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I am in a relationship with a lady whom I love with the whole of my heart and she claimed to do the same with me,she even told me to come and see her parent for her hand in marriage. that was our agreement when I visited her in the state where she is serving. but last week when she was planning to come home for Xmas I sent her T. fare and after that she started withdrewing herself from me and i challenged her but she said nothing wrong, she told me she would be coming home at the middle of the week then she didn't called me again, until Saturday when I called her and she said she's back but not to her parent home but to a place where she gonna have get together after which she would returned home and she didtn called me. then I did not wanted to bother her so did not c her call then I wanted to know what was going on with her via WhatsApp then I discovered she had blocked me.so I don't know what to do now. although we had little misunderstood when I was asking her about her arrival date so that I can plan which day to go and c her parent and she said y did I wanted to come and see her parent and i said but we have agreed on this nou.then I texted her not to play game with me and she said if there's anything that's mine which is with her I should name it so that she can return it.so I got confused about her.please I need mature advices about this so I will know what to do next.because I really love her and I want to marry her.
thanks in advance.

ohmmmm....plz abg make dm komot English as official language 4 naija



d language na bastard.

Sorry bruh,its xmass season,u ve just been scammed by one sabi girl.

U weere warned to keep of girlfriends till may 2017,but u no hear,pele

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ken19:
ohmmmm....plz abg make dm komot English as official language 4 naija




d language na bastard.

it is a wah for you o; atleast you understand, still drop beta advise for the brother

You've been magarized

She only used you to get what she lost to MMM






T34M V1RG1N

Khd95:
Sorry bruh,its xmass season,u ve just been scammed by one sabi girl.


U weere warned to keep of girlfriends till may 2017,but u no hear,pele

please I need mature mind advice. nothing more

happy i broke up with mine dis evenin



brother.....no...lemme call you lyk oyinbo....bruv...ve hanwrytin eson the wall naa...cnt u see

marshalcarter:
happy i broke up with mine dis evenin



brother.....no...lemme call you lyk oyinbo....bruv...ve hanwrytin eson the wall naa...cnt u see

sum aff eyes but cannot see...sum can see but Have no eyes we aff eyes nd we can see glory be to the oh Lord

I feel ur pain op,but the truth to the matter is that her love for you is becoming weaker,i will advice u try to see her and talk tins,don't get angry and be prepared for the worst.meet her friends,they can be of help to you to knw wat is going wrong.
But don conclude yet and don't give up

I feel ur pain op,but the truth to the matter is that her love for you is becoming weaker,i will advice u try to see her and talk tins,don't get angry and be prepared for the worst.meet her friends,they can be of help to you to knw wat is going wrong.
But don't conclude yet and don't give up

Haniel18:
I feel ur pain op,but the truth to the matter is that her love for you is becoming weaker,i will advice u try to see her and talk tins,don't get angry and be prepared for the worst.meet her friends,they can be of help to you to knw wat is going wrong.
But don't conclude yet and don't give up

thanks Haniel,but what do I do about the WhatsApp block?

It's over. She doesn't want you. She blocked you and gave you a simple metaphor so unless she has something for you to collect, all you can do is lick your wounds and move on. She wasn't the one for you. She changed her mind and she decided you are not the man she wants to marry.

JustTm:
thanks Haniel,but what do I do about the WhatsApp block?

Notin for nw bro,just pray and patient.next time pray hard before thinking of proposing to any lady

its over, what she felt for u was pity not love... Don't cry over spilled milk

JustTm:
thanks Haniel,but what do I do about the WhatsApp block?

bro, how i wish u can let go of this hungry gal...The handwriting is clearly written...pls guys dnt force yourself on any gal, they re not worth the stress jare. Thats y i dont pity most gals.

she doesn't want 2 marry you, dnt waste your time...

JuicyLucy:
It's over. She doesn't want you. She blocked you and gave you a simple metaphor so unless she has something for you to collect, all you can do is lick your wounds and move on. She wasn't the one for you. She changed her mind and she decided you are not the man she wants to marry.

yes I since this too,but is it OK for me to block her too on WhatsApp and to demand for things I have given to her?

You never can tell maybe is ur grammar that cause the problem....bro try send her message with pidgin!!!!

JustTm:
yes I since this too,but is it OK for me to block her too on WhatsApp and to demand for things I have given to her?

You have two choices; take the high road and ignore her. Or the low road and terrorise her. You are untitled to both because you are hurting. I would advice that you ignore her and focus on yourself and get yourself a rebound if you can't handle loneliness. What she did is out of order and karma will pay her her due. Mend your heart and reflect on what lessons you could gain from the experience. Trust me she was no good for you and God saved you the misery in the long term because she should you her true colours. Better to loose a girlfriend than lose a wife. Best of luck

JustTm:
yes I since this too,but is it OK for me to block her too on WhatsApp and to demand for things I have given to her?

Block her too on whatsapp? No need.
Demand the things u dashed her? Never!!!

run for your life

Yes, u re right. Beta lose a go than a wife.. What a world we live in..





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You have two choices; take the high road and ignore her. Or the low road and terrorise her. You are untitled to both because you are hurting. I would advice that you ignore her and focus on yourself and get yourself a rebound if you can't handle loneliness. What she did is out of order and karma will pay her her due. Mend your heart and reflect on what lessons you could gain from the experience. Trust me she was no good for you and God saved you the misery in the long term because she should you her true colours. Better to loose a girlfriend than lose a wife. Best of luck hun [/quote]

With all u typed,u're still asking if this is 'true' love? There's no longer love at all let alone being true...she must have gotten someone else during her service year...just get a hold of urself and move on already

SORRY BRO, NO SUCH THING AS TRUE LOVE CUS MOST LOGE TODAY, HAS SOMETHING ATTACHED TO IT.

True love
She's done using you arakunrin, sorry ooooo.

She is done with you, move on...

Error in your topic. Its, Could this be true love not Can

JustTm:
yes I since this too,but is it OK for me to block her too on WhatsApp and to demand for things I have given to her?

Haba! Don't do that..

She has scam you and has dumped you to a more rich man with a new car . How many times have I warned men to stop training girls in school . Anywhere I'm sure the money you have given to her none of your sisters have seen half of it from you .you are just been stupid . Men stop giving girl's school fees or house rent .let her get it from her father or mother .we are not bank

Demand for everything you have given to her because from the look go things it means the new man she has meet has money that's why she is telling u to calculate all you spent on her .make sure they pay you back all the money you spent on her because if it's me that's exactly what I will do . So smiling at all

Op don't block her or request for any tin frm her, give space nd time don't even call her if she is yrs she will return bt i will advice u focus on hw to enjoy dis period.