"Here I was, thinking she was still in love with me this past one year" he said to me as he turned to face me with brokenness in his eyes. I never knew guys too could get heartbroken till I saw my 26 year-old cousin torn apart after he found out his 3 year-old relationship had turned out to be a total waste of time, money, energy and emotions.


"Wasn't there a way you would have found out that Amaka was no longer interested in you? Didn't you notice her change in attitude or anything?" I kept asking him in the forewalls of my thoughts. I dare not ask him out loud, especially now that he was in a bad place. I simply just stared at him not wanting to be too close or emotional, I didn't know exactly how to comment to his brokenness because the said Amaka was my very close friend.

"I knew she changed, she no longer cared about me over time. She stopped being excited and I thought.....I thought probably she was having family issues. Apparently, I was wrong". Yea, he replied to my thoughtful questions even though I didn't ask. I couldn't bear watching him feel so terrible. I knew Amaka was tired of the relationship long ago because she told me. I couldn't be so direct with him but I tried to tell him. Ayo would never listen to me.... Now see what has happened.

I excused myself and walked out of his bedroom, out of his house but not out of his life. Obviously, we are family and family always are stuck together.

Like I earlier said, I knew Amaka lost total interest in my cousin because she told me. When a girl begin to lose interest in a guy, here are some of the things she starts manifesting.

1. She no longer gets jealous. If she was the type of girl that used to accuse you of sleeping or making out with someone else or if she use to nag you about spending time with your female friends and of a sudden she stops. She stops caring if you spend forever with a female, then my brother...beware!

2. She lets you do the talking. As we know it, Ladies like to talk on and on and on. She talks about her day to her nails to her boss in the office to what she thinks about Nigeria and everything "talkable". In fact, most of the time she is the communication initiator. When you start realizing that you do virtually all the talking, she barely talks to you about anything, the conversation is as flat as a dead tyre....then that's a sign.

3. She takes no effort to look good in front of her once dear boyfriend. Ladies tend to wanna always look good for their spouse. They wanna wear the best make-up just to appeal his eyes. When a girl has lost her ability towards a guy, when she no longer cares about looking good for him....then, there is a problem.

4. When she misses your call, she doesn't care to call back. Normally, she'll call you a thousand times when she gets a missed call from you but when you call a million times and get no call in return or get one few days after then be getting prepared for a break up small small.

5. She prefers to hang out with her friends than with you. Of a sudden, she just falls in love with her females friends. So much that she can't accommodate you. She spends time with them, she would rather be with them than with you and of course you notice it as unusual.

6. She reply your texts/chats lately and vaguely. You send a text or you try to chat her up on whatsapp but she replies with a single word or a short phrase leaving out so many details and she'll take forever to do it.

7. She talks about other guys even though the are just friends. If the only time you see her happy and have a detailed conversation with you is when she talks about other guys, then the babe is tired of you af.

8. She doesn't want you to touch her. (No kissing o, No touching o) I guess you understand this one yourself.

9. She snaps out of the "our future together" talk. When ever you bring the "in-five-years-from-now" topic, shes always quick to change it.

10. She doesn't ask questions about you anymore. She barely ask how you are doing or cares about your details

11. You just know that there is a space between you and her. The best detector is yourself. Just that many a time, we fail to trust our guts but deep down you'll know that the bae doesn't want you and she's giving you enough reason to do the break up yourself.

Biko.....add yours!

Source:http://www.ericadianas.com/2016/12/11-sure-signs-to-know-she-is-no-longer.html

Who cares

Very correct.
Lalasticlala

Absolutely true.

When u have money frivolities like this won't. Bother u. Mschew

Woman matter again
Get money
Even she will show all those sign but still love you die
You can never understand woman
They change like Nigeria government

And i 'll see all these signs and wonders and still stick around with her huh, say she carry juju tie me down or what

me?
she don't have to display half of these signs b4 i dump her sorry a$$

what about those that have swinging moods ?


like she did all these this week ( and you don dey appy say u don free ) then next week she start all her wahala again.

she no go even allow your phone rest.

She doesn't message you anymore.....yea All those sweet,romantic,self compose messages, she usually send to you,you see them no more,when you confront her,she start giving excuses of her tried she was when she came back from school and the rest......

