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Toks2008:
Edit your comment and put I in place of we....Sabi sabi

We know already!!!!!!!!!!! We sure do!

Stupedinluv:
We know already

Come and meet my parents biko

Toks2008:
Keep bragging..

i hate such mensturating bitch like her

Pearly255:
We know already!!!!!!!!!!! We sure do!

Yeah I know..which is why many ladies still date a guy for donkey years with nothing to show.

Benita27:
Bragging ke!, by the time they come with marriage talks first cos i know some guys use marriage to get girls commit, i put up "no sex before marriage", no be person go tell am to run.

Any one that stays of course is genuine.

how old are u?

Benita27:
I beg to differ Tok!.

Some guys have masters degree in showing girls off to their parents and friends while the ulterior motive is to get in-between her legs as much as possible.

A friend of mine met a guy, same week he took her to his mum as wife, smashed her, dumped her weeks later... after all the marriage talk.

Are you telling us your story?

enitey:
But some date for a long period of time.....say like 7years and still end up marrying


So having a rethink after two years or so doesn't apply to everyone o

very true

This days, some men can take the risks of introducing u to his parent just to win your heart without the intention of marrying uuu!
No joke but it does happen. all we need is God's guidance and wisdom to know whether he is for real or Not. May we not fall victims of such conspiracy.

Sometimes, you truly see potentials in you and her but after introducing her to your parents, she bleeps up and gets caught creeping behind your back with some dude. Now who would you blame for that? You appear unserious to the people on the outside dumping her a$$ but you just dodged a bullet from a stupid trickling LovePeddler.

Benita27:
I beg to differ Tok!.

Some guys have masters degree in showing girls off to their parents and friends while the ulterior motive is to get in-between her legs as much as possible.

A friend of mine met a guy, same week he took her to his mum as wife, smashed her, dumped her weeks later... after all the marriage talk.

Cheap sluts everywhere you go.
Mcheew

Toks2008:
Oh my..now I believe there is a carbon copy of everyone somewhere in the world.

Nice calm dp tho.

thanks

Societal pressure

real691:
Nice........... But why are some girls too desperate for marriage? ......#1mbUsed

even if he is serious and introduces you to the ancestors, if it is not you, it is not you.

what works for A may not work for B.

oh, I forgot........you know it all.

Teespice:
even if he is serious and introduces you to the ancestors, if it is not you, it is not you.

what works for A may not work for B.

oh, I forgot........you know it all.

The fact that a guy introduces you to his parent is not a sure proof he will marry you...the topic reads "POSSIBLE future" meaning a better option as regards his intent...simple logic.

OluKayy:
Sometimes, you truly see potentials in you and her but after introducing her to your parents, she bleeps up and gets caught creeping behind your back with some dude. Now who would you blame for that? You appear unserious to the people on the outside dumping her a$$ but you just dodged a bullet from a stupid trickling LovePeddler.

Exactly my point.

At least the lady will know it's her freaking fault.

Toks2008:
The fact that a guy introduces you to his parent is not a sure proof he will marry you...the topic reads "POSSIBLE future" meaning a better option as regards his intent...simple logic.

kai.

rules of interpretation on point. Is it literal, mischief or golden rule you used?

your write up showed two different things. you made it look like a man isn't serious if he does not introduce you to his family, yet you are saying a different thing now.

it is not a sure proof yes, but read your article again and see what you wrote and how you are contradicting yourself.

but then again, you are an acclaimed relationship expert, what do I know?

Teespice:
kai.

rules of interpretation on point. Is it literal, mischief or golden rule you used?

your write up showed two different things. you made it look like a man isn't serious if he does not introduce you to his family, yet you are saying a different thing now.

it is not a sure proof yes, but read your article again and see what you wrote and how you are contradicting yourself.

but then again, you are an acclaimed relationship expert, what do I know?

Does the fact that a guy shows you to his parent as a fiancee guaranty his marrying you if you cheat on him afterwards?

Does even a legal wedding guaranty happily ever after?

The problem I have always had with nairalanders is the way they comprehend my innocuous intelligent write ups..and it's really outta my hands...

Same way some people say I called marriage a scam just because they find it hard to comprehend.

Whatever rocks your boat.

Toks2008:
Then the mum must be as irresponsible as the boy..FACT.

Don't jump into conclusion.. His mum might not be in support of his attitude towards that.


Am not freak about that.. Showing me to his mum doesn't not guaranteed his getting married to me.

Thank you toks2008 for this topic. I will take heed to your advice before I enter one chance.





some guy I was dating even took me to his area but did not take me to meet his siblings though he is an orphan.
he told me his uncle is the only one at home with his wife and the uncle is so aggressive, that he is avoiding the uncle's problem




what baffles me the MOST was my guy tried calling his sister to come say Hi to me but she NEVER showed up after spending 2-3 hours with this guy.



My eyes are OPEN now.

I know my Mom. You dare not bring any girl to the house except you are very sure. In short, she no wan even see anyone wey na friend. If you dare, she will continue disturbing your life. Come go do mistake bring another, your own na finitò.

I cannot agree with you more. Any man who is truly interested in committing to you will not hesitate in meeting your parents and family. Most men will decline or avoid situation that will bring them to meet their girlfriend or fiancee's parents until they are sure. So, willingness of your boyfriend or fiance to meet your parents is ONE indication that he is taking the relationship very serious.

SweetyZinta:
Thank you toks2008 for this topic. I will take heed to your advice before I enter one chance.





some guy I was dating even took me to his area but did not take me to meet his siblings though he is an orphan.
he told me his uncle is the only one at home with his wife and the uncle is so aggressive, that he is avoiding the uncle's problem




what baffles me the MOST was my guy tried calling his sister to come say Hi to me but she NEVER showed up after spending 2-3 hours with this guy.



My eyes are OPEN now.

Yipeeeeeeeee! You stay in Minna?

zicoraads:
Yipeeeeeeeee! You stay in Minna?

yes oooo

SweetyZinta:
yes oooo

Really? I live and work here too. Can I send you my pin?

zicoraads:
Really? I live and work here too. Can I send you my pin?

please do

Stupedinluv:
We know already

Abi?

SweetyZinta:
please do

2C00A121

Toks2008:
Edit your comment and put I in place of we....Sabi sabi

I agree with the op.

A reasonable play boy can't be taking every pussy to his parent on a regular basis.

Even in his 20's they will frown at it.

Girls are just too carried away with swest words and big cassava and especially if the guy fine small.

Toks2008:
Does the fact that a guy shows you to his parent as a fiancee guaranty his marrying you if you cheat on him afterwards?

Does even a legal wedding guaranty happily ever after?

The problem I have always had with nairalanders is the way they comprehend my innocuous intelligent write ups..and it's really outta my hands...

Same way some people say I called marriage a scam just because they find it hard to comprehend.

Whatever rocks your boat.

everybody does not have to interprete your "write ups" the same way you do.

you are entitled to your opinion.

Toks2008:
When I write stuffs like this we must understand that a 25year old guy in the euphoria of love will show you to his entire family yet may not know what he wants...but at that point in time will be so carried away by the feelings he has for u.

It's a different ball game when a guy in his 30s does same.

Very true