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I'm presently in this situation and she fall so good for me, if you're financially OK, go for it! You're a man. Don't be scared even if she's in her 50's and you're in your 20's....YOU'RE A MAN

Toto no get age! Play your card well

The older the berry , the sweeter the juice

Did she knows that she is older than you? And you ready to marry her? If yes, then go ahead and if no, don't try it.

raylord:
my gf is 30 and am 24. very serious relationship. she has introduced me to her mother and her siblings. she wants us to get married this year

hmmm... that means she is already the one controlling the relationship..

raylord:
my gf is 30 and am 24. very serious relationship. she has introduced me to her mother and her siblings. she wants us to get married this year

Please take no offence, but what tribe? I am here for observational purposes.

Pluto16:
Hi everyone, I'm madly in love with this lady she is like (lemme guess) roughly 26 years while i'm just 22...she's working in a place beside the company i work with. We do talk sometimes, greet each other and some other stuffs...

But I'm scared to ask her out because of the age difference. She might took it wrong or embarrass me or something like that...

As a young man i dress well, look cute and behave well also but I dnt think all that count. I know it works in foreign countries or lemme say western countries especially, You know Africans and culture! Whats is the con and pro and Please share any similar experience you've had or saw and Your advice is needed also...

You wan dey chop wetin ur elders suppose dey chop abi? Know ya size o.....

U seekin advice on ds kinda issue on a public forum signals u MAY nt be matured enuf to handle a 26yr old working-class woman

Never start by asking her out. Get close to her, be her friend, always communicate, play her boyfriend and make sure u show love one way or the other and watch her love you in return.

raylord:
my gf is 30 and am 24. very serious relationship. she has introduced me to her mother and her siblings. she wants us to get married this year

are u ready

Pluto16:
Hi everyone, I'm madly in love with this lady she is like (lemme guess) roughly 26 years while i'm just 22...she's working in a place beside the company i work with. We do talk sometimes, greet each other and some other stuffs...

But I'm scared to ask her out because of the age difference. She might took it wrong or embarrass me or something like that...

As a young man i dress well, look cute and behave well also but I dnt think all that count. I know it works in foreign countries or lemme say western countries especially, You know Africans and culture! Whats is the con and pro and Please share any similar experience you've had or saw and Your advice is needed also...

Ain't nothing wrong g with that bro. Go ahead if u love her.

1stladdy:
when you eventually get married, you'll pay the role of the wife while she, the husband

why do u think so? Even when he is far richer than her?

If you don't know what to say that's the sign right there telling you to grow up first that you ain't ready for such

How on earth can you be in love with someone you barely know.. more of infatuation

Why shld this make FP?.of what value is it?

Most of the times, I've always dated older women and they respect me, it's how you play the game, get close, show care, listen but ensure you don't get friendzoned and you'll nail her

Kingsley10000:
do u intend to marry her or hit and run?

this one na hit and run oooo

Biko ,Age is just A Number ,when you have got other attribute to comfort her once u guys start dating ....Even dating some1 younger than you doesn't guarantee long lasting relationship.... Once u are equal to the Task Op give it a try

lonngmann:
You like them older ehn

Yea, from childhood

1stladdy:
when you eventually get married, you'll pay the role of the wife while she, the husband

sister you crack me up laughing oooo ... well you just said it all

crotonite:
a = k * p


Where p = picture, a = quality of advice, and k = the vector sum of her assets.

a α p

@OP when you enter 30s club, you MIGHT not find older women attractive anymore.

Bluezy13:
When you are inlove with an older lady with such age difference and above, never ask her out!
Just go closer...like really closer to her, play her boyfriend, show her you love her without saying it.
Show her care and all that and use sweet words on her.
And remain that way, I bet she will also play along and value you with respect because she will know you love her but will think you are scared of age difference.

Then someday, if she perhaps thought of feeling same way, she might allow you have your way to any extent that you want...even with body.