Putting your call on hold.....lol..ladies.....When the honey and sugar was there,she can hang up calls while speaking to other guys and call or flash back immediately(except it is important,and be fast else she will hang up and put the blame on MTN or AIRTEL that was on their own sleeping)But when she start putting your call on hold, 2,3 hours your call is still waiting,Brother abeg hang up and sleep....




Lemme stop here

Well you move on. Life is so simple but we humans complicate it. If you don't want someone anymore you tell them instead of stringing them along. It might hurt but they will get over it. Time heals

seunny4lif:

Woman matter again
Even she will show all those sign but still love you die
You can never understand woman
They change like Nigeria government

The bolden got me.

Nma27:
Well you move on. Life is so simple but we humans complicate it. If you don't want someone anymore you tell them instead of stringing them along. It might hurt but they will get over it. Time heals

Suspense kills faster than letting out the cat out of the bag.As for me if I see signs of snub from her I will ask her if she is no longer interested so that we can formally call it quit.

Abeg Let Me Get My Jotter Fast Fast, It Must Work.

Love Machine:
Suspense kills faster than letting out the cat out of the bag.As for me if I see signs of snub from her I will ask her if she is no longer interested so that we can formally call it quit.

That's how it should be. That's how I am too. I hate such suspense or waste of time and emotions

fernandoc:
When u have money frivolities like this won't. Bother u. Mschew

Bros girl wen wan leave u go leave u, money no join

Divay22:
She doesn't message you anymore.....yea All those sweet,romantic,self compose messages, she usually send to you,you see them no more,when you confront her,she start giving excuses of her tried she was when she came back from school and the rest......

Putting your call on hold.....lol..ladies.....When the honey and sugar was there,she can hang up calls while speaking to other guys and call or flash back immediately(except it is important,and be fast else she will hang up and put the blame on MTN or AIRTEL that was on their own sleeping)But when she start putting your call on hold, 2,3 hours your call is still waiting,Brother abeg hang up and sleep....




Lemme stop here

That girl must be the devils twin

dairykidd:


That girl must be the devils twin

lol....pray it doesn't happen to you, then you'll know

Divay22:
lol....pray it doesn't happen to you, then you'll know

nahh..No just worry urself,i sabi run well well.once i smell foul play i no dey wait to confirm sef...i don gbes

dairykidd:

nahh..No just worry urself,i sabi run well well.once i smell foul play i no dey wait to confirm sef...i don gbes

hahahahaha....for your mind now,you smart o ;DHand go touch you one day

Divay22:
hahahahaha....for your mind now,you smart o ;DHand go touch you one day

That's why i dey quick gbes ooo...make hand no touch me..No time for had i known

Love Machine:
Suspense kills faster than letting out the cat out of the bag.As for me if I see signs of snub from her I will ask her if she is no longer interested so that we can formally call it quit.

Oga which formality dey here again,no be marriage na,its just lovers stuff if its getting stale n u smell it on time serve her n move d fck on no need making it official...just escape like the great Houdini

Nma27:
Well you move on. Life is so simple but we humans complicate it. If you don't want someone anymore you tell them instead of stringing them along. It might hurt but they will get over it. Time heals

In my lifetime, I have never seen a lady who has verbally said, I don't want you anymore. Its always an attitude they put up. its something special with ladies. Its like they are born with it.

Get money and the girls will stick around . u won't bother urself with all these. Their focus will be on how to keep you

Na true now

Love Machine:
The bolden got me.

There are 7.5billion people on the planet to b losing sleep over a mere one. C'moooon, on to the next one!

naija gurls rock! i lyk d drama n d thrilling adventure dz way. once u get dz set-back lyk 3-5 times. u jst get so used 2 dia repeatd antics n pattern. u simply smile, shrug n move on- no time to waste time. but if she do cum bck 2u. pls dnt invest all ur emotions into her again. i mean, be d BIG DOG! c'mon u can do it, it is in ur dada oh sori DNA

As pvssy full everywhere?

As a full blooded mAn, how one woman go dey give you headache? Lai lai!

Very true.

When a person stops putting effort into the relationship, he or she is tired af.

Number 8 depends on if you guys have been having sex before. Some people decide on celibacy.