FortuneTeller:
The replies in this thread are examples for why countries don't want Nigerians. No one has condemned the man for fraud. No wonder there is so much suffering for evil Naija.

The response on this thread breaks one's heart. This country and its citizens needs total re-orientation!

Sharp guy he get sense die

FortuneTeller:
The replies in this thread are examples for why countries don't want Nigerians. No one has condemned the man for fraud. No wonder there is so much suffering for evil Naija.

Yes exactly that's the reason why a lot of Nigerians in diaspora avoid helping Nigerians cos you may bring into your life somebody that will mess up your life

Shey na the same green card wey Wole Shoyinka don tear?

the guy looks like jonathan tho

BlackDBagba:
Who else thought the lady in question was of the Caucasian race aka white? Trump will deport you too!

Trump will deport her to where?

I don't see any thing "sharp" about the guy and his act of treachery - supposing that the story as told is the absolute truth. For all I care and believe, deceit isn't same thing as ingenuity, so also conceitedness isn't same thing as smartness and self-confidence. The funny thing is that when a reciprocation of his action is served to him (if he remain alive then to tell his story), you'll see him and his relations crying victims.

At any worst case scenario, bending a rule is always better than breaking it. Only petty people sees nothing wrong in one living life on expediency over principle.

Onlymewakacum:


The worst thing is that this bad ones go out of the country and give a denting image to all Nigerians making our country look bad in the eyes of the world.

People at home wonder why we say we are Africans instead of Nigerian when we enter west. We don't want the brand of 419. My husband always defers to African unless someone wants details.

Chai Nigerians eeehhh! there is God ooo

aariwa:
Yes exactly that's the reason why a lot of Nigerians in diaspora avoid helping Nigerians cos you may bring into your life somebody that will mess up your life

My husband has helped his family many times but he refuses to do business with former colleagues. The risk is too great to damage the life we have built.

What do you mean Nigerian and fraud? Don't you check name? Please, be specific. No generalization.

deeMarc:
Jesus christ of malaysia.....choi.......Nigerians and fraud...

cimek:
Until We Hear His Own Side Of The Story.
I've Heard Many Stories Like This From American Women, Sometime Is True, Other Times They Are The Cause.
Some Of Them That Married Nigerian Men, Married Them As So They Can Sit At Home All Day While The Man Go Out And Work And Bring The Money Home To Them And Control Them Like They Would Never Control A Fellow Citizen.
Some Of Our Men Too Are Very Wicked And Will Accept To Marry Any Woman Just To Get A Green Card And Leave The Woman Afterward Without Any Reason.
We Don't Know The Man's Story Yet In This Case.

What story does he have to tell? Except fabricated one, of course.

Nigerian men always think they are smart without knowing the drawbacks of their actions. Technically speaking, his Residence Card could be cancelled and he gets deported.

The young man is not smart enough because if he actually is. He could have waited for his passport before acting bizarre.

The drama is not over yet for him.

Travel overseas, find your mate. Toast and marry. If she does not agree, come back. Stop all this international prearraged, long distance toasting in advance of marriage. Live in thesame location and neighbourhood as the person you want to marry for many years before committing.

Hmmm Nigerians, see how we kept tarnish our image before the world, some will use religion without shame to defraud others for earthly gains.

Seriouly

Some Nigerians can be so disgusting. We truly deserve anything that we experience as a people of this country. When I comduct business across the pond it is so, so tough. The security they build around themselves and their businesses is becoming unbearable then you hear the currency of trust of us Nigerians wasted yet again. How many sorry, sordid stories will my clients tell me about Nigerians before moving their deals forward. How many insults will I be subjected to because of people like these. It will take another dozen successful deals, positive stories to erode the damage one bad egg has caused. And we badly need foreign partnerships.

INTROVERT:
What a story....






If I were her I would just let it slide and not be a "fighter" unless she can fight for God, karma has a way of paying people back and maybe what happened to her is karma for what she might have done when she was younger. I don't know and who am I to judge

This is the first time you're making a very long sentence.

He is a conman. At least, she did not have any children for him.

Wish her the best!

Most of them get there and still mess up their lives. I wonder when these peeps will learn to discern when it comes to Nigerian men and marriage.

Is it that there are no men in their own country willing for a dalliance with them? If so why do you think the Nigerian man is different and doesn't see what the other men see that makes them run from you?

