DozieInc:
This happens to guys on a regular basis nobody comes online to cry but when it happens to a lady you hear feminist saying all sort of crap. @Estharfabian

So Estharfabian is "all feminists"? Or you don't know know what to comment.

Cheap publicity. You had to copy Toke, Linda, Bella Naija etc to achieve what exactly?


I was going to sympathize with you but no point doing that again.

Also you come agree as the relatively unstable, dramatic and emotionally immature type who feels they can trap or get a guy with good looks and fleek skin.

Sorry to bust your bubble but most matured men are not like that oh. Matured men will likely date you and put you on the side chick levels and do this for donkey years and you suddenly wake up and discover that the dude is getting married to some random chick who is just an ordinary Jane Doe. Men want a woman who can hold a house down and not some egocentric chick who storms out of the house at the slightest provocation.

My niece used to do this because she is a combo of beauty and brains and this got to her so bad but nobody taught her to sit up when she lost like three correct guys to other smart ladies. Thank God she is married now and knows better.

On a final note....are you reporting the guy to the trio of Linda, Bella and Toke so they can stop the wedding or what?

Make she turn lesbian, after all most lezbos suffered heart breaks and eventually decided to switch sexuality. Just kidding.

JideAmuGiaka:


My thought as well, but the way she absconds from her bf house shows that she's egocentric.
She cut the relationship instead of her ego Maybe because of her beauty.

Exactly bro but there is more to the story as safarigirl revealed in her post above.

Note this.....

A responsible guy will never let go of a good lady and likewise a good lady will never let go of a good guy.

dollyjoy:
Did you read the post before commenting

Dont think he did tho

Estharfabian:

Pfft!



Else?

PS--Keyword :MOSTLY.

Bae you need to change your attitude or you will continue having problem with your boyfriends.

The reason why the world is messed up, relationships are failing, marriages are crashing, infidelity is on the high, etc, is cos most people in this generation, do not want to make efforts to be responsible, but want the best things of life. I've tried doubling up just to see if it's possible to keep several partners at once but it doesn't work for me. It's difficult paying attention to your work /biz, and also paying attention to different ladies. At the end, my conscience won't let me be, I begin to wonder what excuses I'd give if caught, etc and at the end of the day, I just give up on trying to double date. I really must commend guys and girls who are good at doing this, and would love to congratulate them for contributing in the destruction of love, relationships and marriages. I'm also happy that karma has a way of dealing with people as some of these folks, usually get served in their own coins... Is there a day we don't read about infidelity on nairaland? Definitely, no. It then goes a long way to tell you how bad our society is, and then explains to you why divorces and broken homes will be on the increase in naija...

I'm a Nigerian and from experience, I can tell you that most Nigerians are not honest in so many ways but expect the best. It shows why the country is in a mess of a state. Ordinary making efforts to be in a committed relationship, Nigerians cannot; what then, can they do?

Why wouldn't he dump you...I am sure the next girl he is with will also be dumped soon. The so called engagement na the scope wey dem they use na. I am sure he has banged you tirelessly and he is moving to the next hole...When sensible folks say keep yourself before marriage, do not cohabit, do not defile yourself in the name of having a boyfriend, your lot will say it is your life...Now you are spreading your life on social media seeking what? Sympathy or a new boyfriend who would under the guise of pity sample you again and dump your worthless a**!

Repent of this mumu boyfriend and girlfriend rubbish. Get real with your life. Pick the bits and pieces of your life. Build yourself mentally and spiritually...

No man wants a deficit for a wife. A wife is a good thing. A wife is favor from GOD...As i dey look yu so, yu no resemble favor. Yu resemble havoc!

Wow....I feel sad for the babe. But big ups to her for being so matured about it. The average lady would go about fighting the other lady involved but truth is dude ain't worth the stress. I wish her well and hope she finds a better person.

refiner:
A pretty gal like that...

Attitude matters a lot tho...even with great ass and beauty,u can still be dumped like a piece of trash if you have a bad attitude...cc estharfabian

May God kip blessing u

You did the right thing dear,no need fighting over a guy that is not worth it

Eyaaaa. Some guys aren't really worth the stress.

deenee:
Cheap publicity. You had to copy Toke, Linda, Bella Naija etc to achieve what exactly?


I was going to sympathize with you but no point doing that again.

Also you come agree as the relatively unstable, dramatic and emotionally immature type who feels they can trap or get a guy with good looks and fleek skin.

Sorry to bust your bubble but most matured men are not like that oh. Matured men will likely date you and put you on the side chick levels and do this for donkey years and you suddenly wake up and discover that the dude is getting married to some random chick who is just an ordinary Jane Doe. Men want a woman who can hold a house down and not some egocentric chick who storms out of the house at the slightest provocation.

