airminem:
I have a 7 month old baby. Ever since the birth, my guy won't get close to me in any sexual way. I have tried everything, but he says he's not in the mood. I don't know what to do or what to think. Please help.

bbmpin:
[b] [color=#000050] He no longer finds you attractive!

by bbmpin(m): 3:02pm On Dec 18
You are way too nice to her(for her to boldly present those terms), she will never have respect for you

You care way too much about what she thinks and she takes advantage of that; too late to fix any of that.

Men like you are responsible for emergence of "feminism"

You are supposed to be the head of your house-hold

You are the leader in your house, supposed to guide your wife!

Then there is also the possibility that she hates having sex with you (very plausible)

Take a deep breath and start living for yourself, I would not say to leave your wife or your family.

But give yourself time to think about your opinions

Right now from your description, You are not enjoying your marriage ,You are bogged down.

It's very common, You are not alone.

soberdrunk:
Lmao!! Oga still dey calculate expenses and stress that he went through, am sure that is what is killing the mood.

Ps-Work on yourself, loose all that babyfat, wear bumshorts, seduce that man jare!!! If all nor work, RAPE HIM!!! Nah ur husband

pocohantas:


Hypocrite.
Why didn't you advise the man getting twice a way to change his dressing? Get someone to reduce the burden on his wife.
Get a hotel room...
Or you think women don't stop finding men unattractve.



This was your advice to him.
Some of you are on a mission to break homes.

bbmpin:


@highlighted unattractive

Pray Tell! How are these two vastly different issues related?

pocohantas:

They are related because it's a case of two people sexually deprived by their partners.
How are you so sure the man isn't unattractive to his wife?
And how are you so sure this poster is unattractive to her husband?

it's as simple as, what is good for the goose is good for the gander.
Try your best to objective and unbiased in your advice, I know it isn't easy for most NL males, just try.

pocohantas:


Hypocrite.
Why didn't you advise the man getting twice a way to change his dressing? Get someone to reduce the burden on his wife.
Get a hotel room...
Or you think women don't stop finding men unattractve.



This was your advice to him.
Some of you are on a mission to break homes.

EgusiSoup:


you want to be screwing after 7 months?

I think you should respect yourself for a while.

bbmpin:

I indicated that it was possible that the problem was him!


I try to be open minded when sharing "my" thoughts on issues that are sensitive!

But........... "Morality" must be taken into consideration each time irrespective of Gender.

I won't support anything that's wrong! (Probity)

Having said that...... when a man no longer finds his "wife" attractive, It's her job to draw his gaze.

EgusiSoup:


you want to be screwing after 7 months?

I think you should respect yourself for a while.

Pidgin2:


So he is no longer the leader in his house and the one to guide his wife(in the bedroom), I thought you mentioned this previously?

Now she should take up the mantle of leadership(in the bedroom) because it has suddenly become her job and duty to draw his gaze. You see your life? I thought you were against this on the other thread. This is why I feel sorry for people who ask for advice on nairaland

EgusiSoup:


you want to be screwing after 7 months?

I think you should respect yourself for a while.

DIKEnaWAR:
Your guy?