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bbmpin:
[color=#000050] I see!

So when a mother is unable to provide for the child, The innocent child should be brought into this world to suffer?

Besides "religious believes" where is it written anywhere that "early abortion" is murder

"SO MANY" Criminals, Rapist and sick murderers were born into dysfunctional homes (read about them)
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Alondra:
Even the rich suffer! Bringing a child into the world is giving a life an opportunity to live, Achieve, and exist.

Nigeria including some countries haven't legalized abortion as a matter of fact they are against it. So opposition of abortion is not alone religious.


Not all children from dysfunctional becomes criminals. No one knows what this unborn will be

MizMyColi:
I like your submissions thus far.

Alondra:
Thanks

DarkRebel101:
At least you've tacitly confirmed your acute dyslexia. That's got to count for something.



You are a cretinous fücktard with the brainpower of an abortus.

You are Satan's gift to mankind - a constant reminder that Hell is real.

You are a boil on humanity's äss, a moonstruck analphabetic lunkhead, and if human stupidity were electricity, you house enough voltage to send Michael Faraday into an everlasting comatose.

In the days of Vlad III, retro-cranially inverted pillocks like you would have turbans nailed to your foreheads and your corpse fed to a conglomerate of pagan vultures.

The next time you try bandying words unnecessarily with me only to play victim afterwards, you would be impaled upon a bed of hypodermic needles while a blind nurse attends to your wounds, the last thing you'd see before you die would be the ghastly image of a tree trunk piercing your ill-used heart.

God's trousers! Here I was minding my own business and this sap-skulled dunce invaded my space, yammering some incoherent nonsense.

Scurry away, will you? Before I pick your liver with Longinus' Spear Of Destiny.

baby124:
You think your buddy is a sane person by deceiving and hurting another person? Later when calamities start happening you people will open your mouth and start blaming witches. Should it be a crime that a woman loves and trusts that buddy to share her body with him. So she's not sharp because she's being herself with him. Rather she should pretend to be what she's not and play games to get married. Don't you see how crazy it is to marry someone who has to play games to get married. No wonder marriages are like 10 for one kobo these days. What you see in the marriage will not be what you saw during courtship because you are more obsessed with lies and pretence. So dumb

Incline:
He deceived nobody. It's not a crime to share her body with him. Exactly, "share", you know it's a shared decision. It was a mutual decision, nobody was deceived into fuckkking the other, they both wanted it, both opened their legs for it. Do you see how crazy it is to love someone you don't love just because she become pregnant for you? He's in his kid's life doing what he needs to do as a father but has another woman he's going to marry. You ladies need to be wiser because you're the ones who get belle when fuckkked.

Voice2:
Back to Sender!Amen! Useless thing!

I rebuke it, and send it back! Amen! Alleluia! Ni òrukó Jesu.

Are you a member of Mountain Of Fire, or Charismatic Renewal?

baby124:
Oh we both know he is lying to her to sleep with her. He is taking advantage of her vulnerability owing to the fact that she has a child for him. It's normal for any human being to aspire to be with the father or mother of their kids. It takes a certain kind of psycho to take advantage of that. If he is only there for his kid, he will do what he is there for. He is not a prize and we are not learning any lessons from you here. Only the fact that you have a psycho as a friend, and he will end up cheating on his wife big time. I am sure you who are his town crier will also have an excuse for his behavior. Maybe that time you will come and say women are pretenders so men must cheat. Please you have no lesson to teach the OP. Taking advantage of other's successfully doesn't make you wise, sharp or smart. It only shows that there is seriously something wrong with you. Even Jesus cannot help such a person.

Incline:
Instead of arguing, listen.

DarkRebel101:
I rebuke it, and send it back! Amen! Alleluia! Ni òrukó Jesu.

Are you a member of Mountain Of Fire, or Charismatic Renewal?

baby124:
You never said anything that was worth hearing. Only supporting ridiculous things to make a point to bash OP.

Incline:
Telling the op to work on her self esteem and not having sex anyhow with men any more isn't ridiculous. If you were wise and want her best interest as a woman, you be advicing her to do the same!!! rather than supporting her decision to abort the pregnancy

Alondra:
Even the rich suffer! Bringing a child into the world is giving a life an opportunity to live, Achieve, and exist.

Nigeria including some countries haven't legalized abortion as a matter of fact they are against it. So opposition of abortion is not alone religious.


Not all children from dysfunctional becomes criminals. No one knows what this unborn will be

DarkRebel101:


You wish to draw the ire out of me, but I refuse to be part of your ceremony of shame.

