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Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Nobody: 7:56am On Dec 16, 2016
An American woman named Deborah Hendrickson has accused her Nigerian husband, Inyang Obaten Ettah, aka Tony Ettah of scamming and dumping her after using her to get a Green card.

According to Deborah Hendrickson, she filed (online) a fraud case immediately against Tony after he admitted using her and told her she caused it. That he absconded because she kept telling him she senses he was using her and her words 'caused' it to happen.

Deborah is now threatening to report Tony to Donald Trump so she'll get justice. Read her story below:

I don't know where to start . . . I guess I'll start with meeting Inyang Obaten Ettah, AKA Tony Ettah back in June 2010, we met through a friend of mine named, Charles. I've
been visiting Nigeria since 2008, had an NGO there (Open Arms International) that never really got started, I know lots of people in Nigeria, Rich & Poor. I thought I was savvy when it came to the Romance Scammers, the 419ers, but, I was not prepared for how Inyang Obaten Ettah PLAYED ME, yes, I did inquire about Inyang via Charles, Charles vouched for Inyang's authenticity (so HE THOUGHT) because Charles knew Inyang for 10 years (at that time - June 2010), there is where it began.

As Inyang and I began conversing, we discussed the difference in Age and the fact that I could not have any children, Inyang response was "it doesn't matter because God said you are my Wife and I had made up in my mind that however God sent my wife, that is how I would ACCEPT her." He shared with me how many women in his church (Faith Tabernacle AKA Winners, David Oyedepo is Pastor) cannot have children, and some are even older than their husbands, but, they still married and are still married today (was referring up to that moment he made that statement). He even shared how his Auntie is in the exact situation (no Child(ren), yet she and her husband are STILL TOGETHER (at that time August 2010).

Time went on, Inyang then asked that I come to Nigeria to visit him, by that time he had CONVINCED me that he was AUTHENTIC and SINCERE - HE WASN'T.

Anyway, I visited Inyang December 2010 (6 months after officially meeting). I was in Nigeria for 21 days, the entire time Inyang was the Perfect Host, he took me everywhere, introduced me to EVERYONE, family, friends, enemies, church associates, he even took me to church at Winners' Chapel, Canaan Land, Ota Nigeria; Inyang was so active at Winners, he volunteered as Security (Bus & Church), he pretty much, so I THOUGHT lived in church, always talking about God (to me), he told me how he attended Pre-Marital classes at Winners because he wanted to Prepare to be an EXCELLENT HUSBAND to ME, he had me FOOLED, he was the World's Greatest Pretender.

While in Nigeria Inyang proposed to me (December 21, 2010) during my Launch Party of Royal Entertainment Nigeria, I accepted his Proposal because I was convinced he was AUTHENTIC! He did not perform in the typical way that of a Romance Scammer or Yahoo Boi, as stated, he introduced me to EVERYONE, took me EVERYWHERE, etc. After the proposal, eight months later I returned to Nigeria and we were married 8 months later (August 12, 2011). What I thought that was going to be a Marriage, turned out to be MARRIAGE FRAUD!

I submitted Inyang's Immigration paperwork to USCIS December 12, 2011, the first process was was Approved May 2012, his Interview in Lagos was October 30, 2012 and his Visa was issued, the entire process from submission to Approval was 10 months, Inyang even used that quick process to say "the Lord Caused it to happen because it is HIS WILL because I'm his Wife." LIAR!
Inyang arrived in the U.S. November 21, 2012 and that's when HE CHANGED - IMMEDIATELY! He was no longer the loving speaking, affectionate man I visited December 2012, his excuse was "he's in a new place, give him time to adjust." In the meanwhile I did my part as his wife. I later learned that Inyang never attended school in Nigeria when I took him to our local college (Danville Community College) to enroll, I was upset because Inyang TOLD ME he was college educated (in Nigeria), Education means a lot to me and I only aligned myself with college educated men, so, he could not enroll. he was advised to enroll in the Adult Education program, which he did, but was unable to do the work so he stopped attending.

He applied for a job at a Company name EBI in Danville, VA (June 6, 2013) and was terminated (July 4, 2013) due to violation of company code by using profane language and misconduct, thereafter Inyang obtained a job at Ebay through Adecco a Temporary Employment Agency, he didn't keep that job and was released approximately 4 weeks later (those dates elude me). Thereafter Inyang could not find employment in Danville, VA, it was a strain on the marriage.
By April 2014 a friend of mine, Amos Ajo conference with Inyang and I to discuss Inyang moving to Atlanta, Georgia to work for him, the plan was for Inyang to move, get established, and I to follow no less than 6 months later - that NEVER HAPPENED! Inyang officially moved to Atlanta April 14, 2014, and Mr. Ajo did as promised, gave Inyang a job, Inyang and I talked everyday, he visited me periodically in Danville, VA; when I visited Inyang in Atlanta, he was always too busy to be with me, always said "he was working," causing my trip to be wasted. As time went on I noticed I was not hearing from Inyang, his excuse was always "he's working," yet he NEVER SENT ANY MONEY TO ME FOR the HOUSEHOLD in Danville, his excuse was "he had to pay for expenses where he was staying," Mr. Ajo arranged temporary lodging for Inyang at 3502 Adkins Road, Atlanta, GA 30331 where he shared space with Mr. Gabriel Owolabi, a friend of Mr. Ajo.

