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Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Ajewealth123(op):
Please this might be a bit lengthy but bear with me.this is not a framed up write up.this is happening right now,as in reality.
Four years ago as a young b.eng who just finished serving,I got a job as a supervisor I also double as a site engineer in an average construction company in mushin Lagos. We develop buildings by breaking down the old ones and erecting new ones.
So few days into my new job, I saw this very beautiful lady. Sincerely she is extremely beautiful. Let's talk about me for a moment.
1) I have low self esteem. I can't approach girls on my own even while I was in Unilorin. Am not a virgin though.
2) there is this attitude about me,it is not proudness. If I try to talk to a girl I like for two to three times and she gives me attitudes,no matter the love I have for such a girl,it disappears immediately after the third trial.
So this lady am talking about,we do greet. Just the normal good morning,afternoon and evening. We were doing this for almost 10months till will finished the project that brought us to her street. But I do come around sometimes just to spy on her from afar and sometimes,I do let her see me. So for like like 3yrs+ I was doing this and I didn't see any green light from her and am so afraid of being rejected.
So fast forward to dec 2 last year,I passed through her street again and this time,she gave me an I.V that she is getting married,I was shocked. She studied me for a while and asked the hardest question have ever been asked in my life. (Did u ever for once loved me)? I just stood rooted where I was. After about some seconds,this was my answer.
EVER SINCE THE FIRST TIME I SET MY EYES ON YOU,HAVE NEVER LOVED ANY ONE THE WAY I HAVE LOVED U. YOU SEING ME IN YOUR STREET EVERYTIME IS because I CANT GET YOU OUT OF MY MIND.I THINK ABOUT U,DREAM ABOUT U. IF I DIDNT SEE YOU IN A WEEK,I MIGHT GO CRAZY HENCE MY REASON FOR COMING TO THIS STREET EVERYTIME.
What followed my statement were two resounding slaps from her and she burst into tears thereafter. It was the slap that brought people out and she told them am the one she's been talking about.
Her younger sister now explained to me that she didn't accept any man for years because she said she was waiting for someone. Not until the pressure were to much that she agreed to marry the said groom.
Now she is threatening to call of the weeding and she doesn't want to see me also.she's been indoors for days now,she hardly eat.
Fellow romancelanders, what should I do?
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Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Chiscomax(m): 3:46pm On Jan 06, 2017
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Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by 2dice01: 4:14pm On Jan 06, 2017
its not your fourth sir
But can you tell us who directed this blockbusting movie
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Cholls(m): 4:24pm On Jan 06, 2017
my brother now I see what zeeworld can do to people's brain.
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by firstking01(m): 4:36pm On Jan 06, 2017
This is hard to believeembarassed
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Elmojiid(m): 5:06pm On Jan 06, 2017
taaaa...u mean calling off the weeding lol,
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Donpoker9(m): 6:17pm On Jan 06, 2017
grin grin

Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Nobody: 6:39pm On Jan 06, 2017
Cholls:
my brother now I see what zeeworld can do to people's brain.
Nah.. This is African Magic Movie Channel
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by OhMyG0d: 8:49pm On Jan 06, 2017
2dice01:
its not your fourth sir
But can you tell us who directed this blockbusting movie
Yes, it's his Fifth
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by OhMyG0d: 8:50pm On Jan 06, 2017
Now, you're making me feel emotional.
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by OhMyG0d: 9:05pm On Jan 06, 2017
You didn't see any Green Light from her. When she's not Traffic Light.


When you see someone you like, why not just approach him/her and express your feelings than to wait(for fear of rejection) till s/he elude you. You then start having shock upon shock, seizure coupled with heart pain over your loss.
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by OhMyG0d: 9:51pm On Jan 06, 2017
[quote author=Ajewealth123 post=52586245][/quote]OP, i hope you send me an I.V when she finally reconsidered, Because you surely won't miss your Rib.
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by lhawarl1(m): 10:01pm On Jan 06, 2017
Cholls:
my brother now I see what zeeworld can do to people's brain.
exactly, abeg you fit commot the channel from gotv?
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Ajewealth123(op): 10:45pm On Jan 06, 2017
2dice01:
its not your fourth sir
But can you tell us who directed this blockbusting movie
the FAULT and not FOURTH man sir directed it
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Ajewealth123(op): 10:48pm On Jan 06, 2017
Cholls:
my brother now I see what zeeworld can do to people's brain.
am not a kid or a novel or story writer to frame up such thing. Maybe it's high time you guys move into the real world and actually grasp what is going on. This is my first write up on nairaland and am not here to sell stories so?
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Ajewealth123(op): 10:49pm On Jan 06, 2017
firstking01:
This is hard to believeembarassed
yea it's kinda hard to believe but it is the truth
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by 2dice01: 11:01pm On Jan 06, 2017
Ajewealth123:
the FAULT and not FOURTH man sir directed it
well i know sir..
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Kayoski(m): 11:27pm On Jan 06, 2017
This is really a dilemma
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by lhawarl1(m): 11:30pm On Jan 06, 2017
Ajewealth123:
yea it's kinda hard to believe but it is the truth
where in mushin? I stay around dah side
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by padi94(m): 11:37pm On Jan 06, 2017
e be like say i remember this film. na Paloma
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jan 06, 2017
Me :I see a gal I think I like I approach you
Highest na no u no go fit beat me
Instead of killing myself with thought!!!!
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by kkash: 11:57pm On Jan 06, 2017
Wat do u tk us for... Wch kind exaggerated lie be dis.... angry angry angry
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by cenamen: 1:18am On Jan 07, 2017
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Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by AndyMolarAllwel(m): 5:16am On Jan 07, 2017
see lie, na wa o o, oya kwantinu

Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by banme(m): 7:08am On Jan 07, 2017
Oy take am

Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by KINGwax007(m): 7:43am On Jan 07, 2017
Only stupid guys watch zeeworld... This guy don cast!!!
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by thowbie7ven(m): 7:46am On Jan 07, 2017
This is super story...
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Ajewealth123(op): 2:47pm On Jan 08, 2017
lhawarl1:
where in mushin? I stay around dah side
alaba/onilegogoro area
Re: Who Is At Fault? Real Life Dilemma by Ajewealth123(op): 2:50pm On Jan 08, 2017
KINGwax007:
Only stupid guys watch zeeworld... This guy don cast!!!
as u said,only stupid guys watch zee world and thank God I don't have the time luxury to sit down and watch a lengthy film like those of zee world, I did that when I was younger. So u also should get a life outside nairaland,there are lots of impossible things happening daily in the real world.
U think say the world dey revolve around nairaland?
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