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Re: Pregnant And Depressed. by Nobody: 2:24pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Incline: Where did I tell her to abort? Reading comprehension issues? And you have the audacity to call anyone foolish. |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed. by Nobody: 2:25pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: Amen! I love that too. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed. by Nobody: 5:41pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
@Troubledheart , my advice will be to inform your baby daddy first. If he supports you, fine. If he doesn't, take the bulls by the horns and take care of ur child yourself as best as you can. A friend's baby daddy told her to get an abortion since they did not have money to wed talk more of caring for a baby. He had no stable job then. My friend said no that she will take care of the baby herself anyhow. The man changed his mind. Today, they are married and have added another child. If she had aborted then, I doubt they would have gotten married or still be together now. Then my dear, I bet you will get married later to someone else and be looking to have children with him. If you can, let this one live. I wish you the best. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed. by Nobody: 7:50am On Dec 31, 2016 |
troubledheart: I am going to be the devil's advocate here and I don't care how anyone perceives it. We are talking about reality here and not some movie where everything returns to normal after the "take 1, camera, action". I can see you desire to have a home and family of your own hence the mention of your desire to be married soon in not later than 1 - 2 years. Being a single mum in all honesty has dimmed your chances by say 20%, but being a single mother of 2 not from a failed marriage or you being widowed, babe that's a sour grape. It will deal you marriage dreams the deadliest blow you can think of. It doesn't completely erase the chances of you getting married but having a second child as a single mum will make the road to marriage tougher. My only advice is to get an abortion. I don't know your financial muscles I would have suggested you keep the baby, forget about marriage and bring up your kids all by yourself even though its never an easy fit. But looking at your story, it doesn't seem to me that you have the capacity so please, go for termination. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed. by Nobody: 8:09am On Dec 31, 2016 |
troubledheart: Oh! This sounds good. Since you and him are seeking to forge a common ground, I'd at this point recant my former submission. I wish you the best. |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed. by Nobody: 9:25am On Dec 31, 2016 |
troubledheart:Don't abort the child, tell your ex about the child. |
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