I didn't notice until AFTERWARDS that Inyang played Me, what I mean by that is, from April 14, 2014 to July 2014 I barely heard from Inyang. By August 2014 he began calling regularly, his excuse was, he got a new Job working at a company named United Distributors Inc., 5500 United Dr. SE, Smyrna, GA 30082, 678.305.2000 and was flexible and could now talk when at work. By September 2014 Inyang did a surprise visited, I realized AFTERWARD that it was because the I-751-Petition to Remove Conditions on Residence Arrived, Inyang gathered all documents, and the form was Signed by me. I remained consumed with the preparation of opening my Christian Venue, Debs Gospel Cafe in Danville, VA, which opened November 2014. Inyang did another surprised visit for Thanksgiving 2014.
Thereafter it went back to him not calling. I visited Inyang in Atlanta, GA March 14, 2015 after the last seeing him since November 2014, that visit did not turn out to be good, Inyang complained that I could not stay with him at 3502 Adkins Road, Atlanta, GA 30331 because there "was no place for me to sleep," so, I rented a Motel at the Super 8 in Stockbridge, GA, Inyang spent 1 night with me then left me at the hotel, not hearing from him again, he said he had to "go home to wash clothes." I left Georgia devastated!



My daughter married March 24, 2015, to appease me from his doing me wrong a week later he attended her wedding, he was very cold, everyone around noticed his negative attitude towards me and quickly voices their opinion. March 26, 2015 was the LAST TIME I SAW INYANG. Inyang kept in touch, each time asking me "did his Permanent Green Card arrive," he said he needed it because his job was in jeapordy and now that his finances was getting better better, he needed to keep his job at United Distributors, Inc. so he can begin sending me money - EVENTUALLY, HE NEVER SENT A DIME! Finally, May 1, 2015 his Permanent Resident Card arrived, I mailed it to him because he expressed the urgency of it to show his Employer.

Once Inyang received his Permanent Resident card, he BLOCKED ME from ALL Social Network, MOVED to 1121 Ridgebrook Trail, Duluth, GA 30096, and changed his Job (unknown to me now). Because Inyang refused to give me the necessary job information (while at United Distributors, Inc.) I was unable to apply and received Healthcare, Inyang filed his 2014 Income Tax but I have no clue under what Status, he did tell me that he filed SINGLE for 2015, and we were still married. Inyang changed his Driver's License from Virgina #T60274200 to Georgia Driver's License 059553398, he then moved his phone 434.203.5226 from my AT&T Family Plan to his own.
Inyang has severed ALL TIES WITH ME, as soon as he RECEIVED HIS PERMANENT RESIDENT CARD, to me, showing MARRIAGE FRAUD, IF he was serious about our Marriage, we would still be together.

Inyang has told many lies on me, saying, I threw water in his face, hit him, etc., I KNOW his Nigerian friends put him up to saying that, because IF I'd done those things, that's considered ABUSE and he could have called Danville Local Police and file charges against me, but, IT NEVER HAPPENED. He must make me look like the bad guy when all I ever did was love him.
His plan was for us to REMAIN married so he can file for Citizenship in 5 years, because by now I figured out he USED ME for MARRIAGE FRAUD, he knew I would not submit the necessary paperwork for citizenship, he told me he could still do it in 5 years and that I could not STOP HIM FROM BECOMING A CITIZEN. Though it's MY WORD AGAINST HIS, all I have is HIS ACTIONS, He ADMITTED TO ME THAT he USED ME, and that I CAUSED IT BECAUSE I KEPT TELLING HIM THAT I SENSE HE WAS USING ME AND MY "WORDS" CAUSED IT TO HAPPEN (Him using me). When Inyang made that statement I immediately filed (online) a Fraud Case.





I divorced Inyang August 2016, he gladly signed the Papers because he has a Fiancee, who he's probably married to by now, offering him the opportunity to now file for citizenship.
I have been told that USCIS WILL DO NOTHING, because Inyang has not committed a Crime, YES HE HAS, He COMMITTED MARRIAGE FRAUD! That's a Federal Crime. I've since learned (by people who know him) that he has a Shipping Company, he ships cars to Nigeria, and he has a Clothing Line Winners Clothes, he makes his money and sends it back to Nigeria, Inyang once told me that America is the Land of Opportunity and how he WILL RAPE this Country of their dollars and take advantage of All Opportunities, and he's doing it.


