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AfonjaStinks:
Okay

Give me your contact

Try sending me a mail. And i will send it to you there

myzzudenyisarah:
lol..is it written on my forehead?

Smiles. ..not really, but i kw one when I see one. schooled there.

Sorry for the late reply, work called.

Raine80:
Most definitely, I am not adding another layer to his problems , I am not another mouth to feed that expect's and demands a lot but brings nothing to the table. I am there to add to his success. I am not coming from a feminist perspective but a real perspective life is a challenge why should it be solo approach when there is two of you in a marriage/relationship? You can be in either but you can still be your own person. Some women "park their lives" once they find someone but their demands and wants don't stay parked they multiply tenfold

Wonderful hearing this from a female, please re u married. lolz

you said up there that you re coming from a real perspective of life and not a feminist. hnmmmm. would have love you to Expatiate on this.

NairalandDSS:
There is always an amount of responsibility and obligation that drives you to think that you are no more independent and this raises several relationship problems including insecurity. While being in a relationship, it is important that you retain your individuality in your own way. It must never occur to you that now living life without your partner is impossible or difficult.

Here are 5 ways to be independent in a relationship.

1. Give him space – It is critical that you give him abundant space to be on his own. It is something every man needs and something he will love you for. Do not nag him continuously and if he has said “no” for something, let him be. If he does not like to accompany you for some party, do not pester him and go alone. You will earn respect in his eyes and this in turn will strengthen your relationship.

2. Make your own money – You must be financially independent. For the purpose of household expenses, it is fine to live on the expenses made by your partner but never become wholly dependent on him for cash. You should always have a source of income that will keep supplying you with a certain amount of money on a regular basis which will not let you slip into financial dependency, which will not let you be independent.

3. Never check up – This is a habit you must discard if you have at once. Never ever call up your partner and ask him where he is or what is taking him so long. Do not send text messages saying: “Why haven’t you called back?” because he might be enjoying a nice chat with old friends and answering your ridiculous query might turn him off. When you let him be, it shows how much you trust him and the same will be reciprocated when you will need to be on your own.

4. Spend some time alone – Learn to spend time alone. Think of the time when you had not met your partner. There were ways in which you kept yourself busy or spent your free time. Go back and do those things again and do not always stick your partner every time. You will discover that there is plenty of stuff you would want to do without your boyfriend/husband. Also, encourage your partner to do his own thing.

5. Trust him – Last but the not the least, you have to trust your partner. The very fact that you trust him and let him be will give enough encouragement to both of you to be independent in the relationship. Do not become so needy that you cannot stay for more than 5 minutes without talking to him and you constantly need to check up where he is or what he is up to. Trust him and you will see how healthy your relationship will become.

http://www.jeloser.info/2016/12/how-to-be-independent-in-relationship.html

MYND44 LALASTICLALA

All men are not the same bro... Doing all this might take the man's heart far away from the lady and he might as well just think she doesn't care. U don't use one yardstick to measure everyone.

Nairaland 'boys' can disrespect womennnn... chai

Alezy:
Smiles. ..not really, but i kw one when I see one. schooled there.

Sorry for the late reply, work called.

sorry for disappointing you I m not tiv but I m from Benue state
and sorry also for the late reply

myzzudenyisarah:
sorry for disappointing you I m not tiv but I m from Benue state and sorry also for the late reply

hnmmmm. ..surprised look.

idoma then

[color=deepskyblue] and u will have all and she will have another man do u even want a relationship?

Also most all relationships the woman is NOT financially dependant on her partner why do ya'll pretend u don't know most men do financially care for their. Woman's needs

U mistake a few cheap dates as financing her [/color]

Alezy:
hnmmmm. ..surprised look.

idoma then

nope nope nope!!!

myzzudenyisarah:
nope nope nope!!!

oh God, I give up.
Ur obviously not igede

Alezy:
oh God, I give up.

Ur obviously not igede

lol dnt I look like one? since I told you I m neither one of the tribes u mentioned earlier

myzzudenyisarah:
lol dnt I look like one? since I told you I m neither one of the tribes u mentioned earlier

Well, u look idoma. something still tells me u idoma.


well prove me wrong

Alezy:
Well, u look idoma. something still tells me u idoma.


well prove me wrong

A Full blooded igede (FBI)

myzzudenyisarah:
A Full blooded igede (FBI)

hnmmmm. ..fbi, very long I heard that (full blooded igede)


on Ur blue/black strip clothing's.

Alezy:
hnmmmm. ..fbi, very long I heard that (full blooded igede)


on Ur blue/black strip clothing's.

my blue/black strip clothing? what about it?

myzzudenyisarah:
my blue/black strip clothing? what about it?

oh that's Ur logo nau.

love it

Alezy:
oh that's Ur logo nau.

love it

oh there is white also..

myzzudenyisarah:
oh there is white also..

yes that's the colour. almost got it for a shirt then.


How are you?

Alezy:
yes that's the colour. almost got it for a shirt then.


How are you?

I am good and you?

myzzudenyisarah:
I am good and you?

m great. Thanks