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His girl friend Mom and sister does not want them to get married because , it happens sometimes ago that His mom went to visit her dad (note* her parents are separated and she lives with the MOM in another town) so now they are angry because they so much hate the dad and come to think of it , He is from the same hometown with the DAD , likewise the mom but only God knows why she hates anyone from the same hometown to marry her daugther , so now my friend is seeking advise on what to do , should he just forget the lady they have been together for 3years or exercise some patient and how can he convince this women to accept him

Please serious advise needed

In Africa, marriage without the approval of parent(s) or sibling(s) doesn't go down well.


If experience is the reason for their disapproval, getting them to understand that he is different regardless of his nativity, will be a difficult task.

He needs someone else to advocate for him...perhaps, he should go with an elder, his parents or someone with a reputable character.

Although that he thinks he is different doesn't guarantee that he is actually different.
This tribal stuff sometimes is contagious...just sometimes.

He has to be very careful if approved.

Carry her comot,go far n build ur own family...If okay by her.
Alternatively,get her pregnant.

Tell your friend to forget the girl.

madridguy:
Tell your friend to forget the girl.

Forget her ? You know it's not that easy

Let him do juju. He go marry her and her mama join sef

Your exclusive usage of personal pronouns made the write-up rather confusing and not so comprehensive...

Quintessential1:
Your exclusive usage of personal pronouns made the write-up rather confusing and not so comprehensive...

How then did the people above comprehend it

I think your mental assimilation is questionable.

wtfCode:
Carry her comot,go far n build ur own family...If okay by her.
Alternatively,get her pregnant.

Thank you i am going to tell him to reason that with her

wtfCode:
Carry her comot,go far n build ur own family...If okay by her.
Alternatively,get her pregnant.

You want him to hijack someone's daughter

Tell ur friend to give her belle,they would be the one to go dey beg im make em com marry am for free...no time to waste

Quintessential1:
Your exclusive usage of personal pronouns made the write-up rather confusing and not so comprehensive...

tell me what you cant comprehend there .... he is from the same hometown with her dad and mom ..but the parent separated along time ago and since then she has been living with the mother .. the guy's mom visited them one day in school and me the girl so that was when his mom got to know a bit about her dad who still lives in their hometown so she decided to visit the man and ask what happened in their marriage , so the girl's mom got to know about the visit to her husband she hates so much for that reason i think my best of knowledge she does not like anyone from their hometown to marry her daugther. so what can he do to make the mom accept him or should just forget the girl

Nma27:
You want him to hijack someone's daughter

Na dem go marry their daughter?
Na dem suppose marry pesin 4 her?

She's got the right to choose 4 herself any man of her choice.
But any action this dude is gonna take,he should let her know.

oldfoolnigger:
Tell ur friend to give her belle,they would be the one to go dey beg im make em com marry am for free...no time to waste

this is my own opinion , because this guy has done so much to let her go