I repeat, never ask her out!!
If you ask her out, you don spoil show. She might not accept, even if she does, the relationship will not see the end of the day because she will constantly be filled with guilt and indignation and she might take advantage of your feelings for her.

From Experience o. And it has been working out for me.

When you see comments from a PRO you'll know.....@ Op, this is the best advise for you.....please note , a lady needs you to show your love through care not through words of mouth. Show care and watch the flow.

raylord:
my gf is 30 and am 24. very serious relationship. she has introduced me to her mother and her siblings. she wants us to get married this year

Lmao.
She has introduced you to her people and wants u guys to get married this yr?

She is calling the shots mehn and telling u when ur gonna get married to her

Bro Forget all these stupid advice from never do wells. You can date whoever the fuck_ yu want. It's in the mindset. Have confidence in yourself, act mature and work on yur game. C'est fini. But i'll advice yu to make money first!. Money automaticcaly upgrades yur age. That same lady yu wanna die for might be giving it to an 18yo yahoo boy...soooo

greatnaija01:
maybe i should first clear your MIND and EYES on the differences that exist apart from age

1- I.Q difference... even at the same age... Ladies have more I.Q than guys cos they have alot going on already from a tender age of their first menstral cycle flow...

2. CAREER difference young dude if u have no HIGH PAYING Job simply snap her pics n use it to fantasize cos she may like your face but will never be PROUD OF YOU.

3. VALUES.. Its so obvious you are only FALLING for looks and you barely know what it takes to HOLD a TRUE relationship thru thick n thin... MY YOUNG BOSS... LADY LOOKS DECEIVE o

4. FINANCES. CAN YOU HANDLE HER NEEDS? DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT SHE NEEDS? CAN YOU TAKE CARE OF A BABY? ALL IN THIS RECESSION... if you are not financially BUOYANT kindly walk away.... oops if you are WALKING meaning you gat no ride then don't consider it.

5. SPIRITUALLY SAFE: In these new year... no matter what you do.. secure your destiny.. no matter how good your game is.. she will always be ahead of you mentally...if not experientally... DO NOT START WHAT YOU CAN NOT FINISH... DO NOT JUMP UNLESS YOU HAVE SEEN WHERE U WILL LAND ON BOTH FEET. THIS LIFE IS MYSTERIOUSLY SPIRITUAL.

6. ARE YOU READY TO MARRY? at her age she aint looking for a dude to get laid... she wants commitment and marriage... and if you HURT her she can place a CURSE you will never be able to break. do not underestimate the power of words release from BITTER HURTS.

GO FOR A LADY THAT WILL LOOK UP TO YOU IN EVERY WAY... NOT ONE THAT IS NOT EVEN LOOKING AT YOU. YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE TESTING WATERS IN THESE DAYS WHERE KNOWLEDGE IS EVERYWHERE. BE WISE O... ELSE WHEN IT HAPPENS YOU MAY NOT HAVE THE ENERGY TO TYPE YOUR STORY ONLINE.

pls never ever mistake IQ for emotional maturity again ..yes girls are more matured than boys of their age but not IQ .. Intelligence is not an emotion . A 2 yrs old can more more IQ than you.... good points on the rest though

dharmiedrums:
well, she will took it wrong indeed. when you don't want to took a step.

Lol, wicked someborri

""She will never be proud of you"". this point sud make you work away if you are a rational dude.

[quote author=greatnaija01 post=52511116]maybe i should first clear your MIND and EYES on the differences that exist apart from age

1- I.Q difference... even at the same age... Ladies have more I.Q than guys cos they have alot going on already from a tender age of their first menstral cycle flow...

2. CAREER difference young dude if u have no HIGH PAYING Job simply snap her pics n use it to fantasize cos she may like your face but will never be PROUD OF YOU.

