(m): 8:25pm On Dec 15, 2016
beacon02:
Recently I've been hearing people complaining over the ratio of single ladies to single guys. Most arrived at the conclusion that it is because girls are given birth to more than the boys but I would like to disagree with such stance.
The last time I made research on male ratio female birth rate, I dscovered that boys are more birthed than girls. Only in a few countries like Norway will you see it the other way round. Even during the last annual convention of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, the number of the children birthed during the program was announced and it was 5:4 boys to girls respectively.

Now here is the statistic behind your illusion...

Given that 50 boys and 50 girls are birthed today. In the next 30 years, there is a high probability that the number of boys would have reduced to 35 or less while the number of girls to 43 or more.
The reason behind this is quite natural as men are more adventurous than women. That causes the rate of mortality to be high in men as they grow older.
Here are the factors that cause high rate of mortality among men:
...Nature of job... Jobs like factory work are dangerous in many ways and it has claimed the lives of many men at their youthful age. Also, transportation is another risky job. Men majorly are the drivers of vehicles and motorcycles.

...Thuggery and Cultism... Without much explanation, I believe you know the danger it has imposed on our society.

... Military... Eventhough women also do join millitary, you can hardly see them at the war front. Ethiopia was recently ravaged by war which caused a serious reduction in men's population. The government have to force the remaining few men to marry at least 2 wives.
Some other factors are also responsible.

Now, by the time they get to their late 20s, men would have reduced in population compared to women.
So I believe this article will be helpful for you when next you are thinking why women seems to be more than men.
Have a wonderful day.


Another reason is the fact that girls develop fastest than boys... A man of 30 years prefer to date a girl or marry a girl of 20 to 25...leaving his female age mate behind... Same with a man of 35...men prefer marrying younger women.. Dis has made compition between the female fokes high.. While a guy of 20 to 25 are really not thinking about marriage..

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by fergieboy: 8:26pm On Dec 15, 2016
Na lie joor.. Men yakpa.. As In Men full everywhere ..

The only probs is that economy bad... The body is willing to get married but man pocket dry

So many guyz are hustling

The single rich bachelor who are ripe to get married turn to players .. They sample any available pussy in town

Its crazy man

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Re: Why Single Ladies Are More Than Single Guys by SmartyPants(m): 8:26pm On Dec 15, 2016
beacon02:
Recently I've been hearing people complaining over the ratio of single ladies to single guys. Most arrived at the conclusion that it is because girls are given birth to more than the boys but I would like to disagree with such stance.
The last time I made research on male ratio female birth rate, I dscovered that boys are more birthed than girls. Only in a few countries like Norway will you see it the other way round. Even during the last annual convention of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, the number of the children birthed during the program was announced and it was 5:4 boys to girls respectively.

Now here is the statistic behind your illusion...

Given that 50 boys and 50 girls are birthed today. In the next 30 years, there is a high probability that the number of boys would have reduced to 35 or less while the number of girls to 43 or more.
The reason behind this is quite natural as men are more adventurous than women. That causes the rate of mortality to be high in men as they grow older.
Here are the factors that cause high rate of mortality among men:
...Nature of job... Jobs like factory work are dangerous in many ways and it has claimed the lives of many men at their youthful age. Also, transportation is another risky job. Men majorly are the drivers of vehicles and motorcycles.

...Thuggery and Cultism... Without much explanation, I believe you know the danger it has imposed on our society.

... Military... Eventhough women also do join millitary, you can hardly see them at the war front. Ethiopia was recently ravaged by war which caused a serious reduction in men's population. The government have to force the remaining few men to marry at least 2 wives.
Some other factors are also responsible.

Now, by the time they get to their late 20s, men would have reduced in population compared to women.
So I believe this article will be helpful for you when next you are thinking why women seems to be more than men.
Have a wonderful day.

The conclusion of those who assert that there are more single girls than guys is that there are more girls than guys alive in the world today. This is the exact same conclusion you have presented here. So where is the ground breaking knowledge?


I thought you would present some insightful thoughts on why, ceteris paribus, there would be more single ladies than single guys but all you have done is answer the question of why there are more women than men in the world, which was never the problem statement.

I throw it to you that your whole set of assumptions is left without a foundation when you consider the fact that statistically, a much higher percentage of men are cheating on their partners. This means that the actual ratio of men to women in the dating pool may actually be something like 1:1.5. Thus the excess number of single women ought to be absorbed by the number of cheating men. So if there are more single women than men the simple explanation that men have a higher mortality rate than women does not provide insight.

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