Were my WiFi not temporarily jammed, I shouldn't even be found post-trading with a dog's breath like you.

I should be ensconced on my two-seater like a couch potato, clenching a chilled can of Pepsi in my hand, streaming movies, gorging some fried meat, whilst ramming my vein-streaked cøck in and out of your sister's life-weathered mouth.

My Gf travelled to villa...can you arrange your sister for me? And no, not that pug-faced sister of yours whose left butt cheek is a colony of stretch marks. I want the dark-skinned, big-titted one with a spherical derrière.

Not to worry, I promise to be a complete gentleman when doing her from behind, lest I further sunder her already compromised anal dignity.

DarkRebel101:

I read every single letter you wrote. If you weren't screwing around, then tell me, signora - was it the Holy Spirit that had you impregnated? Ave Maria, Ora pro nobis!

There's no difference – at least to me – between screwing many people and screwing one person with whom you have no intention of having a future—they both fall under the category of casual sex.

Here's an excerpt from your initial post:

Are the wrong ones you speak of not those you've dated, and possibly had sexual relations with? How's that not screwing around?

That's unimportant anyway, the kernel of the issue here is your failure to learn from past experience by choosing time again to have sex with someone you hold no marital prospects for, while fully aware that contraceptives are not fail-proof, and mishaps like condom leakages linger forebodingly in the north wind.

Yes, we must all have sex at some point, and it reaches a time when dildøs and cucumbers lose their appeal, but given your antecedents, one would expect that whoever you choose to torque beneath the bed sheets with should be one who's already a cinched deal—not someone you can't even bring yourself to inform of your pregnancy.

And I'm wagering your first child was fathered by a different man. No?

Admit it, you were reckless and didn't give your actions much thought.
But, it's inutile wailing over spilled milk, and it's time to move on.

And the only way moving on can be made possible is surely not by MURDERING an innocent soul, but by having the balls to deal with the mistakes you've made.

bbmpin:
[b][color=#000050] Nigerian law? Are you being fecicious?

I Don't take anything "Nigerian" seriously and so should you!

Just so we are clear! To you; It makes perfect sense for a girl that has an "unwanted" pregnancy that is in its "early stages" to keep it and bring the child into this world to suffer, because we want to give everyone an "opportunity"

Have you seen underage kids begging on the streets?
Have you seen mothers dump kids in refuge bins?
Have you seen kids die of starvation?
Have you seen babies left to suffer with relatives?

All these can be prevented but no...... you want to give everyone a chance even the "mistakes"

Its simple if a "couple" isn't ready to handle the demands of child care, They should be jailed for bringing that innocent soul into this world to suffer.

Early abortion isn't a sin, Bringing a child into this world and leaving he\her to suffer is a "sin"

Why create disasters that can be prevented! [/color][/b]

Voice2:
I'm glad this exchange took place, some Advisor!(Smh)

MizMyColi:
You are welcome.

I had typed stuff earlier, but decided against posting here.

In the end, it's the OPs life and she is free to do with, whatever she thinks is best for her.

But I speak, not just as a mother, but as someone whose life calling bothers on humanity itself....

Abortion is never the easier route.
It isn't.
It isn't.

As I type this, my head is filled with memories of people's exoeriences.

Whether it's a day old foetus or a 9 month baby...it does not change the fact that a human being has been cut off even before getting the chance to catch a whiff of life.

Before now, I would say stuff like.....
"I don't support abortion over reasons like this o, but if you feel it's best for you....well it's your life"

Alas, I guess my recent experience (birthing) has deleted that kind of diplomacy from my head.

*sighs*

I wish I could say more, but I'm constrained.

I earnestly pray that you have a change of heart. I also pray that things get better for you financially. I pray that the father shows empathy and support. I pray for heaven's divine guidance at a time like this for you.

I cannot pretend to understand what it must be like for you...
But I believe you have been imbued with strength to overcome and rise above.

I'm sorry I indirectly called you a coward Inugo? It's just how I really feel, however I could have kept that to myself seeing as it's not helpful to you in any way at the moment.

I may never contribute shi shi towards ur pregnancy or raising the child. But I know that you are not without help. If you decide to accept your fate in good faith, and earnestly seek your creator in prayer and meditation, you will notice changes. You will first be filled with strength and uncommon joy.

Troubled heart Please do not abort. I KNOW THAT the other option isn't easier either....but please don't abort.

Chai, I pray I become financially balanced someday so I can create a foundation/home that takes in people in situations like this and similar ones.

It is well.

Alondra:
We should all take Nigeria seriously i else it will continue to be how it is or worse.

Now you really want to play the mind game isn't it?