3. VALUES.. Its so obvious you are only FALLING for looks and you barely know what it takes to HOLD a TRUE relationship thru thick n thin... MY YOUNG BOSS... LADY LOOKS DECEIVE o

4. FINANCES. CAN YOU HANDLE HER NEEDS? DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT SHE NEEDS? CAN YOU TAKE CARE OF A BABY? ALL IN THIS RECESSION... if you are not financially BUOYANT kindly walk away.... oops if you are WALKING meaning you gat no ride then don't consider it.

5. SPIRITUALLY SAFE: In these new year... no matter what you do.. secure your destiny.. no matter how good your game is.. she will always be ahead of you mentally...if not experientally... DO NOT START WHAT YOU CAN NOT FINISH... DO NOT JUMP UNLESS YOU HAVE SEEN WHERE U WILL LAND ON BOTH FEET. THIS LIFE IS MYSTERIOUSLY SPIRITUAL.

6. ARE YOU READY TO MARRY? at her age she aint looking for a dude to get laid... she wants commitment and marriage... and if you HURT her she can place a CURSE you will never be able to break. do not underestimate the power of words release from BITTER HURTS.

GO FOR A LADY THAT WILL LOOK UP TO YOU IN EVERY WAY... NOT ONE THAT IS NOT EVEN LOOKING AT YOU. YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE TESTING WATERS IN THESE DAYS WHERE KNOWLEDGE IS EVERYWHERE. BE WISE O... ELSE WHEN IT HAPPENS YOU MAY NOT HAVE THE ENERGY TO TYPE YOUR STORY ONLINE.




You ROCK! You have said it all.

greatnaija01:
maybe i should first clear your MIND and EYES on the differences that exist apart from age

1- I.Q difference... even at the same age... Ladies have more I.Q than guys cos they have alot going on already from a tender age of their first menstral cycle flow...

2. CAREER difference young dude if u have no HIGH PAYING Job simply snap her pics n use it to fantasize cos she may like your face but will never be PROUD OF YOU.

3. VALUES.. Its so obvious you are only FALLING for looks and you barely know what it takes to HOLD a TRUE relationship thru thick n thin... MY YOUNG BOSS... LADY LOOKS DECEIVE o

4. FINANCES. CAN YOU HANDLE HER NEEDS? DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT SHE NEEDS? CAN YOU TAKE CARE OF A BABY? ALL IN THIS RECESSION... if you are not financially BUOYANT kindly walk away.... oops if you are WALKING meaning you gat no ride then don't consider it.

5. SPIRITUALLY SAFE: In these new year... no matter what you do.. secure your destiny.. no matter how good your game is.. she will always be ahead of you mentally...if not experientally... DO NOT START WHAT YOU CAN NOT FINISH... DO NOT JUMP UNLESS YOU HAVE SEEN WHERE U WILL LAND ON BOTH FEET. THIS LIFE IS MYSTERIOUSLY SPIRITUAL.

6. ARE YOU READY TO MARRY? at her age she aint looking for a dude to get laid... she wants commitment and marriage... and if you HURT her she can place a CURSE you will never be able to break. do not underestimate the power of words release from BITTER HURTS.

GO FOR A LADY THAT WILL LOOK UP TO YOU IN EVERY WAY... NOT ONE THAT IS NOT EVEN LOOKING AT YOU. YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE TESTING WATERS IN THESE DAYS WHERE KNOWLEDGE IS EVERYWHERE. BE WISE O... ELSE WHEN IT HAPPENS YOU MAY NOT HAVE THE ENERGY TO TYPE YOUR STORY ONLINE.

Well said! Good advice

1stladdy:
when you eventually get married, you'll pay the role of the wife while she, the husband

Ignorance don kill u. Age dosent make a difference in a relationship, once the guy has his values and knows his responsibilities as a man, shikena no problem.
Only in Nigeria do u see age difference as a problem. Google Hugh jackman bro.

OP. Approach her in a friendly way. Keep twisting her emotions till she start questioning the motive behind your game plan.

Make it look like a game... She will fall in for you.

Even if she marries another, you will still be collecting honey from the pot!!

I have been in this game for long!

Go for it