chloe7:


Just tell them what works for you they'll definitely agree, this evening I checked my cousin I gave her lucozade and ogi baba for starters

Ifylicious:
Happy holiday everyone. Pls i need to ask a question. My trip to go give birth in the US would be sponsored by my mum's step brother. We all do not have the same surname. Do you think they will accept his statement of account? He has the money as he is wealthy and his children are schooling abroad. So the money in the account would not be a problem but our different names. I am a single mum for now. I work but my money isn't enough oh. Pls advice me.

lobus:


This is a tough one. However note below concerns the VO may have;

- You are a single mum, your income isn't very sizable (going by what you said). This does not really represent sufficient ties to Nigeria to make you want to return after delivery.

- Only your husband/partner has the responsibility for catering for you. Your mum's step brother is under no obligation to pay your fees and may as well change his mind. What then happens when he changes his mind? You become stranded and opt for Medicaid?

- What is your travel history?

It is believed by the VO that everyone going to the US does not intend returning, so you must convince them beyond reasonable doubt.

My take:

Be prayerful as your case is quite tight.

Have the sponsor move the money to your account. If possible, he moves Naira to you, convert to USD and put in your dom acct. If it doesn't work out, you can convert back and give him Naira.

Be ready with strong reasons of why you cannot have the baby here in Nigeria.

Be ready to explain your present job function in an interesting way.

Have your burden of proof.

Hopefully you have travel history.

chloe7:

My cousin had a c.s 12am today o, up till now no drop of water no food o, not even one spoon of water and after the c.s she has been recuperating fine, these our naija doctors ehn I tire o

simababe:


Not all naija hospital does that, I gave birth to my first at Lagoon Hospital and I ate after 8 hours and I'm sure I would have eaten earlier if not for the fact that I slept off after the procedure

drzik:


Thank you for debunking the exaggerations.

AyaAremu:




Well for me i delivered in Dallas lastweek n it was a CS.....abt 45mins after d surgery i ws given ice to chew. Three -four hours later i farted n dey told me i cld take jello n water/ice. About 12 hours later i was made to walk d hall, after that i started eating.

I ws also given poo softner everyday after for when it comes.

ada87:
Hi all ,I am the lady her husband abused physically sometime in September,I would be due God's grace in a week's time,e hasn't bothered reaching out,but I decided to reach out to ask him on two occasions on what contribution he would make regarding the birth of the baby,he read and ignored,now I am confused on what last name I should give the child,because from all indication he has proven he doesn't want to be involved in the child's life,note I still bear my last name cos we did just traditional marriage,if I give his last name won't father's consent be required and won't I be disturbed at the airport when we want to travel?pls I am open to suggestions pls!thanks

ada87:
Hi all ,I am the lady her husband abused physically sometime in September,I would be due God's grace in a week's time,e hasn't bothered reaching out,but I decided to reach out to ask him on two occasions on what contribution he would make regarding the birth of the baby,he read and ignored,now I am confused on what last name I should give the child,because from all indication he has proven he doesn't want to be involved in the child's life,note I still bear my last name cos we did just traditional marriage,if I give his last name won't father's consent be required and won't I be disturbed at the airport when we want to travel?pls I am open to suggestions pls!thanks

ada87:
Hi all ,I am the lady her husband abused physically sometime in September,I would be due God's grace in a week's time,e hasn't bothered reaching out,but I decided to reach out to ask him on two occasions on what contribution he would make regarding the birth of the baby,he read and ignored,now I am confused on what last name I should give the child,because from all indication he has proven he doesn't want to be involved in the child's life,note I still bear my last name cos we did just traditional marriage,if I give his last name won't father's consent be required and won't I be disturbed at the airport when we want to travel?pls I am open to suggestions pls!thanks

ada87:
Hi all ,I am the lady her husband abused physically sometime in September,I would be due God's grace in a week's time,e hasn't bothered reaching out,but I decided to reach out to ask him on two occasions on what contribution he would make regarding the birth of the baby,he read and ignored,now I am confused on what last name I should give the child,because from all indication he has proven he doesn't want to be involved in the child's life,note I still bear my last name cos we did just traditional marriage,if I give his last name won't father's consent be required and won't I be disturbed at the airport when we want to travel?pls I am open to suggestions pls!thanks

ijeomaobi1:
Nefetiririam,

I take God beg u, I no want half information o.

How do I get it? Those flights are seen in dollars o. Epp me!!

ada87:
Hi all ,I am the lady her husband abused physically sometime in September,I would be due God's grace in a week's time,e hasn't bothered reaching out,but I decided to reach out to ask him on two occasions on what contribution he would make regarding the birth of the baby,he read and ignored,now I am confused on what last name I should give the child,because from all indication he has proven he doesn't want to be involved in the child's life,note I still bear my last name cos we did just traditional marriage,if I give his last name won't father's consent be required and won't I be disturbed at the airport when we want to travel?pls I am open to suggestions pls!thanks

drzik:


Thank you for debunking the exaggerations.

nefertitiram:


Whose exaggerations? The people who had these experiences or the doctors who gave the instructions?

Ifylicious:


Ok thankyou. But can my partner tender his own statement of account. We are not yet married though so we do not have same surname. Will they ask for proof to show he is my partner? Thank you. I am starting the visa process this Jan so I want to get information I need before I book for an interview. Thnx

ada87:
Hi all ,I am the lady her husband abused physically sometime in September,I would be due God's grace in a week's time,e hasn't bothered reaching out,but I decided to reach out to ask him on two occasions on what contribution he would make regarding the birth of the baby,he read and ignored,now I am confused on what last name I should give the child,because from all indication he has proven he doesn't want to be involved in the child's life,note I still bear my last name cos we did just traditional marriage,if I give his last name won't father's consent be required and won't I be disturbed at the airport when we want to travel?pls I am open to suggestions pls!thanks

stunning4real:
Good day adorable naira landers! Pls I have a question! I am pregnant and hubby said I should give birth in US pls what is the procedure?

lobus:


Welcome! Check the first page of each of Part 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5 on the procedure/guide. Come with more specific questions after that. Congratulations on your pregnancy.

lobus:


To be honest with you, long explanations makes it easier for them to deny you. It is mostly black or white with these VO and hardly a shade of grey.

Your partner should move the money to your account for the purpose of securing the Visa.

ada87:
Hi all ,I am the lady her husband abused physically sometime in September,I would be due God's grace in a week's time,e hasn't bothered reaching out,but I decided to reach out to ask him on two occasions on what contribution he would make regarding the birth of the baby,he read and ignored,now I am confused on what last name I should give the child,because from all indication he has proven he doesn't want to be involved in the child's life,note I still bear my last name cos we did just traditional marriage,if I give his last name won't father's consent be required and won't I be disturbed at the airport when we want to travel?pls I am open to suggestions pls!thanks

LadyGuinivere:

Nne. My advice is based solely on your best interests.
Mbok! If the man has not shown any interest and you are birthing in the US, for the purpose of certificates/consent et al , go as a single mother.
Any day/year oga wake up, name can be changed. I'm of The opinion that you shouldn't put a hold on your life to please a man when no send.
Shebi there's a space for father's name on BC? If you put it there, dosent mean the surname has to be his (I stand to be corrected)
I have seen thousand of cases where the man after denying/ignoring a child comes to his senses several years later. Surname was Not an issue.

chloe7:

No mind am

Please that flight nerf where is the final destination? I'm desperately in need of a ticket o

Ujoan:


Big congrats ooh.

I'm also Houston bound but arriving in March. Looking for someone to split accommodation costs with.

Do you already have a place to stay?