That guy is an e-diot

fu*ing prick, what an ungrateful basta*d, it will never be well with you. God will surely judge you for using women & dumping them.

DeeTus:
What story does he have to tell? Except fabricated one, of course.

Nigerian men always think they are smart without knowing the drawbacks of their actions. Technically speaking, his Residence Card could be cancelled and he gets deported.

The young man is not smart enough because if he actually is. He could have waited for his passport before acting bizarre.

The drama is not over yet for him.

Since when is it ok to hear one side of a story and conclude? The average American marriage ends in divorce so why expect a different outcome in this case? The woman is portraying herself as holy but we all know African American women can frustrate a guys life. Her statement about him not sending money tells me all i need to know. Do you know how many of these women treat their Nigerian husbands like slaves because they think they are doing them a favour?

She should marry an "elegbon" and ask him to be sending money na weda dat one no go use ps4 pad break her head.

What part if the story was about beauty?

Mrbigman2:
The woman look herself finish think say na she fine pass.

Oga iyang, bring one fo me jare, someone needs to get it green over here.

mengho:
fu*ing prick, what an ungrateful basta*d, it will never be well with you. God will surely judge you for using women & dumping them.

And the most painful part is, the lady is really beautiful

So when an American does the same, which by the way happens a lot, it is not fraud but because it is a Nigerian, it is fraud? American Marriages suffer. PERIOD. This is no exception

I know dis guy e is one of mi men in festac if w did dat truly e bleeped up

I had my pity for the woman until she mentioned the part where the man complained that she kept saying that he is using her, and I felt for the man.


Women have a way of making you feel guilty of things you might not have thought of yet.

EbolaParasite:


Since when is it ok to hear one side of a story and conclude? The average American marriage ends in divorce so why expect a different outcome in this case? The woman is portraying herself as holy but we all know African American women can frustrate a guys life. Her statement about him not sending money tells me all i need to know. Do you know how many of these women treat their Nigerian husbands like slaves because they think they are doing them a favour?

She should marry an "elegbon" and ask him to be sending money na weda dat one no go use ps4 pad break her head.

Get your facts right before telling lies.

Just take a look at the man's face from the oneset, you will clearly see he's not committed to the marriage. Not everyone is like that.

What the man is interested in, is only the Green Card, other things is secondary.

Na today?

INYANG , THE JIGOLO FROM CALABAR.


THO, cant judge. Maybe law of karma has come upon both. Heart of man with selfish pretence intentions.

FlirtyKaren:
An American woman named Deborah Hendrickson has accused her Nigerian husband, Inyang Obaten Ettah, aka Tony Ettah of scamming and dumping her after using her to get a Green card.

According to Deborah Hendrickson, she filed (online) a fraud case immediately against Tony after he admitted using her and told her she caused it. That he absconded because she kept telling him she senses he was using her and her words 'caused' it to happen.

Deborah is now threatening to report Tony to Donald Trump so she'll get justice. Read her story below:

I don't know where to start . . . I guess I'll start with meeting Inyang Obaten Ettah, AKA Tony Ettah back in June 2010, we met through a friend of mine named, Charles. I've
been visiting Nigeria since 2008, had an NGO there (Open Arms International) that never really got started, I know lots of people in Nigeria, Rich & Poor. I thought I was savvy when it came to the Romance Scammers, the 419ers, but, I was not prepared for how Inyang Obaten Ettah PLAYED ME, yes, I did inquire about Inyang via Charles, Charles vouched for Inyang's authenticity (so HE THOUGHT) because Charles knew Inyang for 10 years (at that time - June 2010), there is where it began.

As Inyang and I began conversing, we discussed the difference in Age and the fact that I could not have any children, Inyang response was "it doesn't matter because God said you are my Wife and I had made up in my mind that however God sent my wife, that is how I would ACCEPT her." He shared with me how many women in his church (Faith Tabernacle AKA Winners, David Oyedepo is Pastor) cannot have children, and some are even older than their husbands, but, they still married and are still married today (was referring up to that moment he made that statement). He even shared how his Auntie is in the exact situation (no Child(ren), yet she and her husband are STILL TOGETHER (at that time August 2010).

Time went on, Inyang then asked that I come to Nigeria to visit him, by that time he had CONVINCED me that he was AUTHENTIC and SINCERE - HE WASN'T.