So to you murdering a seed with life because you believe it is a mistake is nothing to you? Do you support infanticide too?

If you know you are not ready to give birth then why have reckless sex?

Have you seen someone who has implications due to abortion?

Have you seen a woman who remains barren for life out of abortion?

Have you not seen great men and women who have made it from nothing?

Do you know the number of women / ladies that lost their lives in the process of abortion?

Have you heard of situations where the foetus survived even after trials of abortion? What will you suggest in these cases?

Are you saying this because you are a man? If you had been aborted for selfish reasons will you be who you are now?

Its all about balance! The suffering with not be forever plus never call anyone a MISTAKE!

Bringing a child into this world is giving it hope

DarkRebel101:
A million likes for this...

Alondra:
I'm happy you agreed

Sanchez01:
You're just TOO COLD! Haba! She made a mistake, fine. It is not in our place to play God over her at this point in her life. She was reckless, naughty, wayward, blah blah blah and all of that, does not mean you are better and does not make me better as well. You don't judge people when they're down. It's totally wrong. It's like beating a man who passed out.

@troubledheart, I have nothing new to say than to ask you to make haste on whatever decision you take at the end of the day. It is easier saying you give up your child for adoption when orphanages are filled with children, and we have also seen women who further dimmed their future just because the mouths to feed are much. We have scenarios of children who suffered through life to become great. Whatever path you tow in the end should be your decision and not someone else's. That way, you'd find fulfillment that you did right or otherwise.

Truth is, we all make mistakes at some point in our lives. Those who don't bring theirs to the fore would forever remain saints while those who feel burdened and troubled should be burned to the stakes. Just like a couple of persons suggested, if you are certain the man responsible won't see through with you, please don't usher the child in just so he or she questions his or her existence.

Mizmycoli, I understand your stand and as a pro-life, I understand how difficult it could be to 'murder' an innocent child. But then, it just could be a graver sin if at the end of the day she's left to to stare at the sun while fending for the children becomes a herculean task. I have witnessed a couple of this and I must admit that it is not a funny sight, not in the least of ways.

DarkRebel101:
Is there any particular reason for you being happy at me agreeing?

Incline:
Woman, you get distracted easily. No wonder you're pregnant again for another man who doesn't want to marry you. Why are you bothering yourself trying to prove to her you're not a troll when she's the one trolling? Focus on what you're here for otherwise close this thread.

Sanchez01:
You're just TOO COLD! Haba! She made a mistake, fine. It is not in our place to play God over her at this point in her life. She was reckless, naughty, wayward, blah blah blah and all of that, does not mean you are better and does not make me better as well. You don't judge people when they're down. It's totally wrong. It's like beating a man who passed out.

@troubledheart, I have nothing new to say than to ask you to make haste on whatever decision you take at the end of the day. It is easier saying you give up your child for adoption when orphanages are filled with children, and we have also seen women who further dimmed their future just because the mouths to feed are much. We have scenarios of children who suffered through life to become great. Whatever path you tow in the end should be your decision and not someone else's. That way, you'd find fulfillment that you did right or otherwise.

Truth is, we all make mistakes at some point in our lives. Those who don't bring theirs to the fore would forever remain saints while those who feel burdened and troubled should be burned to the stakes. Just like a couple of persons suggested, if you are certain the man responsible won't see through with you, please don't usher the child in just so he or she questions his or her existence.

Mizmycoli, I understand your stand and as a pro-life, I understand how difficult it could be to 'murder' an innocent child. But then, it just could be a graver sin if at the end of the day she's left to to stare at the sun while fending for the children becomes a herculean task. I have witnessed a couple of this and I must admit that it is not a funny sight, not in the least of ways.

Sanchez01:
Mizmycoli, I understand your stand and as a pro-life, I understand how difficult it could be to 'murder' an innocent child. But then, it just could be a graver sin if at the end of the day she's left to to stare at the sun while fending for the children becomes a herculean task. I have witnessed a couple of this and I must admit that it is not a funny sight, not in the least of ways.

Mindfulness:
Love you too!

Happy New Year to you dear and your family.

Alondra:
It's nice to know you are not the only one who thinks otherwise

Sanchez01:
You're just TOO COLD! Haba! She made a mistake, fine. It is not in our place to play God over her at this point in her life. She was reckless, naughty, wayward, blah blah blah and all of that, does not mean you are better and does not make me better as well. You don't judge people when they're down. It's totally wrong. It's like beating a man who passed out.

Voice2:
It might interest you to know that THE SAME critic of casual sex wrote the post quoted directly above yours.

See?