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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by Gagaboy1212(m): 7:17pm On Dec 19, 2016

Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by africanboy(m): 7:18pm On Dec 19, 2016

airminem:
I have a 7 month old baby. Ever since the birth, my guy won't get close to me in any sexual way. I have tried everything, but he says he's not in the mood. I don't know what to do or what to think. Please help.

kegel exercises.... your vagina muscles may have weakened as a result of the child birth...
was there any minor surgery done after the birth? it is possible you had a tear and your doctor didn't sew you up tight enough

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by ahamadegr8(m): 7:18pm On Dec 19, 2016

dingbang:

A friend of mine warned me when i get married, i will get tired of sex, i told her it was a lie....

This is just a perfect example of what she meant.

Some stupid girls will be saying he is cheating... Foolishness at its peak. Dummy, he aint cheating, he is tired of having sex with her, deal with it.

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by Goldenheart(m): 7:20pm On Dec 19, 2016

Adminisher:

God has designed the woman's body to be less attractive to men shortly after birth. The baby needs and actually feels more secure in a nursing mom with some fat. Breast feeding also helps to bring down the weight.

Things should normalise with the guy after the first year.
After the first year, try to aggressively lose weight. He will find you more attractive.

where is it written that God design the woman to be less attractive...

some people sha

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by Rhea(f): 7:20pm On Dec 19, 2016

airminem:
I have a 7 month old baby. Ever since the birth, my guy won't get close to me in any sexual way. I have tried everything, but he says he's not in the mood. I don't know what to do or what to think. Please help.

For now, focus on baby and yourself. Trim those pregnancy fat off (no offense, but we all get them after birth). Tighten up the V with Kegel exercises. Nothing radical...simple pushups and ab crunches everyday. Eat whatever you like as long as you work out 3X a week. In 3 months, he will be drooling over you. Men notice things like that. Then you can start your own shakara aloje.

Men can be ironic some times. When you want to give up on child bearing and focus on regaining your prenupt body physique, they get all Hot and booom....you're laid again and counting down to 9 months.

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 19, 2016

Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by AntiWailer: 7:22pm On Dec 19, 2016

7 months ke.

Oni gbes grin

Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by ct2: 7:22pm On Dec 19, 2016

na food what your problem,

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by vani86: 7:23pm On Dec 19, 2016

NevetsIbot:
lol... Correct guy.... Did he see how disgustingly beautiful your kitten looking like during childbirth?.......ewwww

You are a fo.ol. can you say that to your sisters or mum

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by progress69: 7:23pm On Dec 19, 2016

soberdrunk:
Lmao!! Oga still dey calculate expenses and stress that he went through, am sure that is what is killing the mood.

Ps-Work on yourself, loose all that babyfat, wear bumshorts, seduce that man jare!!! If all nor work, RAPE HIM!!! Nah ur husband

She said MY GUY. She is a baby mama!

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by Kulas: 7:23pm On Dec 19, 2016

Kip kwayet and nurse ur baby.just after four months u have already demanding sex bco I know that's what u have been begging for the last three months.can't u do without sex?.disdavantages of high libido

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by no1madman(m): 7:25pm On Dec 19, 2016

EgusiSoup:

you want to be screwing after 7 months?

I think you should respect yourself for a while.

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by ogastone(m): 7:25pm On Dec 19, 2016

Remember those times you used to deny him sex before the pregnancy and during the pregnancy saying that you are not in the mood until you kill his emotions towards you.
Now you want it and the mood is gone. I blame you.
I speak out of experience.

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by HMZi: 7:26pm On Dec 19, 2016

Try giving him a Blow. .Job....

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by momentarylapse: 7:28pm On Dec 19, 2016

ogastone:
Remember those times you used to deny him sex before the pregnancy and during the pregnancy saying that you are not in the mood until you kill his emotions towards you.
Now you want it and the mood is gone. I blame you.
I speak out of EXPERIENCE.

And built up "painment"!

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by GeneralEmenogu: 7:28pm On Dec 19, 2016

he is nt ur husband, he is jus ur sex partner. y wont he lose interest? dts wat hapins if he is nt ur husband bt ur guy.

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by KingEbukasBlog(m): 7:28pm On Dec 19, 2016

Pidgin2:
Your husband is cheating on you.

How did you arrive at this conclusion ? Your reasons please

Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by OGAOGA(m): 7:28pm On Dec 19, 2016

Maybe you have changed your mode of dressing and all the thing you normally do to make you look attractive to him. Try to change your style and see if it could work out.

Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by Lexusgs430: 7:28pm On Dec 19, 2016

One of the disadvantages of allowing fathers into the delivery suite

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by tochivitus(m): 7:29pm On Dec 19, 2016

EgusiSoup:

you want to be screwing after 7 months?

I think you should respect yourself for a while.

WTF u talking about ? I was made to understand that after birth ladies crave for sex more. I think the dude should not shy away or deny this sex starved woman from her CONJUGAL RIGHT simple,

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by UNYANAAWAJIKAN(m): 7:30pm On Dec 19, 2016

''Aaccording to d post there is no indication married or higher Puchaising.So my advice 4 you.''If its is legal visit ur Pastor,But if its is higher Purchase den endure.''Take kia of ur baby.

Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by psalmistkakah(m): 7:31pm On Dec 19, 2016

My wife gave birth 11 months ago..and till date I Neva touch her..

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by Thawarplay(m): 7:31pm On Dec 19, 2016

Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by zabadii(m): 7:31pm On Dec 19, 2016

remind him of you. talk about ur ex. compliment his friends in his presence and show some admiration for their masculine. thank me later

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by dingbang(m): 7:31pm On Dec 19, 2016

ahamadegr8:

what?

Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by xynerise: 7:32pm On Dec 19, 2016

"My Guy"?

Just passing through..... lipsrsealed

Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by spelleti: 7:32pm On Dec 19, 2016

d best tin is for u 2 give him tym Lata he ll b d one dat ll b demanding for it......just give tym

Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by okowande(f): 7:35pm On Dec 19, 2016

The honey pot can never be d same again until after 6 yrs. You jus ve to have heart to heart discussion wit him. Most guys feel that once a child passed tru d pussy it wld nvr taste yummy again!

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by oxmale: 7:36pm On Dec 19, 2016

airminem:
I have a 7 month old baby. Ever since the birth, my guy won't get close to me in any sexual way. I have tried everything, but he says he's not in the mood. I don't know what to do or what to think. Please help.

let me advise you sis..
stop bringing marital and relationship issues online to people you don't know.
It will cause more problems for you.
Sit your husband down and discuss things with him.

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Dec 19, 2016

EgusiSoup:

you want to be screwing after 7 months?

I think you should respect yourself for a while.

How is it your concern she's asking for help if you can't then move along, it's her marriage so she entitled to whatever way she wants to have it

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Re: My Guy Has Lost Interest In Sex Since Our Baby's Birth. What Should I Do? by freddievip(m): 7:38pm On Dec 19, 2016

[quote author=BiafranBushBoy post=52072223]But I thought girls don't like sex!!
Nawa oo...[/lol]

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