Anyway, I visited Inyang December 2010 (6 months after officially meeting). I was in Nigeria for 21 days, the entire time Inyang was the Perfect Host, he took me everywhere, introduced me to EVERYONE, family, friends, enemies, church associates, he even took me to church at Winners' Chapel, Canaan Land, Ota Nigeria; Inyang was so active at Winners, he volunteered as Security (Bus & Church), he pretty much, so I THOUGHT lived in church, always talking about God (to me), he told me how he attended Pre-Marital classes at Winners because he wanted to Prepare to be an EXCELLENT HUSBAND to ME, he had me FOOLED, he was the World's Greatest Pretender.

While in Nigeria Inyang proposed to me (December 21, 2010) during my Launch Party of Royal Entertainment Nigeria, I accepted his Proposal because I was convinced he was AUTHENTIC! He did not perform in the typical way that of a Romance Scammer or Yahoo Boi, as stated, he introduced me to EVERYONE, took me EVERYWHERE, etc. After the proposal, eight months later I returned to Nigeria and we were married 8 months later (August 12, 2011). What I thought that was going to be a Marriage, turned out to be MARRIAGE FRAUD!

I submitted Inyang's Immigration paperwork to USCIS December 12, 2011, the first process was was Approved May 2012, his Interview in Lagos was October 30, 2012 and his Visa was issued, the entire process from submission to Approval was 10 months, Inyang even used that quick process to say "the Lord Caused it to happen because it is HIS WILL because I'm his Wife." LIAR!
Inyang arrived in the U.S. November 21, 2012 and that's when HE CHANGED - IMMEDIATELY! He was no longer the loving speaking, affectionate man I visited December 2012, his excuse was "he's in a new place, give him time to adjust." In the meanwhile I did my part as his wife. I later learned that Inyang never attended school in Nigeria when I took him to our local college (Danville Community College) to enroll, I was upset because Inyang TOLD ME he was college educated (in Nigeria), Education means a lot to me and I only aligned myself with college educated men, so, he could not enroll. he was advised to enroll in the Adult Education program, which he did, but was unable to do the work so he stopped attending.

He applied for a job at a Company name EBI in Danville, VA (June 6, 2013) and was terminated (July 4, 2013) due to violation of company code by using profane language and misconduct, thereafter Inyang obtained a job at Ebay through Adecco a Temporary Employment Agency, he didn't keep that job and was released approximately 4 weeks later (those dates elude me). Thereafter Inyang could not find employment in Danville, VA, it was a strain on the marriage.
By April 2014 a friend of mine, Amos Ajo conference with Inyang and I to discuss Inyang moving to Atlanta, Georgia to work for him, the plan was for Inyang to move, get established, and I to follow no less than 6 months later - that NEVER HAPPENED! Inyang officially moved to Atlanta April 14, 2014, and Mr. Ajo did as promised, gave Inyang a job, Inyang and I talked everyday, he visited me periodically in Danville, VA; when I visited Inyang in Atlanta, he was always too busy to be with me, always said "he was working," causing my trip to be wasted. As time went on I noticed I was not hearing from Inyang, his excuse was always "he's working," yet he NEVER SENT ANY MONEY TO ME FOR the HOUSEHOLD in Danville, his excuse was "he had to pay for expenses where he was staying," Mr. Ajo arranged temporary lodging for Inyang at 3502 Adkins Road, Atlanta, GA 30331 where he shared space with Mr. Gabriel Owolabi, a friend of Mr. Ajo.

I didn't notice until AFTERWARDS that Inyang played Me, what I mean by that is, from April 14, 2014 to July 2014 I barely heard from Inyang. By August 2014 he began calling regularly, his excuse was, he got a new Job working at a company named United Distributors Inc., 5500 United Dr. SE, Smyrna, GA 30082, 678.305.2000 and was flexible and could now talk when at work. By September 2014 Inyang did a surprise visited, I realized AFTERWARD that it was because the I-751-Petition to Remove Conditions on Residence Arrived, Inyang gathered all documents, and the form was Signed by me. I remained consumed with the preparation of opening my Christian Venue, Debs Gospel Cafe in Danville, VA, which opened November 2014. Inyang did another surprised visit for Thanksgiving 2014.
Thereafter it went back to him not calling. I visited Inyang in Atlanta, GA March 14, 2015 after the last seeing him since November 2014, that visit did not turn out to be good, Inyang complained that I could not stay with him at 3502 Adkins Road, Atlanta, GA 30331 because there "was no place for me to sleep," so, I rented a Motel at the Super 8 in Stockbridge, GA, Inyang spent 1 night with me then left me at the hotel, not hearing from him again, he said he had to "go home to wash clothes." I left Georgia devastated!



