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Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Nobody: 11:26pm On Dec 15, 2016
Here are few classic ways to know the truth behind his love. Read on…

Changes in behaviour: Does your guy show different types of mood and behaviour towards you? Then he might not be in love with you. Notice, if your man is changing his behaviour before and after meeting you, then, it is a clear sign that he is using you. A selfish man will butter you when he needs or else would consider you nothing!

Make ex jealous: Did he have a bad past relationship? If he has shared with you then try to see whether he talks about taking revenge with his ex and make her jealous. Getting cheated or betrayed hurts the ego of a man and revenge is the best option to feel light. If he is trying to take you at places where his ex can notice the two of you, then it can show that he is trying to use you.

Arm candy: A girl can clearly make out that her man is not interested in her if he tries to treat you as his arm candy. Just to show off to friends, many men date hot chicks. If your guy tries to come extremely close to you in public places or in front of his friends then it shows that he is not really in love with you but, just using you to get popularity. If your guy is not treating you the same way when you two are alone then it is clear that you are not his love. This is a sign to know the hidden intentions of a man.

Physical love: Love is more based on physical proximity than mental. In the beginning, physical love is more stronger in the lives of a couple. But, there are many men who control themselves till the right time comes. If your guy tries to get physically close to you (with or without your consent) then he is using you for wrong intentions. Test him. Avoid letting him come close to you for few days or weeks and see his response. You can judge accordingly.
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Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by ajokeade920: 11:55pm On Dec 15, 2016
hmmmm What do Men really want in a Woman sef? Having a woman as a wife does not even satisfy their selfish ego!
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Bonapart(m): 7:40am On Dec 16, 2016
Oga dss abi sss, you need a job






















You need it now!!!!!
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Nobody: 7:40am On Dec 16, 2016



With the fake appearance (heavy make up)

Fake hair (weave)

Fake nails

Fake height (high heels)

Fake everything

No girl deserves a good man and no girl should have an opinion/suggestions on men

And no girl should call a guy ugly because girls are the ugliest creature on earth
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by mccoy47(m): 7:41am On Dec 16, 2016
Land bought! angry
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Warhawk(m): 7:41am On Dec 16, 2016
You peopleshould stop posting this kind of Things nah
Now Nneka is asking me when i will meet her parents just cuz she read this Write-up
To my MMM brothers, welcome back, We ,at Bet9ja, really missed you guys!!
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Nobody: 7:41am On Dec 16, 2016
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Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by hardywaltz(m): 7:41am On Dec 16, 2016
Any how when u do women wahala
You show them to ur friends; wahala
You don't show them to ur friends; wahala
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by elobyobi: 7:41am On Dec 16, 2016
Interpretation:
1. So, if a guy doesn't feel happy, sad, moody, disappointed, angry, Hot, ecstatic, anxious, at various times he doesn't love you.
2. If he loves you so much that he flaunts you to his ex. If he thinks you're the one, and he just needs to get the pesky ex off his back, to try to convince her to move on and find love, as he has done, then he doesn't love you
3. If you so happen to be "hot" (whatever that means), and he takes you places, the same places he used to go to when he was single, He doesn't love you. If he weren't using u, he'd wrap u up like agidi and then lock you up in the house for his eyes only. (Why does that remind me of a certain religion?)
4. Of course love is not sex. He should keep visiting his exes and side chicks, whom he doesn't love, because he doesn't want to "use" you.
Did I miss anything?
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Airforce1(m): 7:42am On Dec 16, 2016
ajokeade920:
hmmmm What do Men really want in a Woman sef? Having a woman as a wife does not even satisfy their selfish ego!
Pele cheesy cheesy
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by alexohams2000(m): 7:42am On Dec 16, 2016
Following
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Divay22(f): 7:43am On Dec 16, 2016
So op what do we do now,to avoid all this? Good morning everybody grin grin grin.....
Hope you all have a nice day.
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by patchsk(f): 7:43am On Dec 16, 2016
Mba
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by martyns303(m): 7:43am On Dec 16, 2016
Reverse is the case for me right now....
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by niggi4life(m): 7:44am On Dec 16, 2016
Airforce1:
Pele cheesy cheesy
u never still die? angry
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Nobody: 7:44am On Dec 16, 2016
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Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by echelons(m): 7:44am On Dec 16, 2016
And you'll show genuine commitment, love and care to her, she'll think you're sugar coating it.

To all the guys who still truly show genuine love...Cheers
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by strangest(m): 7:44am On Dec 16, 2016
Is your woman using you?





She always call for money?
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Adesiji77: 7:44am On Dec 16, 2016
cheesy grin
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by yorex2011: 7:44am On Dec 16, 2016
Is this all? Its way more complex that this
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by ajokeade920: 7:45am On Dec 16, 2016
Airforce1:
Pele cheesy cheesy
pele for yourself cheesy
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Airforce1(m): 7:45am On Dec 16, 2016
niggi4life:
u never still die?
I dey wait for your papa
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by wunmi590(m): 7:45am On Dec 16, 2016
For this early morning nah him, mod push this kin thread? Oga ooo tongue
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Beehshorp(m): 7:45am On Dec 16, 2016
ajokeade920:
hmmmm What do Men really want in a Woman sef? Having a woman as a wife does not even satisfy their selfish ego!
What do women want in men self? Having all their cash and wealth doesn't satisfy their greedy ego!!
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Martinola(m): 7:45am On Dec 16, 2016
Following
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by martineverest(m): 7:45am On Dec 16, 2016
lemme answer on their behalf:as far as maga dey pay and pepper dey rest ,NO!
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Nobody: 7:45am On Dec 16, 2016
You so right.
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Mcowubaba: 7:46am On Dec 16, 2016
niggi4life:
u never still die? angry
grin grin grin grin grin grin angry angry grin

Most Nairalanders will be judged separately... On the Judgement day
grin grin
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by M17CXi: 7:46am On Dec 16, 2016
Crap!!!
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Iamvictor(m): 7:46am On Dec 16, 2016
are you using your man?
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Martinola(m): 7:46am On Dec 16, 2016
hardywaltz:
Any how when u do women wahala You show them to ur friends; wahala You don't show them to ur friends; wahala
broz...women mata taya me
Re: Is Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In) by Gkemz: 7:47am On Dec 16, 2016
hmmm... So its not good to be proud of ur bae, Do you expect a guy to treat his babe like a stranger in the public just because of his past relationship. This is jus the writer's opinion not generally accepted opinion. Maybe Op should explain elaborately what he meant by getting used.
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