My niece used to do this because she is a combo of beauty and brains and this got to her so bad but nobody taught her to sit up when she lost like three correct guys to other smart ladies. Thank God she is married now and knows better.

On a final note....are you reporting the guy to the trio of Linda, Bella and Toke so they can stop the wedding or what?

May God keep blessing you...leaving the house exactly why pls?...He replied angrily, so if he marries you at the slightest provocation you leave the house..you not getting it yet...That guy is into having a happy home, not feminist management

Gimme his address

makydee:
And all these boys that want complete package, their prick is nothing to write home about. Smh

Chai
My girl have join bahd gang

wristbangle:


Sorry if I am being blunt but I won't say he is a cheat. This lady in question might have displayed some ridiculous attitudes whereby the guy has called her attention to but she failed to change. To add salt to injury, the mother disapprove the relationship he had with the igbo lady for a lady from his tribe (which means he already has a plan B) and by virtue of this, it also happens to ladies who keep several guys on their proposal list hence pick the best among. If your boyfriend is derailing and another guy is showing keen interest who happens to possess all the quality you want in a man, won't you keep him in your silo?

Ofcourse I don't need to argue that she is an attention seeker which already is a bad omen for any guy who wants to date let alone marry her in future. She needs to fix herself. She is not a relationship material let alone that of marriage.

she's pretty. Somebody will marry flaws and all, I can assure you that

KidsNEXTdoor:

Chai
My girl have join bahd gang

really?

You mean you walked out from your boyfriend house? you get luck you for collect beating on to the matter sef

1st to fight and first to cry IDIOT!

makydee:
And all these boys that want complete package, their prick is nothing to write home about. Smh

Haahahaha

makydee:
really?

Bae
U don dey fear me

safarigirl:


she's pretty. Somebody will marry flaws and all, I can assure you that

Okay maybe that is the reason why of recent divorce rate is high because some guys out of sheer stupidity marry for beauty. Any guy whey e try am, naim cup of tea be that. Yes beauty is good, what about her character? Does it compliment or antagonise her beauty?

Between, I spied on your profile pix and if that is you there, I won't be last to say your beauty is extraordinary.

Estharfabian:

Well, life goes on!


Boys are Mostly dickheads.
So, Puleeeeeeease! don't sulk, Move the hell on!
don't let nothing Hold you back. Look Good, Get independent, wash up good and Have great Ass!

Another Prince Charming would Come knocking. there's so many sharks to choose from.

Your name often rings in my head & i really don't know why

Drama

safarigirl:


she's pretty. Somebody will marry flaws and all, I can assure you that

Seriously?

That's what happens when a lady out her eggs in a basket. Una go dey do holy holy wet no dey Favour una.Carry one man matter for head like sego. Now you go start From beginning dey find boyfriend,the next person fit toast you today,marry tomorrow.

Una too love ,Nigeria women!!! Love no be the only thing wey dey sweet for marriage. See the kind childish argument sef between she and person she dey cry for,very immature argument. Mtcheeeww.Agbayas!!!

The other day my colleague told me she has been dating her man for 7 years!!!,Ehn!?!She be pensioner?!!I NO FIT!!!JUST dey pursue important people comot from her life ."Madam man no get menopause ooooo",I screamed at her before leaving the office.

Nnemuka:
Looking for someone to break ma heart..... i need to loose weight.

Preferably a yoruba man. They are good in that department and also good at destroying ppls heart.

Hi...**waving** i dey here oh..proudly yoruba..... WE destroy pvssys also...not only hearts...point of correction.... Happy new year..

KidsNEXTdoor:

Bae
U don dey fear me

Me

MrPresident1:
Luke 21:28
And when these things begin to come to pass, then look up, and lift up your heads; for your redemption draweth nigh.

Jesus is coming on or before the 20th of January 2017

that's long....an average guy cums in 10 mins or less....

Estharfabian:

Well, life goes on!


Boys are Mostly dickheads.
So, Puleeeeeeease! don't sulk, Move the hell on!
don't let nothing Hold you back. Look Good, Get independent, wash up good and Have great Ass!

Another Prince Charming would Come knocking. there's so many sharks to choose from.

You are an idiot for replying this "Boys are Mostly dickheads."

You are a "pussytail"!

incomplete story, she z too beautiful to be rejected else her bad side is bigger than her good side,.again it might be a play out to make her go by the duo because she bad and get weak thinking to know.

I once did that with my female cousin to one girl after I found out she is worse than snow white's stepmother.