I am a FIGHTER, I know of 15 Women who has Married Nigerian men and the men used them for Green Card Purposes and they "think" nothing can be done, I want to show them that, YES, SOMETHING CAN BE DONE! YES! they can be DEPORTED for Immigration Marriage Fraud.
I will sound the Alarm, Once Trump is in Office I will contact him and tell him my Story, I'm almost sure I will get RESULTS! Inyang should not have played with my life, I am a Good, Christian Woman Who Believes in Doing Right - all The Time. I trust that the Lord WILL GIVE ME JUSTICE by the Fraud Division recognizing that Inyang Obaten Ettah MARRIED ME FOR IMMIGRATION MARRIAGE FRAUD.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/12/nigerian-man-tony-inyang-ettah-scams-dumps-american-wife-deborah-hendrickson-photos.html

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Nobody: 7:57am On Dec 16, 2016
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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by INTROVERT(f): 7:57am On Dec 16, 2016
What a story.... grin grin






If I were her I would just let it slide and not be a "fighter" unless she can fight for God, karma has a way of paying people back and maybe what happened to her is karma for what she might have done when she was younger. I don't know and who am I to judge grin grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by naijaboiy: 7:58am On Dec 16, 2016
This inyang shoes tho! gringringrin

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Lillpo(m): 7:59am On Dec 16, 2016
Isorite
Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Warhawk(m): 8:00am On Dec 16, 2016
Maga don pay
Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Mrbigman2: 8:02am On Dec 16, 2016
The woman look herself finish think say na she fine pass.

Oga iyang, bring one fo me jare, someone needs to get it green over here.

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by RagnarBankz(m): 8:08am On Dec 16, 2016
Report to Donald Trump? grin grin


she not even a white woman sef,Trump will even chase her and the man out of USA grin grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Nobody: 8:09am On Dec 16, 2016
Na wa.
Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by klassykute(m): 8:20am On Dec 16, 2016
any american woman wants to get married to me?

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by BlackDBagba: 8:23am On Dec 16, 2016
Who else thought the lady in question was of the Caucasian race aka white? Trump will deport you too! angry

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Heltinking(m): 8:28am On Dec 16, 2016
Bad guy grin

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by durentsneh(m): 8:29am On Dec 16, 2016
Sharp guy

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Haniel18: 8:31am On Dec 16, 2016
My guy.one bottle of cold origin to u bro

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by psucc(m): 8:36am On Dec 16, 2016
When mugu fall guy man wack am.

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Smellymouth: 8:40am On Dec 16, 2016
He is the real MVP..

Tuale bruh..

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Remilekun101: 8:45am On Dec 16, 2016
Betrayal of Trust

But why is she trying to spoil Nigeria men's image

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by ikp120(m): 8:58am On Dec 16, 2016
That he dumped you doesn't make him a scammer. I think some of these Americans think they know something, even though they can't even differentiate between fake and original.

Gerrawt mehn tongue tongue

You need to suck a working brain from an erect dick ASAP mehn grin grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Nobody: 9:15am On Dec 16, 2016
ikp120:
That he dumped you doesn't make him a scammer. I think some of these white people think they know something, even though they can't even differentiate between fake and original.

Gerrawt mehn tongue tongue

You need to suck a working brain from an erect dick ASAP mehn grin grin grin

She looks white to you?

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by ikp120(m): 9:23am On Dec 16, 2016
AngelSweetLips:


She looks white to you?

Sorry for that my angel... I didn't even bother to look at the pic. I just saw American and I began to shell the shiit mehn.

So what's up? How was your night?

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Nobody: 9:29am On Dec 16, 2016
ikp120:


Sorry for that my angel... I didn't even bother to look at the pic. I just saw American and I began to shell the shiit mehn.

So what's up? How was your night?


So did I until I saw her picture grin
Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Nobody: 9:38am On Dec 16, 2016
What was she thinking before? Imagine her CWO hand and she expected that bobo to remain married to her as if she would advise her kid to do same.

But on the other hand, the guy should have gone for strictly business type deal like other migrants to avoid drama like this.

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by onatisi(m): 9:44am On Dec 16, 2016
He changed towards her,he stopped regular visits,but yet she mailed him his green card which she knew it was what he was after. Why didn't she ask her friends for advice before sending him the green card?
Let her keep talking and fighting,while inyang keeps on living good

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by ikp120(m): 9:44am On Dec 16, 2016
AngelSweetLips:


So did I until I saw her picture grin
Lolzzz grin grin
I'm gonna call the police because she just played us mehn angry
So how are things over there?

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by devilmaycry: 9:50am On Dec 16, 2016
mchewww

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 16, 2016
Jesus christ of malaysia.....choi.......Nigerians and fraud... embarassed
Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Nobody: 11:01am On Dec 16, 2016
grin
Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Nobody: 11:02am On Dec 16, 2016
AyĆ³! nah we oh!
Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by tinny898(m): 11:02am On Dec 16, 2016
Nigeria wil always b Nigeria baddest country ever liveth

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Remilekun101: 11:02am On Dec 16, 2016
This guy wan just spoil business for person. angry

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Tjohnnay: 11:02am On Dec 16, 2016
Oboi grin







Nigerians and green card paro

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Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Category1: 11:03am On Dec 16, 2016
if u look at that man's smile, u will see that its so fake. grin

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