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| I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Jodha(f): 9:29am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Well I didn't technically eat his money, he gave me (without me asking) and I collected. Although I don't see money as a criteria in choosing a spouse, I'm human, he kept insisting on wanting to take care of me(although I told him, I wanted him just as a friend) The thing is right now I'm confused, I mean I no longer spend money anymore, he does almost everything for(drives me wherever I go, takes me out daily, except I refused, takes me shopping etc), the truth is that I don't see him as anything more than a friend. Although he hasn't said anything related to sex, I'm scared (there's no free thing) at least in Nigeria. Should I keep collecting from him and pretend he's an angel sent from heaven to take care of my needs, or should I call it a quit (if I should, how do I do it)? No harsh words please, I just need your candid opinion. |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 9:36am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Jamb question  3 Likes |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 9:37am On Jan 08, 2017 |
U need to quit. How? One sure way I think is, make him read this post of urs or you can print it and take it to him to read. Thats my opinion. Am sure some wailers are fast on there way to do what de r good at. I will be waiting for d fun of it  9 Likes |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:39am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Interesting.....Lol......Put it in Clear terms to him that while you appreciate what he does for you and all,you're no longer comfortable with it and it has to stop because you see him as nothing more than a friend...If you do this and he continues, you have a choice to make....It's either you help chop the money that he obviously has no much use of or you reject it outrightly.....The ball is in your court. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Jodha(f): 9:42am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Thanks dearie, although he doesn't allow me refuse, he kept insisting strongly JeffreyJamez: |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:44am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Jodha: You sef resist strongly too..... But if his own resistance is stronger than yours after you've made your point clear, o baby chop away biko. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Young03(m): 9:46am On Jan 08, 2017 |
maga don pay enjoy yourself babe u force him giv u moni? He has money that's why he spending it on who doesn't need it |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by banme(m): 9:47am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Op 9 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by xendra: 9:48am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Funny enough a friend of mine had this kind of experience, thought the guy was coming for a relationship or something, she fell inlove with him told us about him so much that even though I never met him one-on-one I know him so well. but it broke her heart when he told her he was getting married. Turned out he was only being nice. My friend is married to someone else now but still very much in love with that guy. And she is not the only case I know I am not sure about your case but be careful he might or might not be coming for something. I believe if he wanted something he would ask, or you could ask him, directly or indirectly 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by eezeribe(m): 9:51am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Jodha: The best way to quit is to refund every dime he spent on you... Or pay him back in kind before quitting. If you quit without giving anything in return, you are a Gold digger... If you continue "eating" his money without reciprocating... You are one step away from being an OLOSHO.O 32 Likes |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Jodha(f): 9:55am On Jan 08, 2017 |
What if he later asks for something in return  Young03: |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by slimthugchimee2(m): 9:56am On Jan 08, 2017 |
IDGAF CREW HELP ME OUT 1 Like |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Jodha(f): 9:59am On Jan 08, 2017 |
K eezeribe: 1 Like |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Oladimejjy(m): 10:01am On Jan 08, 2017 |
keep collecting it bae......the day of reckoning is at hand. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by jejemanito: 10:05am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Jodha: 9 Likes
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| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Jodha(f): 10:06am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Please this crew should not invade my thread biko, I seriously need advice ehn 1 Like |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Jodha(f): 10:08am On Jan 08, 2017 |
What part of he insisted I should collect don't you understand? Oladimejjy: |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 10:16am On Jan 08, 2017 |
At least this one still has conscience. Please try show him some signs that you aren't interested in him but if his village witches insist on making him bankrupt, then so be it. 1 Like |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Jodha(f): 10:19am On Jan 08, 2017 |
I've given many signs (not picking his calls and all that) yet he keeps telling how rich he is, and how money is never his problem SirJeffry: 1 Like |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 10:27am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Jodha:In that case honey, please continue. I'm coming home soon and I wouldn't mind a driver too. Can I be your cousin? 4 Likes |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Jodha(f): 10:35am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Lol thanks dearie but I'm scared he'll demand for something else later SirJeffry: |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 10:39am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Jodha:Just tell him this your cousin dey gentle but he go fit make am do frog jump small if he try rubbish. Trust me, he will take a chill pill.  1 Like |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 10:45am On Jan 08, 2017 |
What's she saying? Claimed you don't want his money but you kept eating and he keeps cruising you around town with his car. Smh. I hope when his day to reap comes, you'll also 'reluctantly' let him harvest his produce Like someone rightly said, 'day of reckoning is coming' 1 Like |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Kobicove(m): 11:31am On Jan 08, 2017 |
There's no free lunch anywhere... Just bear in mind that you'll still pay back one way or another 1 Like |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by GoldenJAT(m): 12:53pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
ASK HIM of his intentions 2wards u...so u can PEACE OF MIND. 1 Like |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Jodha(f): 1:20pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
Thanks bro GoldenJAT: |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Mekzyzeus(m): 1:21pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
Jisox!!! You honestly think ya a good person?? You collect money from him, turned him into your personal cab man and induces him to take you shopping... that's really totally wrong! Funny how after exploiting the young man, you suddenly realize you ain't into him  The way I see it, you really led him on just for financial gain #LovePeddler Karma is real dear.. be careful and do the right thing( which you know already) 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by Jodha(f): 1:23pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
Wow that was kinda harsh, but do well to read what I posted again, maybe you don't understand. I totally typed the truth, he insisted on everything Mekzyzeus: |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by badinfluence: 1:26pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
Well op, the thing is... 2 Likes
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| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by jashar(f): 1:31pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
Nne bia....... |
| Re: I Ate His Money, What Do I Do? by HARDDON: 2:07pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
Op, there is something u shld know: There are alot of factors responsible for this... A. He sees u as a younger sis( probably he doesnt hv any n wished so much he did) b. He is so much in luv wit u he doesnt even know how to express it, so he is using d gifts as soft landing pads C. He sees u as his Wify n therefore can hold nothing back D. He is into some kinda voodoo. N probably d more u eat of his money, d more he gets E. He is not a strewpid Mr Nice guy that luvs ur company n ur ultimate well been n care is a top priority . I put it to u that if itz Option B or C, u alrready know ... u just rushed in here to confirm dat. But u really dont want d flow to stop. Have u ever asked him bout his GF? What he really wants from u? Yea i know u havent He came wit r/ship tots @ first but u told him off n Fzoned him so d spending can keep flowing U talking about resisting his gift is just a decoy. U know what u r doing. May he wake up from dis dream 2 Likes |
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