My daughter married March 24, 2015, to appease me from his doing me wrong a week later he attended her wedding, he was very cold, everyone around noticed his negative attitude towards me and quickly voices their opinion. March 26, 2015 was the LAST TIME I SAW INYANG. Inyang kept in touch, each time asking me "did his Permanent Green Card arrive," he said he needed it because his job was in jeapordy and now that his finances was getting better better, he needed to keep his job at United Distributors, Inc. so he can begin sending me money - EVENTUALLY, HE NEVER SENT A DIME! Finally, May 1, 2015 his Permanent Resident Card arrived, I mailed it to him because he expressed the urgency of it to show his Employer.

Once Inyang received his Permanent Resident card, he BLOCKED ME from ALL Social Network, MOVED to 1121 Ridgebrook Trail, Duluth, GA 30096, and changed his Job (unknown to me now). Because Inyang refused to give me the necessary job information (while at United Distributors, Inc.) I was unable to apply and received Healthcare, Inyang filed his 2014 Income Tax but I have no clue under what Status, he did tell me that he filed SINGLE for 2015, and we were still married. Inyang changed his Driver's License from Virgina #T60274200 to Georgia Driver's License 059553398, he then moved his phone 434.203.5226 from my AT&T Family Plan to his own.
Inyang has severed ALL TIES WITH ME, as soon as he RECEIVED HIS PERMANENT RESIDENT CARD, to me, showing MARRIAGE FRAUD, IF he was serious about our Marriage, we would still be together.

Inyang has told many lies on me, saying, I threw water in his face, hit him, etc., I KNOW his Nigerian friends put him up to saying that, because IF I'd done those things, that's considered ABUSE and he could have called Danville Local Police and file charges against me, but, IT NEVER HAPPENED. He must make me look like the bad guy when all I ever did was love him.
His plan was for us to REMAIN married so he can file for Citizenship in 5 years, because by now I figured out he USED ME for MARRIAGE FRAUD, he knew I would not submit the necessary paperwork for citizenship, he told me he could still do it in 5 years and that I could not STOP HIM FROM BECOMING A CITIZEN. Though it's MY WORD AGAINST HIS, all I have is HIS ACTIONS, He ADMITTED TO ME THAT he USED ME, and that I CAUSED IT BECAUSE I KEPT TELLING HIM THAT I SENSE HE WAS USING ME AND MY "WORDS" CAUSED IT TO HAPPEN (Him using me). When Inyang made that statement I immediately filed (online) a Fraud Case.





I divorced Inyang August 2016, he gladly signed the Papers because he has a Fiancee, who he's probably married to by now, offering him the opportunity to now file for citizenship.
I have been told that USCIS WILL DO NOTHING, because Inyang has not committed a Crime, YES HE HAS, He COMMITTED MARRIAGE FRAUD! That's a Federal Crime. I've since learned (by people who know him) that he has a Shipping Company, he ships cars to Nigeria, and he has a Clothing Line Winners Clothes, he makes his money and sends it back to Nigeria, Inyang once told me that America is the Land of Opportunity and how he WILL RAPE this Country of their dollars and take advantage of All Opportunities, and he's doing it.


I am a FIGHTER, I know of 15 Women who has Married Nigerian men and the men used them for Green Card Purposes and they "think" nothing can be done, I want to show them that, YES, SOMETHING CAN BE DONE! YES! they can be DEPORTED for Immigration Marriage Fraud.
I will sound the Alarm, Once Trump is in Office I will contact him and tell him my Story, I'm almost sure I will get RESULTS! Inyang should not have played with my life, I am a Good, Christian Woman Who Believes in Doing Right - all The Time. I trust that the Lord WILL GIVE ME JUSTICE by the Fraud Division recognizing that Inyang Obaten Ettah MARRIED ME FOR IMMIGRATION MARRIAGE FRAUD.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/12/nigerian-man-tony-inyang-ettah-scams-dumps-american-wife-deborah-hendrickson-photos.html

This thing called love nawao. If you are living abroad before you marry someone down here, you have to have it behind your mind that the person has ulterior motives. So it's either you make up your mind to gain from them and them from you or you look for someone where you are.

Bad sharp guy lol